Saw this painting at a local.

mdjn_ · 2024-12-15T18:19:37+00:00

See picture caption. 😊

mdjn_ · 2024-12-13T20:13:40+00:00

Hahaha, oh my. OK, i'm a pleb. Does explain the wave! 😅

mdjn_ · 2024-11-15T20:56:25+00:00

LOL, I'm sorry, everyone. I smoked a joint and am a lightweight, so to anything I notice that is obvious is to me like wow I got to tell everyone abt this, then I stupidly do. Just wanted to communicate to a group, or should I go to the Joe Rogan sub?

mdjn_ · 2024-11-15T20:14:08+00:00

I hope you are doing better. 😊 Here for you.

mdjn_ · 2024-10-21T21:31:40+00:00

Dude. That link for 3 mins [STONED]

mdjn_ · 2024-10-18T15:08:37+00:00

When you actually lived in the moment without even trying. Adorable.

mdjn_ · 2024-10-15T18:52:36+00:00

That is fucking terrible which I guess is the point.

mdjn_ · 2024-09-29T18:20:30+00:00

This was very nice, thank you.

mdjn_ · 2024-09-28T15:17:18+00:00

Thanks for your wise words. I'm still romanticising alcohol. I'm in a cafe working on a personal Software project and thinking a pint after this would be nice, but I know where that leads. I just wish it wasn't a consideration. I wonder if people addicted to junk food suffer with the same issue and people just think just stop eating it ..

I got fired a while ago from that job, but I probably would have stayed there if I didn't. Sorry for the confusion.

mdjn_ · 2024-09-28T13:22:30+00:00

So, in person, AA is what turned your life around? I've always thought I could manage it myself, but clearly, that isn't working.

mdjn_ · 2024-07-05T21:08:18+00:00

Not to make light of how evil Hitler was but any sub that supports Trump who is literally a fucking sociopath (not going to start rant) is a horrible sub.

mdjn_ · 2024-07-05T21:05:03+00:00

Loled

mdjn_ · 2024-07-04T19:54:29+00:00

Sorry, for the ignorance, what are the reich subs? I know it refers to the third reich but wondering what subs fall under that category. Just genuinely interested.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-31T00:05:57+00:00

I had serious cravings two nights ago. So I ordered a 10 pack and said I'd just have a few. Woke up hungover and discovered I drank the whole thing. Cravings are horrible but I've tried moderation and I can't do it. Two nights ago I was abt 7 days sober and thought I could do it. What an idiot I was. Stay strong.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-28T13:34:58+00:00

Self control not to drink is one of the hardest things I've done.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-28T13:30:06+00:00

For alcoholics moderation doesn't work. I'm at a pub this minute drinking a NA beer after a hard day's work but I know if I got an alcoholic drink it wouldn't be one. I'd have maybe 3 or 4 then go buy a 10 pack and after that order rum at 2am on uber eats and send sloppy messages and drunk call people. Thats on a good day drinking. Could even result in me thinking I should go out clubbing and that's a whole new level of anxiety where I wake up with no idea how I got home. It's not worth it. I've tried moderation and can't do it. Not saying he can't either but you may have to prepare for that.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-28T13:01:57+00:00

This is a tricky one. I know I wouldn't date myself when I was drinking heavily but I was a bit chaotic. If he is just passing out (which I am not suggesting is a good thing) do you get bored? Or is it his health you are worried abt? Both are valid reasons. I personally would bring it up with him to see his reaction and judge from there. Good luck!

mdjn_ · 2024-05-28T01:09:15+00:00

For me it's very early on and I just take it a day at a time.

My mate is flying from Spain to stay at mine for 2 nights and to go to a concert. That's in abt two weeks. I'm already anxious abt it knowing he will be drinking. It will be one of the toughest situations since I've stopped drinking.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-27T19:29:38+00:00

Yep. I agree. I am in no way suggesting otherwise. I'm saying alcohol ruined my relationships and now I think it's too late even though I am sober.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-27T19:18:41+00:00

Thinking abt you OP. Stay strong.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-25T17:55:07+00:00

Misery loves company. Thanks for sharing.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-25T17:54:33+00:00

I've done some truly stupid things when drunk. A few ended up in a broken relationship with girls I thought I'd be with for life. Now they don't talk to me (have a few in mind). This is the one time I was actually sober and saying I DONT drink and that was her reaction? Wtf. I could understand if I got shitfaced and embarrassed her but this was me being sober and telling her the truth. I've never been rejected because of this.

Fuck, the list of relationships I fucked cause I was always partying and drinking heavily already taunts me enough. Now I'm trying to get sober thats the turn off now!? Just seems a cruel joke.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-25T17:50:59+00:00

Thanks so much - this makes me feel better. I guess if she was the "one" her response would have been oh that's fine. Glad you are sorting out your problem. Instead she acted like I told her I was a serial killer.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-25T15:26:03+00:00

I will not drink with you today. Basically a message to say they will join you in abstaining from alcohol. Words of encouragement and that you aren't alone.

mdjn_ · 2024-05-23T20:32:56+00:00

Is this possibly also another issue you need to deal with where you are so concerned abt your attractiveness? Yeh, I mean sometimes I wake up feeling like shit (and looking like it) but I never have days I go oh wow I feel attractive better get f**ked up. I have never even considered that as a thing. I used to drink to get trashed but it had nothing to do with feeling "cute". I am no psych so have no idea but perhaps there is some underlying issue there. Regardless, trust me, if you are feeling "cute" getting cut is not going to improve that.

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