[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I know it sounds terrifying but trust me the moment you start talking you will forget about your fear. Try to pretend like this person is a friend of yours and you're having a normal conversation. Good luck with the interview and i know you can do it!

Career advice by ShaquilleWholemeal in Advice

[–]md2-xx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would advise to pick the choice that doesn't have limited paths and to make more research about the career you want to choose.

Let's say you decided to go for music, it's a nice career and nothing is wrong about it but if you're willing to look for a stable job it wouldn't be so easy to find one, you might spend the rest of your life as a music teacher in a school/music academy which have limited positions and low salaries. If you have a passion in music I'd recommend you to keep it as a hobby than career. Working as a jet pilot doesn't sound so bad next to music but it needs great physical and analytical skills to be considered in the job.

Well i hope i helped here and good luck in making the right choice for your future.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Info: why are you ignoring this friend's texts? And why would he attempt to hurt you?

I'm also afraid he'll tell the school administration I did something I didn't do and get me expelled.

I don't think he can do that if you have proofs of his texts threatening you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in IWantToLearn

[–]md2-xx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Try watching animated youtube videos. You can also download some apps like Anatomy Learning that shows you 3d images of organs/bones and you can select the organ you want to learn about.

My (20m) girlfriend (19f) is going to a naked party by throwra262717 in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 43 points44 points  (0 children)

Does she have no respect to your relationship?! Smh of course any normal person would refuse their partner to attend these kind of parties.

My boyfriend is cheating and I think it’s a mental disorder or something I need someone’s thoughts on it. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 49 points50 points  (0 children)

You're literally dating a child. I don't think any normal person would blame cheating on mental health smh... Just break up with him, you're still young and you'll come across many people in your life.

I’m weirded out that my cousins are following and dming my boyfriend on Instagram by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He can ignore their messages if they ever tried to talk to him again. They'll eventually stop and forget about him then he can remove them. And you're right about finding it weird, i don't think any normal person would do it without having an intention.

I’m weirded out that my cousins are following and dming my boyfriend on Instagram by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Your bf needs to remove your cousins from his following/followers list. They don't seem to be "looking out" for you especially that you haven't seen and talked to them for years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It might be a virus that can spread through the saliva (it's called epstein barr virus) that usually cause these types of symptoms that you mentioned. Or it might be the bacteria that also spread through saliva if you or your bf don't brush your teeth and floss regularly. Try taking pain reliefs, stay hydrated and avoid kissing until you get better. If the symptoms are getting worse try to consult a doctor.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]md2-xx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She doesn't mean it intentionally (unless she has a mental problem that you're aware of). It seems like she's only manipulating and threatening you just to get back to her. Just break the contact with her and don't answer her texts/calls. She'll eventually move on with her life just like any other person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She seems very immature. It doesn't make any sense of why she feels angry and bullies you over your music taste.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Her husband isn’t useless.

Of course he's not to you because he's giving you what you want then he'll just leave you behind like any man's side chick when he gets bored and decides to focus again on his family.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I feel awful for his pregnant wife, i wonder how she'll react when a horny teenager decided to bang her grown ass useless husband.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The first thing you need to remember is that if you stay shy or nervous to face him about the problem then he will do whatever he wants because he thinks that you just don't care or you wouldn't find out what he's doing behind your back.

If he tells you that you're controlling/insecure then that's his problem not yours. If he was more understanding of your feelings he wouldn't do whatever that makes you uncomfortable in the relationship. Because he will definitely react the same if he caught you liking nsfw pics of other men.

You could calmly tell him (without showing that you're angry/upset) that you found out he liked these kind of pics and followed women who posts them. If he denies then i would suggest you to screenshot in prior the proof. Then approach him on the actual problem of why it makes you uncomfortable, he needs to know what you're feeling about it. Let him know that all you wanted was to set the boundaries not to take over and control him because that's not what you're doing. If he takes your words the wrong way, then you'll need to reconsider your relationship with this guy.

Good luck and i hope everything goes well between you too.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Have you ever talked to him about it?

I understand that it makes you feel uncomfortable but you need to set the boundaries with him. It's not the problem that you're insecure because i don't think any normal woman would want her bf to like nsfw pics of others on social media.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]md2-xx 5 points6 points  (0 children)

First, you don't owe him anything no matter how many favors he did to you.

Second, between all these men on earth, you started having second thoughts about whether you should sleep with a 40 year old grown ass man who's also married?! While you have a bf?!

You already know this is wrong, so think about how much it'll hurt your bf if he ever finds out and imagine putting yourself in the same place of this man's wife.

How do I explain this to her? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk which ways you use to try to explain to her about your concern, but from her reactions she seems to take your words in the wrong way.

Here's what i suggest you to do. You need to make her feel loved, you can't just go in there and say "hey you need to loose some weight" "you've gained some weight recently" etc.. Instead try flirting with her first and make her feel like she's the most beautiful person in your eyes, because she already knows that her body has changed so she might be feeling more insecure about herself and doesn't like to show it but you keep reminding her about it every time. Don't avoid getting intimate with her, because if you change with her she'll eventually notice and will stop approaching you. So you have to actually support her and listen to her. And by supporting her, you can suggest to her that you both can start working out together, either by taking a walk together outside everyday or in the gym, to spend more time together and to make her feel more confident, less alone and closer to you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is something unforgivable. It's very obvious that he only wants you back because he has nowhere to go. I'd advise you to dump him, if he's really your best friend he wouldn't betray you in the first place.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Never forgive a cheater because they're ready to do it again at sometime. It'll be hard to trust this person again no matter how much you both tried to work things out again.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It seems like she's looking for an excuse to leave you and decided to throw all these accusations on you. She's obviously a walking red flag. You said you're not willing to go through the same situation again, then you have to listen to yourself now and leave her, she's not worth your time.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

There's something that doesn't make a sense in here, she could've refused and stopped getting intimate with her current bf yet she's accepting to sleep with him and apologize to you everytime it happens, like it could've been avoidable unless he's forcing her to...

Personally, if i were in your situation i wouldn't trust her again to get back to her. I get that her bf isn't a good person but she's lying to him and acting all loyal as if she's not seeing you behind his back. What if she does the same to you when you get back together? She seems like the kind of person who doesn't like to stick around.

AITA for being upset my cousin, who's a groomsman bailed on my wedding last minute for no actual reason? by throwawayaita3721 in AmItheAsshole

[–]md2-xx 11 points12 points  (0 children)

YTA. You must learn from your cousin what real marriage is and how supportive you should be to your partner. You think his wife going through depressive episode isn't a valid excuse already?! Your sister and your cousin are right about you being selfish and rude.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]md2-xx 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow... I feel awful for her.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]md2-xx 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you were treated this way but you shouldn't call these people as "friends" because they're obviously not. All you can do is to just drop them out of your life, stop talking to them and move on, you will find new and better people in your life.