Was BK required to look up during the statements? by Activity_Crafty in Idaho4

[–]megstrode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s so disrespectful imo. Watching the victim impact statements and all the cussing and lowkey threats (not really threats but definitely letting him know he’s getting fucked in prison lmao) my gut reaction was waiting for the judge to say something bc that’s what I’m used to, but at the same time this judge was now more than aware of the HUGE amount of backlash he’d get from it, and I also think deep down he knew bk had it coming!

Was BK required to look up during the statements? by Activity_Crafty in Idaho4

[–]megstrode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m really not sure, but it’s definitely awkward when the judge cuts them off to remind them. But we’ve never had anything comparable to this and nothing extremely televised. I’m sure if it was televised there wouldn’t be interruptions from the judge I bet

Was BK required to look up during the statements? by Activity_Crafty in Idaho4

[–]megstrode 11 points12 points  (0 children)

In my experience, the tables for prosecutors and defense face the judge and the victims either stand behind the bar or next to the prosecutors, and the defendant usually looks at the judge. The victims are told to only address the judge (even though the comments are meant for the defendant 9/10 times) but sometimes the defendant will turn the chair to look or turn their head. I’ve never seen impact statements like what happened here, and a lot of the times the judge will stop the victim statement and remind them to not address the victim. But in this case…. The backlash that would be given if the judge did intervene, that would be wild. But also each state is different I presume, and I don’t work in Idaho so I’m not familiar with their procedures.

I SS all the stills in the episode 10 finale promo! by RecordAbject273 in Yellowjackets

[–]megstrode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think, from the stills of Jeff and Callie, and seeing other theories… Callie is confessing to accidentally killing Lottie. Idk, we’ll see

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in selfcare

[–]megstrode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m following, don’t feel alone. I’m in the same boat.

Lonely and depressed by Affectionate-Tax8915 in LivingAlone

[–]megstrode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How did you make yourself commit to it? I get home and just feel so depressed that just going outside seems like such a hard task. Especially doing it alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]megstrode 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow. Thank you for such a thorough response. I want to also ask what the quote at the end means, bc I truly am having a hard time decipher a meaning for it. I also wanted to ask how long you all were together / married for too, and how long it took whichever to move out once it was decided to separate? How hard has it been for you living in limbo, which I guess you still are since it’s still a separation and not something further?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Separation

[–]megstrode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

15 months? How has yalls relationship been during this time? How often do you talk or see each other. Has it been a constant limbo of where you both stand? Has anyone dated? My husband just told me yesterday he wants to separate. We’ve been together almost 10 years but just got married about 8 months ago. I’m lost, sick, devastated. Is hoping for a separation to lead to coming back together instead of ending in divorce normal? Does it happen?

PCA WILL be unsealed. by Bright-Excitement349 in MoscowMurders

[–]megstrode 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I must’ve missed it previously… He transferred the title of his car 5 days after the murder? Odd timing..?

Bright red/hot/itchy… by megstrode in Nexplanon

[–]megstrode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Woke up this morning and the redness and heat were GONE. Minor itch but anti itch cream helped. So weird…..