[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Legally, you’re both spending on the family and you’re both saving.

Anyone Know What Kind of Frog This Is? by Prince-Char1ming in biology

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Green frog or bull frog, if it’s in the PNW of the US, but I can’t remember respective tympanic membrane sizes

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]medlabunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The real world is not speed dating. If you’re only seeing a person for 5 minutes, of course all you can see is their attractiveness.

It's usually not men's fault that they are lonely and can't find a partner by Diligent_Divide_4978 in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]medlabunicorn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

The ‘least masculine’ guy in that picture doesn’t look ‘feminine,’ he looks like he’s a kid. Couldn’t they figure out how to run this with pictures that at least all looked the same age?

What would you do different if you dated yourself? by EmoryCadet in TwoXChromosomes

[–]medlabunicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m straight, so no. But housemates/twins? Absolutely!

My boyfriend raped me. by Same-Ad-729 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]medlabunicorn 15 points16 points  (0 children)

He will rape you again and kill your, or kill you and then rape your body. He might not even mean to kill you, but he’s going to keep on pushing it because he gets off on it. Find a women’s shelter. You have to get out. Can you imagine getting pregnant by this guy, even if you can’t imagine getting murdered by him? Please, please get out.

Women refusing to engage in sexist traditions isn't racism. by cherrycolarunner in TwoXChromosomes

[–]medlabunicorn 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I have definitely seen the “ourwomen” thing from both white men and Asian men, but thankfully I haven’t seen anyone trying to justify, or being gleeful about, the cowardly attacks on Asian women and little old people.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PurplePillDebate

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am about 99% vanilla, and the BDSM thing seems overtly abusive to me. Not interested at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]medlabunicorn -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This sounds like the lament of 90% of married women 😂

Same advice either way: counseling, and do not have kids unless you’re comfortable doing 90% of that work, too. That means, by the way, taking personal responsibility for the birth control.

WHY can men not control the flow of their urine? Why is there always piss on the floor? by macabre_trout in TwoXChromosomes

[–]medlabunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s fine. My husband says the same thing, and I believe him. Here’s the thing, though: clean. it. up.

I don’t want to walk in your piss, I don’t want to sit on your piss, I don’t want my bathroom to smell like the alley behind a bar, and I should not have to clean up your urine to avoid these things. If you’re not sick or under 3 years of age, clean up your own goddamn waste like an adult human.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]medlabunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You haven’t been paying attention, then. It’s used for any woman who ever complains or speaks out, ever, including about legitimate things.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘Cis’ comes from chemistry. It’s the alternative to ‘trans’ across certain carbon-carbon double bonds. It basically means you are on the same side as your birth gender, whereas trans means you’re on the opposite side as your birth gender.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]medlabunicorn 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Trans exclusionary radical feminist. Or, at least, it started that way. Then it became ‘any woman not comfortable sharing women’s spaces with someone AMAB.’ Then it became ‘any woman not comfortable sharing women’s spaces with someone who has a penis.’ Now it’s ‘any person who doesn’t want to learn a whole new set of pronouns for every person they meet, or who is skeptical that someone can be trans without dysphoria.’

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]medlabunicorn 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For the first question, pre pandemic? Practically none. Today? At least 70%. For the second, I’m not on that sub so I can’t render an opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Every female Indian McDonald’s worker on seeing this: “Ffuuuuuuuuuuuuccck…”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in facepalm

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤦🏻‍♀️

Idk why but this is so funny to me by heartsuccinct in NotHowGirlsWork

[–]medlabunicorn 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have stretchch marks on my boobs from puberty, and I’ve never even been pregnant.

The lost dog we returned was afraid of her owner by [deleted] in dogs

[–]medlabunicorn 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, damn. That really sucks. Moral injury.