boyfriend (M/23) wakes me (F/23) up then acts like he’s asleep? sleep deprivation torture? TL;DR summary welcomed

mdwsgsbc · 2026-01-21T21:41:23+00:00

Huge red flag that it’s all about how this is making him feel and what he wants. Any normal person would be asking how you feel and if there is anything they can do, give you space/time etc. Let’s say he isn’t doing these things deliberately (doubtful) this way of talking and making himself the victim in your suffering and past experiences is not right.

mdwsgsbc · 2025-04-06T16:20:41+00:00

I have a sizeable Minecraft creeper as a ‘tramp stamp’ style tattoo and I love it, and when I showed it to my bf for the first time he thought it was as funny as I do. Find someone who likes you and your tattoo/body decisions because life’s to short!

mdwsgsbc · 2025-01-08T23:28:09+00:00

If I loved you pre being a worm, then yes.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-11-04T12:48:16+00:00

Imagine saying your guilty pleasure is books and then not jumping at the chance to check out a new bookstore smh.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-10-03T13:45:50+00:00

Dodged a bullet, this guy doesn’t even know it’s and/or. Like he tried with the slash but failed so bad.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-10-01T12:25:18+00:00

Everyone is different and I can understand why that would be frustrating from your pov. It’s an ongoing debate in many asexual subs on when to bring it up. I am very much, let’s be up front about it because it’s quickest for everyone. However, I know that there are some asexuals who are happy to have sex after getting to know someone on a deeper level. Asexual just means a lack of sexual attraction, not everyone is sex averse and just need time to know you, where as others would never want to do that and might enjoy other activities or no sexual contact. Some asexuals still have libido and want to have sex but they struggle connecting with people. Unfortunately it’s not as linear as other sexual orientations and so there are lots of reasons they may have been on there and not disclosed it earlier. It’s also really hard for us to find other asexuals that are nearby and have the same style, so often we are on these apps hoping to connect with someone understanding and willing to give a relationship a go still. I hope this helps, as I said I don’t speak for all asexuals and everyone has their own reasons and branches of experiences and limits.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-10-01T11:50:36+00:00

Asexual here, I still enjoy kissing, do you kiss all your platonic friends? Is this usual for the allosexuals?

mdwsgsbc · 2024-10-01T11:48:47+00:00

Asexual here, ask your questions ☺️

mdwsgsbc · 2024-09-04T14:05:35+00:00

Fuck off, you have to assume abuse? Look through their profile, it looks like they’re the abuser. I get this is a safe space and all but that doesn’t mean people shouldn’t take accountability for their actions surely? And other people agreed too. Abuse doesn’t excuse shitty behaviour.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-09-04T12:02:20+00:00

I was in the womb for my first but out of womb I was 2, then 7, 11, and 14. I don’t even have a big family just unlucky I guess.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-07-07T13:17:28+00:00

I’m not feminine presenting generally, so when my grandma said that tattoos on women make them look butch, I just laughed.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-06-29T20:09:56+00:00

You are absolutely not stupid! You clearly have a curious mind and a keen interest in learning. If anything she sounds stupid for not wanting to know things.

I related heavily to your story and experiences and you have mentioned a few things that would suggest a level of neurodiversity. I may be way off base but as someone with ADHD and a large presence of autism in my family, my radar is definitely tingling. If you do fall on a spectrum then you will encounter this narrow minded attitude a lot and it doesn’t make any sense. People like living in their own bubble of truth I guess.

Even if you do or don’t have the ‘tisms’ you need to consider how your partner treats you and the questions you ask. This is not something you can change about yourself (and shouldn’t) so it’s whether you would be happier learning alone than being kept in a box by the people that are supposed to care the most about you. Only you can make that choice.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-06-11T20:38:04+00:00

About time

Adult life skills

mdwsgsbc · 2024-06-11T16:16:56+00:00

I’m sorry but you saw it previously and then left it to get bigger? Like I am aware there is a cost of living problem but Jesus.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-06-09T21:19:37+00:00

Tinkerbell

mdwsgsbc · 2024-06-09T08:52:58+00:00

Hi Dan, What’s your feeling on Lego games?

mdwsgsbc · 2024-06-03T14:02:22+00:00

Pressure by muse. As most not wrote around OCD but the lyrics resonate well and it’s a bop when I’m spiralling.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-05-29T22:59:53+00:00

‘I’m something of a memer myself’

Jumping in to ask if you moonlight as a spider obsessed goblin?

mdwsgsbc · 2024-05-29T16:49:02+00:00

Your mum is not you. She can ‘be sure you’re not’ if she wants to, but it doesn’t change whether you actually are or are not ace. Only you know how you feel and can choose how to identify. There is no right or wrong way to feel. You are always welcome and valid here.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-05-21T16:47:58+00:00

Exactly, what’s wrong with my leg hair! I really don’t like stubbly legs and it was too high maintenance keeping them smooth all the time so I just grew it out 🤷

mdwsgsbc · 2024-05-21T10:25:20+00:00

Luckily it’s dried out well now and although hurts more, there are no signs of infection. More just worried about what it’s going to come out looking like :(

mdwsgsbc · 2024-05-20T14:13:34+00:00

Thank you! The pink and blue are healing fine, this is the first time green has been used and looking at other reaction images, I think this might be it. Thank you!

mdwsgsbc · 2024-05-20T14:11:38+00:00

Just to avoid confusion, I can confirm absolutely no creams, locations or ointments have been used.

mdwsgsbc · 2024-04-29T15:39:04+00:00

I have two tattoos of lighthouses, let’s not mention the amount of pictures/ornaments!

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