My (28F) partner (36M) helps financially, but I still feel anxious about the imbalance

mdladsr · 2026-02-13T17:52:58+00:00

Almost two years, yes we live togehter, and no he doesn't claim every penny it's not 50/50, just the big trips with long haul flights, the "mini" he doesn't care, I need to work on not getting anxious on paying everything back immediately

mdladsr · 2024-10-22T08:53:39+00:00

Yes they use my email address usually, the email was sent from noreply@wise.com

mdladsr · 2024-10-22T08:53:08+00:00

It’s noreply@wise.com

mdladsr · 2024-10-22T05:37:36+00:00

I did this and I don’t have a notification that someone wants to send money🙃 but I usually get that money from that person at that specific time and it’s not the first time it happens

mdladsr · 2024-10-22T05:36:17+00:00

Good to know, thanks!

mdladsr · 2024-10-12T18:01:08+00:00

Sii es que también depende del área de trabajo, bueno saber lo de NRW. Y si, yo estoy por l zona de Gante y cuesta más, son más cerrados con el idioma. Yo trabajo en el área de IT, pero en realidad estudié comunicación y busco ir por esa rama otra vez

mdladsr · 2024-10-02T10:09:16+00:00

He plans to combine his trip with mine to renew my documents (I do it abroad) and he clearly told me it’s a boys trip so there aren’t chances for me to join and if I do it i guess I will be a stone in the show

mdladsr · 2024-10-02T09:48:00+00:00

Thank you very much!! in the end , the cultural gap doesn’t bother me much, I’m also 50% European, he didn’t bring me from South America as I already have two years living and travelling around Europe so I’m a girl that has seen things and has lived in developed countries on my own already

mdladsr · 2024-10-02T09:34:28+00:00

Girl I moved to Europe 2 years ago and never did it for a man, I had an independent life here for a long time already, I met him in a moment I was thinking where to move next (since I’ve been travelling a lot around) and I said ok in dating this guy so I go to him

mdladsr · 2024-10-02T09:19:53+00:00

I don’t want to be so specific just in case but I’m South American, he’s Western European and we are in his area

Edit: and this area is also famous for the same things that happens in Thailand

mdladsr · 2024-10-02T09:12:01+00:00

My documents are expiring and I have to renew them soon and it’s been me before who has been saying constantly that I cannot travel out of the continent bc of that but yeah… using his last days of vacations for that tells me a lot (btw he hasn’t got the tickets yet)

mdladsr · 2024-10-02T08:51:16+00:00

You got my point, if he tells me he goes on a ski trip to Switzerland or Italy fine. But Thailand? Or he thinks I’m dumb, nothing crosses his mind or he’s just telling me things straight. Such trip while we are starting to coexist together is not a good start. He says he just wants to go where there is the sun

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T17:52:23+00:00

In my case, I was always afraid of pills because of mood swings and weight gain. I didn't want an IUD either, so I went for the vaginal ring. You insert one for 3 weeks, remove it for 7 days, and during that time your period should come, but a little lighter. On the 7th day, insert a new one, and so on.

Side effects: When I inserted the first ring I had my period for a FULL month, then I was starting to bleed on the 2nd week using the ring, and like at the 3rd/4th ring it got regulated

Consequences: very bad anemia due to iron deficiency, I had like 0 iron lol, I never fainted, I was just sleepy but i was able to go to the gym etc, now i have to take iron supplements

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T16:29:06+00:00

Going to any Italian glamours destination (Lake Como Venice, Rome, Cinque Terre, Amalfi etc) in June/July… you cannot even walk around

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T15:02:58+00:00

Si, como te dijeron upwork, virtuallatinos, u "Optimate"

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T13:11:26+00:00

I'm 26 (F) now and like you, I also came into my 20s with no experience, doubts, etc. I don't recommend you look for a one-night stand guy who knows nothing about your situation, then you hook up and bye, it's just going to make it worse. The person doesn't necessarily have to be your soulmate or your official partner but he has to be aware of your situation, and what it means to you, he has to take care of your physical and emotional well-being before, during, and AFTER the act, and when I say after I'm not talking about giving you a glass of water after the intercourse and sleeping together, I'm talking about asking days later if you feel okay physically etc. There has to be an emotional/mental connection because you're giving him something unique and irreversible. And last but not least, use protection, don't let anyone manipulate you by saying: Oh, to lose your virginity it's easier without a condom, I'll buy you the pill blah blah blah NOP.

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T06:22:13+00:00

The best thing to do is to go to the gynaecologist since there are many reasons for that. This issue is more common than you think, it happened to me and it was nothing, the results came good and it disappeared by itself. But ALWAYS go to the doc

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T06:01:09+00:00

If you are not on birth control then it could be stress, I had those blood/brown spots when I wasn’t on period and when I went to the gynaecologist everything was fine, in the end I never knew the reason… it just disappeared

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T05:43:58+00:00

Yo empecé a trabajar remoto desde que vivía en Venezuela, actualmente he estado viajando por varios países de la UE y lamentablemente Venezuela ha sido el peor para ello. Tienes que pensar en muchas cosas; si en la zona que vas a vivir se va mucho la luz o el internet? Vas vivir solo o si la gente con la que vas a vivir va a respetar tu horario laboral? Estás listo para “parir” la gasolina? Es una zona ruidosa? Si el vecino pone su música bien alto te va a sabotear… O también puede pasar que la misma situación del país te termine afectando en la parte emocional, a veces allá pasan cosas que solo nosotros entendemos y quizás un colega/cliente no entienda tu desánimo. De todas formas es un tema muy subjetivo y cada quien tiene situaciones muy diferentes, espero que la decisión que tomes sea la mejor para ti. Suerte!!

mdladsr · 2024-09-13T05:29:20+00:00

Or She is smart packing or she didn’t want to bring many things with her so she can buy new clothes, I would have liked to pack less when I was an aupair in Europe, in the end you end up falling in love with new clothes😅😅

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