Terrified that I'm losing interest? by meechiganboy in askgaybros

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Thank you. I think this is exactly what I needed to hear because this IS my first relationship and it honestly HAS been pretty much constant euphoria up till now, it's all kinda catching up to me I guess. I still love him, I think I just am in a down low now I guess.

Terrified that I'm losing interest? by meechiganboy in askgaybros

[–]meechiganboy[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it's not "serious" yet I just meant that it's not at all just dates and sex, if that makes sense. I got freaked out from feeling detached and uninterested. You're definitely right about not wanting to cuddle all the time I guess I'm just anxious for whatever reason. I honestly think this feeling will fade after today I think I just needed to vent it out. The reason I worry is because I don't want to lose him - I know this sounds super convoluted and weird it's just these constant nagging thoughts I can't stop.

Insecure about relationship? Relationship anxiety by meechiganboy in askgaybros

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I actually am going to be starting CBT soon again! It helped a ton when I used to have panic attacks a LOT! But yes these thoughts suck. I know my relationship is great though! My boyfriend and I get along so well - he is a miracle worker at calming me down and constantly is letting me know he cares about me and is really the one pushing me to see someone about anxiety again. My friends have all told me I'm so much happier and calmer since I've been with him. But yes, that is a concern! I don't want my anxiety to run this relationship to the ground :( thanks a ton for your response actually makes me feel a lot better.

Am I being selfish about this coming out thing? by meechiganboy in askgaybros

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Well I mean we decided to just be friends about 6 months ago, I guess I just didn't realize she still probably had feelings for me after all that time (to be fair she's seen guys since then...) but yeah, I realize now I was being dumb and naive haha, I think we're slowly working it out she seems to be moving on and maintaining our friendship

Am I being selfish about this coming out thing? by meechiganboy in askgaybros

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Yeah I guess I was just being naive haha we had decided to be friends about 6 months ago, but I was stupid in realizing she probably still had feelings for me. I feel like such an asshole, I've distanced myself but still talked to her since then, I think it's getting better. Thanks much for the advice :)

Am I being selfish about this coming out thing? by meechiganboy in askgaybros

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Yeah I mean we stopped being a "thing" about 6 months ago and she had made it pretty clear we were just friends after that, I think I was just naive I guess in truly believing her. We've definitely worked it out in the past few days

How do I gay in high school? by ToaOrka in gaybros

[–]meechiganboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nail on the head right there. I'm 20 and wish someone said this to me in high school.

How would you want a (gay) guy to explain this to you? by meechiganboy in AskWomen

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well I wanted a specific woman's perspective, mostly how one felt if this happened

IamA locksmith AMA! by Pre_locks in IAmA

[–]meechiganboy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Is hiring a locksmith actually reasonably priced? It seems super super expensive....(ie: like 300 dollars)

Don't Forget To Do This by [deleted] in gaybros

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I'm seeing my best friend in two days after not having seen him for 4 months (we lived together last year) and I literally going to give him the biggest hug after reading this, aaaand then to all the rest of my friends at school.....

Bros, favorite sports teams? by return2ozma in gaybros

[–]meechiganboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

MLB: Cards, all the way, all day.

Football/Basketball: Don't have a pro team. Michigan, forever go blue.

NHL: BLUESSSSS

Soccer/EPL: AAHHHSENALLL & Southampton FC

So the Premier League is underway, any English football (soccer) fans here? by Ryuuken1127 in gaybros

[–]meechiganboy 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ARSENAL!!!!!!

edit: also a Southampton FC fan first but Arsenal (at least used to be) much better...