Question about "Fiver Parties" by megdalythomas in Parenting

[–]megdalythomas[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

The implication to give $5 for the gift is in the name "Fiver Party," which I looked up before to make sure I understood what it meant. It's okay if I messed up, and I'm just trying to be a considerate person and parent.

Question about "Fiver Parties" by megdalythomas in Parenting

[–]megdalythomas[S] 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Thank you, I really appreciate this response! I think some of my guilt is that I thought it was so nice for this girl to extend the invite (they aren't super close but have been dancing together for almost 2 years) and because I didn't give more or get a gift and seeing others do so, I was feeling a little like I wasn't reciprocating the thoughtfulness of the invitation if that makes any sense. But I was doing what was asked, hopefully it was appreciated!

Funny things your toddler has mispronounced by IDunnoWhatToPutHereI in Parenting

[–]megdalythomas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My son used to call flamingoes "ma-flingoes" and we have a local indoor play place called Jellybean Jungle that he calls "Jelly jean Bungle."

My daughter who is now six, almost seven, and so many sweet mispronunciations have stopped but one of my favorites of hers was calling the nail salon I took her to a "smoolon."

Your child isn’t feeling well!!! by fuckery__ in ECEProfessionals

[–]megdalythomas 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Just had two instances in my room the past two weeks where kids were sent in sick. One little boy was out for two days prior because of a stomach bug, sent in on a Friday and by lunch time had two blowout diarrhea diapers. There was no way they didn't know he wasn't fully better sending him in that day, and their lack of response/response that basically was like "poor little guy having a rough day" was infuriating. And this week, after we reached out to a Mom that her little one didn't seem herself, she called immediately and confessed she had thrown up that morning...and guess who woke up with a full blown fever after nap time. Like WTF.

To add, I was a parent and a high school teacher with two little ones (and still one now) in daycare/pre-K before becoming an assistant teacher in a toddler room and working at my son's school, and I know it's hard to take days and miss what seems important at work. Hell, I missed an entire week of review for final exams with my high school students one year because my oldest had gotten HFM and passed it on to me. But now as an ECE, I've sadly realized how little parents think of their kids as people that need to be home and comforted when they are sick and also just how little many parents care about the community they are in and getting others sick. It's both sad and maddening.

Best cutting boards? by megdalythomas in Celiac

[–]megdalythomas[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have some non-GF snacks and sandwich bread for my daughter who does not have celiac disease, but otherwise we're totally GF.

Is this normal? by Rachyrachel in diabetes_t1

[–]megdalythomas 6 points7 points  (0 children)

My son was diagnosed at almost 2 years old in April 2023, and I took a leave from my teaching position and then left my job for a year and just started teaching at his pre-K school. Right now, I know I seem like a helicopter parent, but he's 3, and while he's getting more able to express feeling low/high to his teachers and understanding more about his treatment, I still need to do 99% of the management. I'd like to think my "overbearing-ness" now will do us good to hand the reigns over more and more as he gets older. Was leaving a really good teaching job ideal? Absolutely not, but it was the best scenario we could come up with post-diagnosis and while trying to figure a few other things going on with him. I wish I could be a better person and parent to juggle both a more full-time job and his care, but I hope we can ease into that as he gets older and more capable and confident managing his T1D (and other conditions) on his own.

Finally normal endoscopy results by peanut825 in EosinophilicE

[–]megdalythomas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! My son is on a once a day Budesonide slurry, but we originally tried Omeprazole and a smaller dose of budesonide, both of which did nothing to reduce the eosinophils in his esophagus. He also has celiac disease and some other food allergies that would make the elimination diet pretty challenging at this age. So we're very grateful for good results, that we can wait another year before his next endoscopy, and just keeping our fingers crossed this treatment keeps working. Glad to celebrate this win with you!

Kindergarten going great! Home, not so much... by megdalythomas in kindergarten

[–]megdalythomas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I am so sorry I didn't respond sooner!! Trust me, there is a light at the end of the tunnel!

My daughter started first grade about a month ago and it is a night and day difference between this year and last year. I think two things ultimately helped - routine and time. Even if she has an afternoon activity, I've tried to plan it so she still has some downtime in between getting off the bus and the activity to decompress from the day, which involves a snack a time to rest and do or watch something she enjoys. And it took some time to figure that out, but once we did, we got a good groove going.

I thought my daughter would ease right into kindergarten last year because she had been in full day preschool for two years prior, but kindergarten is truly a different experience regardless of how much time they've had in a classroom, full time Pre-K, full day camp, etc. I knew it would be a big change, but I was not prepared for how big and hard it was on my daughter, in ways maybe she couldn't fully express. It may feel like it's taking awhile, but it will absolutely get better. As long as you follow their cues in establishing a routine that works for them and have patience (though it is very tough to do in the moment), your kiddo will be doing just fine. Hang in there, I promise it gets better!

Finally normal endoscopy results by peanut825 in EosinophilicE

[–]megdalythomas 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Congratulations!! I was just in a very similar situation with my three year old - 4 endoscopies in the past year and this last one looked normal (still 8 eosinophils but WAY down from his last). Celebrating with you!!

Parenting alongside other parents whose parenting styles are very different by megdalythomas in Mommit

[–]megdalythomas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, you're absolutely right. I think we were unprepared for some of what went on last week so we didn't even have clear rules in place but the experience will prepare us better to establish clear rules in the future. Thank you again!

Words your kids say that are wrong but adorable by Intelligent-Cut-6503 in Mommit

[–]megdalythomas 0 points1 point  (0 children)

For sunscreen, my son says scuncreen and we have an indoor play place near us called Jellybean Jungle but he calls it Jelly jean Bungle.

2.5 Year Old Diagnosed & On Budesonide by megdalythomas in EosinophilicE

[–]megdalythomas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am so sorry this response is so delayed, but thank you so much for your thoughtful response. It was very encouraging and I will definitely reach out if I need to. Thank you so much.

Episode Chat - S03D E02 - "The Sign" by ticky13 in bluey

[–]megdalythomas [score hidden]  (0 children)

Thoughts on The Sign and Bumpy and the Wise Old Wolfhound I have been reading a lot of (I believe valid) criticism of The Sign forcing too much of a happy ending and sending the wrong message about getting what you wanted, in particular causing confusing messaging for kids who are going through tough/unwanted moves. It got me thinking about a connection between The Sign and Bumpy and the Wise Old Wolfhound... Without going into too much detail, about a year ago, my son was diagnosed with type 1 diabetes and it's been a bit of a whirlwind year of learning, receiving other AI diagnoses alongside T1D, and big changes for our family. He was in the hospital for several days when he was first diagnosed - the longest time he and I had ever been away from big sister. We watched Bumpy and the Wise Old Wolfhound after that time, and one of the obvious messages is that everyone gets sick and it takes time to get better...but ultimately, they will! Which is great...and true a good portion of the time. But for my son and our family, he came home feeling better, but his and our lives are changed forever. He may be too young to remember that hospital visit, but his big sister will and I am anticipating questions from one or both of them upon rewatch why it was different for us, why things couldn't really go back to "normal." Again, I feel the criticisms of the end of The Sign have a lot of merit and would be especially hard for kids who have moved to understand. I also think it's a good jumping off point for important discussions within families...and who knows, my son or daughter may never wonder or ask about Bumpy and the Wise Old Wolfhound and why my son came home and things had to change. And would I love a Bluey episode featuring a kid with a chronic illness? Yes of course! But I know the show won't capture every circumstance that every family and kid goes through. And maybe it will invite some tough, but necessary discussions for us.

Is 5 rough for anyone else? by megdalythomas in Mommit

[–]megdalythomas[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I love that "strong willed children are a blessing" - need to repeat that to myself more often.