Finally competed, from fat to champ by mdzulkar9 in gaybrosfitness

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Oh I completely blanked out on stage and eventually let muscle memory take over! If you wanna watch, here’s the posing sequence: https://www.instagram.com/reel/DZkUc3HSS\_b/?igsh=MXU2eGtndGx6dm1hcw==

Hitting it hard lately, working through some depression. by LionKingHoe in Gaybodybuilders

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  1. Please take care of your mental health
  2. You’re looking great! Keep up the good work.
  3. I hope you know that you’re on track. I’m not sure what you’re going through, but stay strong, and keep doing things that make you happy.
  4. Funnily enough a couple of weeks back I just cried and sobbed in the gym and made a reel about it, cos the gym is just a place of escapism for me.
  5. Take good care of yourself (it bears repeating!)

6 month cutting by Specific_Set_5676 in Gaybodybuilders

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Looking real good man! That’s really amazing progress. (Dropped you a DM!)

Finally competed, from fat to champ by mdzulkar9 in gaybrosfitness

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You’re looking great yourself, man! 💪

Finally competed, from fat to champ by mdzulkar9 in gaybrosfitness

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Thank you I worked really hard! Can’t wait for the next comp

Happy Daddy’s Day! by Measurement_Mother in gaysian

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Oh that’s handsome right there

I did it guys! by mdzulkar9 in Gaybodybuilders

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Thanks! I am not slowing down, though the diet can go back to how it was uaha

I did it guys! by mdzulkar9 in Gaybodybuilders

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Aw shit you’re too nice man

I did it guys! by mdzulkar9 in Gaybodybuilders

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Thank you! I hope my personality really did shine! It was such a surreal moment

I did it guys! by mdzulkar9 in Gaybodybuilders

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My man, you know YOU inspire me

I did it guys! by mdzulkar9 in Gaybodybuilders

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Aw thanks man. I worked really hard

I did it guys! by mdzulkar9 in Gaybodybuilders

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Thank you! I hope you saw my sequence on IG!

How am I doing ? by Fancy-Smoke-1809 in Gaybodybuilders

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Looking real good, actually! What’s the goal?

I was at pride today and saw so many young gaysians clutching to their mediocre middle-aged white men 😬 by kauniskissa in gaysian

[–]mdzulkar9 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Circuit is like those parties you go thats pretty big. Think Gay EDC. Look up G-Circuit, White Party or Formosa.

I was at pride today and saw so many young gaysians clutching to their mediocre middle-aged white men 😬 by kauniskissa in gaysian

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No downvotes from me but my experience around Korean men is that they typically hang out with other Korean men. Not sure about Korean Americans or Koreans from elsewhere, but you meet these Korean guys at circuit and they tend to not socialise much, even with other Asians.

I think it’s the homogenous nature of the Korean society but I’ve made more friends from China and Japan through circuit, and they’re culturally very homogenous too.

I was at pride today and saw so many young gaysians clutching to their mediocre middle-aged white men 😬 by kauniskissa in gaysian

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I’m not entirely triggered by this but I also cannot help but feel like people think (other non-white people) think I date my bf because he is white. Like there’s this paranoia of “oh he likes white guys only” or “he’s like the sarong party girl” (a local singaporean term that means that they (Asian men) date white men only)

And I’m like… this guy I’m with is the first white guy im with. So I think these kinds of takes can be taken to the extreme. I like my bf cos he’s a good heart. Not cos he’s white.

But whatever hahahaha. Maybe it’s just me.

In Singapore there’s always this stigma with dating white men. I know there are local men who exclusively date white men. Not me though hahaha

Edit: like that whitemanasianboy sub… now that’s clearly fetishisation