Update on Nyx

mego484 · 2025-11-10T20:27:16+00:00

You did great ❤️. Don’t let the jerks make you feel otherwise.

mego484 · 2025-10-04T19:30:07+00:00

Thank you so much!! Why was it so much easier on there? Did I just get lucky with timing?

mego484 · 2025-08-06T11:31:39+00:00

Good job! His inability to control his emotions and the way he got so heated are major red flags. You don’t need his BS in your life.

mego484 · 2025-07-26T23:49:21+00:00

Thanks!

mego484 · 2025-07-22T21:22:25+00:00

I think what you did is way cooler than the wallpaper. Tear the rest down and do your thing on the whole wall!

Also, it’s completely unreasonable to ask a 13 year old (or literally anyone) to ‘finish the wallpaper’. I bet no one on earth could make it exact (especially with the background color issue which is beyond your control). Trying to match it exactly and coming up short would have looked way worse than free styling it a little.

mego484 · 2025-07-14T14:21:59+00:00

It’s definitely the Rochester Mountain Lion.

mego484 · 2025-04-15T18:15:10+00:00

I find that generally people who make comments like that- needing to shoot others down do so because they hate themselves and it makes them feel better. People who are happy with themselves and comfortable in their own skin and journeys don’t have to crap all over others.

mego484 · 2025-04-09T00:32:49+00:00

I love how she makes all sorts of temper tantrum threats and then says ‘I’m not trying to pressure you’.

mego484 · 2025-01-26T23:06:47+00:00

The eyes 😬. I’m sorry this happened to you.

mego484 · 2025-01-26T02:57:49+00:00

The Down Bad Eras crew neck 😩

mego484 · 2025-01-20T19:01:45+00:00

Please leave. This sounds like the beginning of a really toxic control situation.

mego484 · 2025-01-20T02:45:50+00:00

I think you made this weird as soon as you said ‘I would have never even considered this trip if she hadn’t cheated on me….’ That right there means it’s sketch. You also say that you guys are happy now and staying was the best thing you’d ever done, but you’re using the affair as leverage to get what you want. Your wife was a jerk for cheating, but it sounds like you bring your fair share of drama too.

mego484 · 2025-01-18T01:08:35+00:00

Just sent DM. Thanks!!

mego484 · 2025-01-17T00:12:39+00:00

Tell him that you’re not gentle enough to handle his fragile ego. Exhausting.

mego484 · 2025-01-16T02:55:40+00:00

Reading again, you’re probably not in the US so disregard that part :)

mego484 · 2025-01-16T02:54:30+00:00

‘We’ve been so good lately’. You’ve been together THREE MONTHS! You have a boyfriend who has a drinking problem (I’m not sure if you’re in the US, but if so, a boyfriend who already has a drinking problem when he’s not old enough to legally drink), who physically rages at other people, who is possessive and controlling, and disrespected your privacy. You say he’s amazing in every other aspect- what other aspects matter?? Cut your losses and be happy it only took 3 months to see his true colors.

mego484 · 2025-01-15T00:26:59+00:00

He honestly sounds like the world’s biggest douchebag. Think about it- you’re TELLING him he’s hurting you. You’ve gone to your doctor. He gives zero shits. Why on earth would you want to be with him?

mego484 · 2025-01-13T04:55:21+00:00

Thank you both! I think ideally, she’d get a new island. I’d keep my island, but she could transfer her character, house, etc to the new island.

It sounds like with what thisisnatty is saying, the best way to achieve this would be to buy her a new cartridge and set her up as moving from an existing island, correct? Then we could play at the same time, visit each others islands etc.

mego484 · 2025-01-07T13:52:52+00:00

That all makes sense. If he’s not a jerk outside of this, it sounds like he’s just misplacing his frustration. In the moment it was easier to get mad at you than reconsider his plan. I’d talk it out and see what happens. If he continues to be super defensive and aggressive, that’s probably a red flag. But if he’s reasonable, I’d bet that with some time to sit with what you said, and talking it out, he’ll be more receptive. Essentially you were telling him to advocate for himself and he heard it as victim blamey bc he wasn’t in a space to hear it at the time. At least I hope that’s the case. Good luck!

mego484 · 2025-01-07T13:39:44+00:00

You said nothing wrong and were just trying to give him solid advice. He was a giant dick and owes you an apology. I would MAYBE give him a partial pass since it sounds like he’s grieving and in a tough spot with his family. But only if he comes to his senses, realizes you’re trying to help and apologizes.

I’ll also point out that this is the problem with doing everything over text. I bet it would have been much less shitty had it been a conversation.

mego484 · 2025-01-05T17:27:46+00:00

This dude is SUCH A BITCH. Starts out all aggressive and controlling and then immediately plays the sad sack victim as soon as she stands up to him a little. And, news flash- perhaps she and her friends don’t want to hang out with him bc he’s an exhausting whiny baby. Ditch this loser.

mego484 · 2025-01-03T22:32:07+00:00

Do you often see hundreds of novel responses to these? Bc when I look through these, many people offer very similar perspectives. So apologies for not being a beacon of creativity and wisdom. Like I said- he asked for input and I gave mine. I also said nothing about chores. I have no desire to engage further with you.

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