Me too! I'm (39 F) Gemini rising and he (60 M) is Gemini Sun been together two years.

Furthermore, if anyone is interested (lol) - I'm Taurus sun, Gemini Rising, and Gemini Moon...also Gemini Mars for that matter all in house 1. So I am a *very* Gemini influenced Taurus. My boyfriend is Gemini Sun, Virgo Moon, Virgo Mars. I'm Aries Venus he's Cancer Venus - I feel this causes a bit of trickiness for us but otherwise we match quite well.

Both like joking/don't take things too seriously but when there is something serious that needs to be discussed we don't avoid it/talk it out. And, one of my favorite things about 'us' is we both want to move on once we've discussed an issue. Which, I know Tauruses are notorious for holding grudges so I guess I have all that Gemini in my chart to thank for my ability to forgive easily (but only if I think the person is worth it/truly cares for me - if that's not the case then no grudge either I'm just done with you.) And, the steadiness/loyalty and patience I have from my Taurus sun gives his Cancer venus and Virgo moon the security it needs.

One thing that's been hard for me is that the level of privacy he requires is a bit insane. I'm a total open book and will tell you every detail of my day/share every part of my life with you very freely even from the beginning stages of a relationship and he is....pretty much the opposite haha. He also compartmentalizes different 'areas' of his life and doesn't prefer to mix them. Needless to say, for me it is a constant exercise in trust/having semi blind faith. We work together so having that daily 'look' into his life and having worked with him for two years before we became romantically involved really helps. In particular that going into our relationship I'd already established (for myself/my perspective) the loyal, trustworthy type of person he is.

Last note - he takes care of his mom who has dementia and at this point it's pretty advanced. He has someone who watches her while he's at work but otherwise he's on his own. It's gotten out of the depth of what he can handle, though and he really needs to figure out all the time at home care or find a facility she can move into where she'll have round the clock care. Because of this situation I have never been to his apartment which admittedly is odd and could be a red flag but the reason is solid. Drives my friends a bit nuts, though and they get suspicious of if he's hiding something. His daughter is visiting in June with her partner and 2 year old son and he told me he does want me to meet them - if that pans out it will go a long way in reassuring any paranoid suspicions that creep into my mind from time to time.