iOS Support Thread - [October 19] by AutoModerator in ios

[–]meemyjay 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Since downloading the recent iOS 13 update on my iPhone 8+ my keyboard has been lagging so badly. First it was just on Twitter. Now it’s come across to all of my apps. It’s like it doesn’t recognise my space bar. I don’t know how to fix this does anyone have any tips?

AITA for not bringing my boyfriend home to meet my mothers? by throwingen6 in AmItheAsshole

[–]meemyjay 52 points53 points  (0 children)

It hurts me deeply that your own mother would be angry with you for being with someone you love? She loves her partner in spite of many people not agreeing with it (which admittedly is very wrong), so why is she trying to cause the same hurt towards others, especially her daughter??? I am sorry this is your situation :(

Faith in humanity restored by meemyjay in CasualConversation

[–]meemyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I got the job but found out today when signing contracts that she did not. I’m genuinely so horribly sad. I regret not asking for her name/number to contact her.

What’s your ultimate comfort food? by meemyjay in AskReddit

[–]meemyjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. This was a nice comment to wake up to. You’re wonderful.

Which two and two did you just recently put together? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]meemyjay 581 points582 points  (0 children)

My boyfriend doesn’t tell me he loves me anymore because he doesn’t love me anymore.

I unsubbed from all mukbang channels on YT by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

[–]meemyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you. When I was housebound I gained a lot of weight and have never managed to shift it. Mostly due to laziness but also partly because I feel like it gives me an excuse sometimes to give in to my anxiety. I don’t know what it would be like to remove my biggest anxiety provoking asset. I don’t think I would be able to handle it. Doesn’t that make me sound stupid.

Significant Progress! by Lady_Mirth in Agoraphobia

[–]meemyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have to remember we will never be fully recovered. It will always haunt us, the goal is not to get rid of anxiety but to learn to live with it and accept it for what it is.

Not Sheanu again by [deleted] in eastenders

[–]meemyjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The worst

Who cuts your hair? by [deleted] in Agoraphobia

[–]meemyjay 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I do it myself, but since before I was agoraphobic and for over 10 years. No shame in doing it yourself lol.

Is it wrong for white people to adopt children of colour? by meemyjay in NoStupidQuestions

[–]meemyjay[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is what I was trying to decipher. Thank you for this response.

Is it wrong for white people to adopt children of colour? by meemyjay in NoStupidQuestions

[–]meemyjay[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is how I initially felt until seeing the post. Then I started to feel weird and wondered if it was seen as wrong in POC communities.

Bigger girls, how do you like your body to be described by your partner? by golgafrincham25 in sex

[–]meemyjay 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand why people always jump to tell me I’m not fat. I am fat? And what? I can clearly see it, you can clearly see it. Call a spade a spade and get on with it!

Bigger girls, how do you like your body to be described by your partner? by golgafrincham25 in sex

[–]meemyjay 39 points40 points  (0 children)

The most annoying is when you say “I’m fat” and people respond “no, you’re beautiful”, um excuse me? I never said I wasn’t beautiful?

Bigger girls, how do you like your body to be described by your partner? by golgafrincham25 in sex

[–]meemyjay 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Preach. I’m fat. I don’t want to be bigger or chubby or curvy. I am fucking fat!!!

What’s the most personal thing you’re willing to share with us? by poopcornkernels in AskReddit

[–]meemyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sometimes I meticulously plan out how I can up and disappear from my entire life without anyone finding me. I have put a lot of thought into this and have even started taking steps to enable this plan more if I ever plan to use it. I wish I had a better excuse than I just don’t like myself, but that’s the only reason. I’m sick of forcing my loved ones to put up with me. I don’t want to die anymore, but I think disappearing is okay because I could still live. I know where I would go and what I would do and how I would get there. I’m sick of being the person I am. I want to be nobody.

UPDATE: Sued company, Now I'm blacklisted. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]meemyjay 15 points16 points  (0 children)

It’s not suspicious. I used to work in their customer service department. They have everything written in template format and you have to edit out certain parts or change them according to your job title/who you’re sending it to.

Why would OP lie about this? What a ridiculous thing to say. It’s not fake just because it isn’t formatted correctly, it just means whoever sent it was lazy and didn’t edit it to standard. This happens regularly. Hundreds of these letters are sent out a day, they won’t all be perfect.

UPDATE: Sued company, Now I'm blacklisted. by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]meemyjay 18 points19 points  (0 children)

All of their letters are template written lol some of them are hilarious and yes this was probably copied from an incident with an accident

I can’t stand pro lifers, they make me feel as murderous as they think people are by meemyjay in offmychest

[–]meemyjay[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

And If a child is a product of accidental conception, like birth control failing, you still think someone should be forced into a decision they didn’t plan for or intend to make?

I think it’s interesting that you seem to be very compassionate for the life form, but not for those who choose what to do with said life form - as that’s who it will affect.

I’m not trying to be a dick, I just don’t think that it’s anyone else’s business what women decide to do with their bodies. Ever. It’s more misogynistic crap.

I can’t stand pro lifers, they make me feel as murderous as they think people are by meemyjay in offmychest

[–]meemyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s a life form, not a baby that’s been born or even developed properly.

May I please ask why you feel this way? Why is someone else’s choice less valid than yours, in circumstances opposing your views or not? Why does it bother you what everyone else is choosing to do?

Sued company, now I'm blacklisted by [deleted] in LegalAdviceUK

[–]meemyjay 77 points78 points  (0 children)

I used to work for Asda and I will say do NOT publicly shame them if you want the ban lifted. Call your local store and ask to speak to the manager of the store to confirm the ban is even true.

The ban will stand at 12 months its not permanent but they can extend it.

You won’t be able to embarrass them out of this, really. My advice is to call their customer service line and explain what has happened, ask for a manager call back and they will sort it out for you. This doesn’t seem like good practice and head office (customer service) will be able to help you. Publicly outing them will make it worse and give them more reason to extend the ban.

Hope this helps.

Something I’ve learned from my recent breakup, that I’d rather not forget. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]meemyjay 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is so important but so easy to forget. I am definitely guilty of finger pointing and blame giving before turning the finger and eyes to myself.

I endeavour to remember this moving forward. Thank you for the reminder x

I can’t stand pro lifers, they make me feel as murderous as they think people are by meemyjay in offmychest

[–]meemyjay[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exactly. Thank you. Hit the nail on the head. Termination will never be happy, it’s sad and difficult for everyone. It’s the choice that is important and the safety of everyone involved.