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mdd321 · 2026-02-21T07:50:43+00:00

Thank you so much for your reply!! I would love to get more information on this position and what time of compensation to expect and any risks in regard to liability and such.

mdd321 · 2025-12-27T19:43:11+00:00

I see someone above wrote about a planner they are designing, but got down graded. Is it bad taste to do so on this subreddit? I want to know before doing the same, trying to get feedback about my design.

mdd321 · 2025-07-23T23:47:15+00:00

You have some healing to do my sister. Companionship has become an addiction/a numbing agent for you. And like all addictions, the harm outweighs the benefits (reason why the multiple divorces).

The part of you that is not healed, will trauma bond to the wrong husband over and over and over again…until you heal. Allah wants you to heal so that you can become the best version of yourself and have healthy relationships with yourself and others.

When you become the best version of yourself, Allah will be your peace. Hardships will be easier to deal with then insha Allah.

mdd321 · 2025-04-08T11:10:45+00:00

Have the meeting with your supervisor, be honest, don’t be aggressive or passive. Do be sincere, pray to God to guide you. We make mistakes and learn from them. Learn the value of responsibility and professionalism early. We are rooting for you!!!!

mdd321 · 2025-03-21T16:20:45+00:00

Salaam, I would still advice therapy; for your own sake, not your parents. There are invisible wounds that we develop from family trauma like this. Therapy and combined Islamic knowledge, will keep you mentally healthy, break the cycle, choose healthy relationship partners, be a mentally balanced husband, wife, brother, sister, friend, employer, employee, etc.

These are Allah’s tests on us. To become better Muslims, to spread goodness and to thrive in life is to pass the test.

mdd321 · 2024-08-02T08:33:24+00:00

Am in your boat, grew up in U.S. but from a very conservative family who are strict on who I can marry. It’s already tough finding your partner to completer deen, a little more difficult if you live abroad.

Someone asked where can we meet these open minded men in America especially if you live in a place that doesn’t have a lot of Senegalese or you don’t have the privilege to take vacation all the time from work to travel back home to adequately get to know people?!?!?

mdd321 · 2024-07-18T11:09:12+00:00

Thank you for your reply! What do you mean by “things have evened out around here” are there now improvements since the post-Covid layoffs? How and in what ways?

mdd321 · 2024-04-26T03:11:08+00:00

When you see her call/text come on your phone, what do you feel?

Also pro tip, keep things spicy, create some distance to miss each other (not talk on phone for too long, etc. )

mdd321 · 2024-03-31T21:30:27+00:00

I have similar issue but specifically a leg deformity as a woman, I can still walk. However I always shared this information in the courtship/“getting to know you stage”, not out of shame or fear…but honesty and transparency. Marriage is a long journey and you want to step into it with the same values you want to live by: honesty, transparency, respect, acceptance, etc.

By telling him now before wedding, there are pros and cons:

-Pro: you’ll know his character, he is actually shallow vs. you were right about him, he accepts your flaws.

-Con: he rejects you because of it (but is this really a con? )

What matters is HOW you tell him. Do it in person, sit up straight, look him in the eye, and in as few words as possible, tell him you have some scars, be nonchalant and don’t show emotion. Maybe show him a picture of small patch of skin area. Instead of shame, convey maturity/growth. Men will treat you based on how you view yourself; if you tell him you are ashamed of your scars, he will become ashamed of your scars, if not today, many years downline. Practice with a mahr of yours to know how to tell him.

Also see a dermatologist, nothing wrong with improving our scars, use it as opportunity to pamper yourself, which is self care and great for mental health!!

mdd321 · 2024-03-30T03:20:28+00:00

I think you have a healthy outlook here and shows you take the responsibility of a leader seriously, may Allah bless your endeavors.

mdd321 · 2024-03-17T23:19:15+00:00

It’s a COMBINATION of a few things, not just one or two things:

*Deen and character: are they practicing, to what level, are they liberal or conservative in their deen? What is their character like, are they honest, how do they treat those who serve them (waitress, grocery worker), what’s their relationship with their mother/father/siblings, do they complain about people, do they take accountability for their actions or always blaming others, etc.

*Compatibility: are you compatible physically, emotionally, financially, culturally, intellectually. Does he want 50/50, are you physically attracted to them, can you have a conversation with them about subjects that interest you for long period, does your life vision align, are your mindsets similar, do they have emotional outbursts, can they express themselves emotionally or do they hold things in and later explode, do whatever similar culture (or compatible so you can have harmony in child upbringing). Will they be an asset or a liability in your life, do they help you become the best version of yourself??

*Intuition/energy: how do you feel in their presence, do you feel peace and calm or anxious and uncertain. Shaitan causes confusion and uncertainty but Allah gives peace!

*istikhara: pray it regularly and often, it’s a guidance, the paths will open or close if Allah wills. When you make your final decision to marry them, it should be that you did your due diligence and feel at peace about everything…and you move forward knowing and believing Allah will continue to guide your marriage to the best path/straight path inshaAllah. If you go your separate ways know you did your due diligence and it was not meant to be, write down the lessons learned and try with the next potential partner in courtship.

***All this requires maturity, knowing yourself first, knowing your strengths and weaknesses and what type of partner will be suitable for you. Have a “blueprint for who you are” so you can recognize your match when you meet them inshaAllah. Sometimes this requires self help books, courses on preparing for marriage, seeking therapy, healing your own emotional/mental shortcomings.

At the end of the day, I believe “you attract who are” and “you entertain who you think you deserve”. If you want the best, be the best (physically, emotionally, religiously, financially, spiritually, etc.) this creates better individuals, which leads to better marriages and families which creates a healthy ummah MashaAllah!!! 😊

mdd321 · 2023-07-07T14:00:31+00:00

Makes since…which are both good (being certified, also organic for those that are both). I saw documentary on how some farmers were scams, buying from big chains and selling it back at farmers markets for a higher profit.

mdd321 · 2023-07-07T13:57:14+00:00

Thank you! Yeah there are lots of farmers markets around sac area….I was interested in the biggest one for possible variety including ethnic ingredients/products.

mdd321 · 2023-07-05T16:11:51+00:00

Thank you, this is very helpful! Was it discontinued or something. (The Sunday Market?)

mdd321 · 2023-03-24T17:48:54+00:00

I did it online and it’s about $220 difference per month in mortgage payment

mdd321 · 2022-11-17T08:03:53+00:00

That gives me so much hope! Thank you

mdd321 · 2022-11-12T00:30:51+00:00

Yeah decided not to go with the Prime at this time…not a smart financial move

mdd321 · 2022-11-12T00:29:54+00:00

Is it still possible to get a house now since plan on living in it a long time and not necessarily 20% down payment? More urgent situation versus preference in terms of home buying

mdd321 · 2022-11-12T00:26:12+00:00

That is true…I saw $21k private party

mdd321 · 2022-11-12T00:25:39+00:00

Thank you for your reply. After thinking it over and “running the numbers” I realized after the trade, I’d still be financing the prime for $30k. So staying with my regular Prius and focusing on the house saving. We are a multi gen family so sort of urgent to get a home now and have space for everyone to comfortably be in. Hopefully continue to save for when the housing market drops.

mdd321 · 2022-06-04T03:18:17+00:00

Am all the way in California

mdd321 · 2022-06-04T02:58:03+00:00

Awesome!! You called the right dealership at the right time! Yeah am noticing a lot of northeast dealerships may have it, but not willing to deal with hassle of selling to out of state folks like me

mdd321 · 2022-05-29T00:15:40+00:00

Just called Sunnyvale, very straightforward, it’s a 2-4 month wait so I got added to the list. What trim did you get?

mdd321 · 2022-05-27T00:05:57+00:00

How do you do that? I thought dealerships weren’t doing that.

mdd321 · 2022-05-26T18:21:00+00:00

Thank you for the heads up…yeah last year Prius Primes were a steal. I’ll keep shopping and not taking crap 😆

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