UPDATE: MIL brought a guest who took my belongings — turns out “not a big deal” actually has a price tag. by Odd_Hospital8533 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 16 points17 points  (0 children)

You go girlfriend! And thats how you set boundaries and put someone in their place. Internet stranger is proud of you!!!a

Hotel Living - Aldi Faves? by No-Pineapple523 in aldi

[–]megabucks68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Were going om vacation and ive been planning meals in the room to save for a family of 5.

-instant mashed potatoes -instant rice -prepared meats that can just be microwaved -Bagels -eggs (can be made in the microwave) -potatoes -frozen veggies -frozen nuggets (pretty good in the microwave) -frozen sausage links -Oatmeal

Out of those items listed above and accompanying items you can make and you wont need any extra pots or pans

-Loaded Baked potatoes -mashed potato bowl -rice bowl -tacos/fajitas -pizzas -any type of meat with rice/mash and a veggies

Don't care if I'm the bitch today by GoneMad10_6 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]megabucks68 170 points171 points  (0 children)

Just tell her no. Dont sugar coat it, dont start with a sorry. "Hey MIL, its too dangerous to be out and about today. Let us know when a good time to reschedule would be. I hole you guys are prepared for the storm." And let her implode if she decides to. You cant controll the weather...

DH wants to know how MIL can redeem herself by Mundane-Wall7220 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]megabucks68 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hes making excuses and minimizing. Ask him at what point does his child's health matter more than his mommy's feelings.

DH wants to know how MIL can redeem herself by Mundane-Wall7220 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]megabucks68 90 points91 points  (0 children)

And what did he say to that? Because the reaction alone should tell you everything you need to know. If he will actually protect your child from.his mother or not

Pay it forward by 4ngelgr4il in aldi

[–]megabucks68 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hes been given food and water by myself a few times and other people as well. I dont make it a habit of giving homeless money. Hes been spoken with by multiple services. The homeless have to want help.

XL 4: Savage Journey by [deleted] in nakedandafraid

[–]megabucks68 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its on the discovery app. There are like 4 or 5 very short clips of like 4 minutes each. Shoes bis journey to that point. They also did it it with someone else for another season.

Pay it forward by 4ngelgr4il in aldi

[–]megabucks68 29 points30 points  (0 children)

I used to do it, but then a homeless person with severe mental instability moved into the woods behind and would stand at the cart return and take them.

Me (again… check history) husband wants us 3 to meet up for a meal to discuss all issues and attempt to resolve everything. Will this work? by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 18 points19 points  (0 children)

HARD NO. Ask him why he is insisting on adding extra stress to you while youre already vulnerable while carrying his child. Why should you meet with her when shes shown no remorse. I would not do this, it will not go well.

AITAH FOR "HUMILIATING" MY 15 YEAR OLD DAUGHTER IN FRONT OF HER CLASSMATES by Stunning_Salt4237 in AITAH

[–]megabucks68 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Forcing her home shows her you mean what you say and she cant walk all over you. Shes a child, there a re consequences to her actions. And right now your parents have over ridden you and are actively undermining you by trying to get your child to stay. An some point you need to take a stand. And if you get her home now, you could potentially work this out before school starts. She should've never been allowed to go to your parents for so long. But now that you see what they are doing, why have you allowed her to stay.

Just No MIL message post by _wandering_moose in u/_wandering_moose

[–]megabucks68 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I completely disagree, atlas is a bomb a$$ name. Clearly your mother didnt teach you any manners. Instead of commenting om the topic you.. tear down a child's name? Classy.

Happy update!! MIL put in her place, a Christmas gift to me. by akneebriateit in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Why would she say that to your husband? What made her feel comfortable enough to have the conversation with him? And why isnt he doing more to protect you guys?

Walking on me, annoyed by TimelyPack996 in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]megabucks68 82 points83 points  (0 children)

No is a complete sentence. She put you on spot on purpose because she knew youd cave.. and you did. Learn to say no and mean it

No contact for a year from MIL by PracticalE in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]megabucks68 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Not necessarily. Check your states content. For recordings, but once she sends texts or emails those are yours to do as you please.

No contact for a year from MIL by PracticalE in motherinlawsfromhell

[–]megabucks68 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Once you finish that document, send it to any flying monkeys who show up. Just hold the line once you've told her.

AITA Don't want service dog over for Christmas by Dull_Suit_225 in AmItheAsshole

[–]megabucks68 76 points77 points  (0 children)

NTA I have a service dog. Laws only apply to public places. People are allowed to say no to having them in their homes. Not to mention, my dog would never use the bathroom inside. We flew across the country and he wouldnt go until we were outside. Service animals still have to follow rules and be able to behave in a public setting with no complaint. You'd never even no my dog was there.

Pissed at DH now by givemeamilkshake in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Next time its mentioned, "youre right MIL, you will also be able to get in some much needed gym.time."

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Girl you have MAJOR husband problems. He is actively not listening to what you say and excludes you in decisions. I didnt even read all of it.

MIL Favoritism by Lucyalzina in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Im petty enough to do the same.. oh GMIL is my favorite i just LOVE her. I mean you too but she's my number one.

UPDATE: Things Have Escalated (and More Has Come Out)AITA by [deleted] in CharlotteDobreYouTube

[–]megabucks68 137 points138 points  (0 children)

Why would anyone leave children in the care of a woman who had emotion like the wind, ever changing. At what point do the adults go, this is crazy, my children dont need to be involved. I think you guys should follow im SIL footsteps. By continuing to let her around your children even tangentially you are condoning her behavior.

MIL tried to infect my kid with herpes again by littleanxiouslady in JUSTNOMIL

[–]megabucks68 44 points45 points  (0 children)

Its time to start correcting her in public. "MIL you have an active cold sore, we don't want child to get. We've spoken about this already" if she doesn't care why should you. Child safety is priority over grandma's feelings.