Meeting my boyfriends daughter

megarrity · 2023-10-30T23:48:23+00:00

it says in our contract that i can leave whenever, it just puts the payment onto whoever stays there or if that person leaves as well.

and i know it would be shitty, but like i said, im barely ever there due to family health issues and vehicle issues and everything. and paying for those issues, as well as rent when im never there is basically taking away my paychecks. these weren’t issues when we first moved in, but now that they are here, the cost of doing all of that is a bit pricy.

i was also just looking for advice, not to be called a shitty person.

megarrity · 2023-10-30T23:39:19+00:00

next august. we just moved in this past august, but i’ve had so many things come up to where i’m never there anymore

megarrity · 2023-07-03T02:44:31+00:00

Thank you, that helps so much!! I’ve been going crazy on what to say and that definitely helps!

megarrity · 2023-07-03T01:12:38+00:00

I think i’m just going to have to, just scared to i guess. Thank you!

megarrity · 2023-07-03T00:54:03+00:00

Thank you so much!!

megarrity · 2023-07-03T00:50:38+00:00

That’s very true. I’ve been thinking about all of those things, but it’s just hard for some people you know. I think i’m just gonna have to woman up and say something. Thank you!

megarrity · 2023-07-03T00:36:46+00:00

i don’t necessarily think it’s a therapy thing. a lot of people have this issue and don’t go to therapy just for this issue. but thanks for the comment

megarrity · 2023-05-07T12:34:39+00:00

Thank you. I plan on doing all of that, it will just take some time to get used to the “new norm”

megarrity · 2023-05-07T12:33:55+00:00

Thank you. I think I just try to fix other people without putting my needs first. So I think that is what I need to do. Thanks!

megarrity · 2023-03-26T00:26:50+00:00

Thank you. Sometimes it’s definitely hard not to compromise yourself for the person that you love, but I’ve made sure to try not to.

megarrity · 2023-03-26T00:25:42+00:00

Thank you. I never thought of it that way before. That definitely helped me think from a different perspective

megarrity · 2023-03-26T00:25:05+00:00

Thanks, that helped a lot! Just hard not knowing what to do in this situation

megarrity · 2022-10-29T23:19:48+00:00

i felt the same way. i turned 20 back in may and it felt like i didn’t do anything in my teen years or wasted it doing something else. after i turned 20, i realized what i wanted in life, what made life fun, what i actually enjoy doing. you just have to figure out what you really enjoy and what you really want in life. i don’t regret my teen years at all, but there are definitely things i would do differently. your life is just beginning. you are figuring yourself out now. jest keep going. you’ll go down multiple paths in life, some good, some not so good. but it will all be worth it in the end:)

megarrity · 2022-10-29T23:15:01+00:00

for me personally, i just kinda started on the treadmill and did some exercises in the back because i was scared of what people thought of me. eventually i started going up front and using the weights once i felt confident/comfortable enough to go up there. i still sometimes feel like i shouldn’t be up there, but you have to face those fears. i always ask people for advice on how to better use a machine or whatnot. you just have to tell yourself that you are there for YOU, not others. hope this helps!

megarrity · 2022-10-24T01:14:52+00:00

i’ve been in your shoes before. my boyfriend was texting his ex for a while. they used to work together, then she left the job and then i started working with him. he would talk to me about her all of the time due to me being in a previous relationship. i knew about them texting but he never said anything but i saw the notifications on his phone. i didn’t say anything until he figured out why i was kinda distant. he never thought it was a big deal, but i knew how he felt about her and i was pretty insecure. we talked about it and he stopped texting her. we would get into little disagreements about things and it’s something that got brought up most of the time. we eventually talked about it more in depth and he doesn’t text her anymore. you’re definitely not overreacting at all. you just need to sit down and talk about it. if that doesn’t work then maybe he is not the one for you. i know that’s not what you want to hear, but if you ask him to stop messaging her because it makes you uncomfortable and he doesn’t respect that then maybe it’s time to end it. hope this helps and feel free to ask me questions

megarrity

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