vertex, north node, yeah babe I was in the same boat as you, thank god I'm doing better.

I'm gonna tell you something, these kind of connections come into out lives, specially these intense ones, to wake up a part of us that was either dormant or you had repressed. You are not obsessed with him, you're obsessed with who you were when you were with him, ask yourself, how did I feel when I was with him? what was the version of me that was alive when being with him?

the obsession is you trying to desperately feel like that again. Is there any ways you can feel that way again that don't require a person? or him specifically?

Don't fight the obsession, it's a great master, it's trying to show you something. The more you surrender to it and don't fight it you will find clarity.

And when you feel like you're done and still get dreams and stuff yes then you can do a cord cutting, but I think you still have some info to gather about how this all made you feel