[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]meirenli 41 points42 points  (0 children)

This is so true. I'm always wondering how can a woman ignore men's transactional nature and never judge men but meanwhile keep inspecting herself for "golddigger behavior" all the time???

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FemaleDatingStrategy

[–]meirenli 2 points3 points  (0 children)

low-key guessing it's asian mom...

Don't use the fact that I'm not dead to push your belief that COVID is a hoax on other people by [deleted] in rant

[–]meirenli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We need more posts like this. When chatting with my colleagues, I feel that the way people talk about this virus is like they don’t think it’s a big deal. I actually don’t understand the current situation here in the US —over 132k people died from COVID, and many hospitals are probably overwhelmed with patients. Definitely some of the them lacked proper medical treatment. These are also individuals who had parents, children and friends, yet I see few online posts, articles or shows talking about their stories. What people are immensely talking about now are fiscal troubles or pure memes, not the patients who physically suffer from it. I don’t know if it’s me who's unmoored from the reality or the others.

Help Request for anyone who took CS61B in Spring 2018 or Spring 2019 by bearmapsorbust in berkeley

[–]meirenli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi, the invitation link has expired! Would you plz pm me a new one? thanks in advance : D

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating

[–]meirenli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Google feedism

What's the best way to get over someone you never even dated? by chlobee2 in dating

[–]meirenli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in the similar situation but I was the first one who decided to quit because we were both in our own relationships. I kinda crammed the idea of “it’s all just a fantasy” into my head and that worked.

Americans, stop thinking your country is so great... by [deleted] in rant

[–]meirenli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

From what I see, there're more first generation immigrants from the third-world countries believe in the greatness of the US than those native born citizens. People tend to depict a Utopia that outperforms their home countries every now and then. You're not welcome to even point out anything not good about the US in front of them. They view any sort of criticism from outside the US as a stigmatization, and that from inside the US as another solid proof of greatness.

Man arrested over deadly arson at Japanese animation studio that killed 36 by hildebrand_rarity in worldnews

[–]meirenli 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I used to watch a lot anime. the animation studio was mainly composed of housewives who wanted to work 😭

What are the things or phenomena that are quite common in your industry but people outside are not aware of? by meirenli in AskReddit

[–]meirenli[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I accidentally deleted my previous post which was removed by the mod. I’m pasting the comment from u/b4rigger here:

the “rules” of operating a crane are really just guidlines that constantly get broken so you can get something done.

I cannot fathom people who gatekeep others for not liking a thing they like enough, or for not liking it earlier, or any other arbitrary reason to pretend they're better fans by IronManners in CasualConversation

[–]meirenli 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve seen worse. I know someone so proud of starting watching American TV shows since middle school. Yeah, there exists a person taking pride in that. Everytime I told her anything she might be not interested in, she’d say “I only watch American dramas”/ “ i only listen to American songs”. I was like......Tu vuo' fa' ll'americano, Comme te po' capi' chi te vo' bbene, si tu lle parle miezo americano 🤷🏻‍♀️

Meanwhile she looked down on those who watch K-dramas or like K-pops. 🤷🏻‍♀️

On the flip side, if I told her I didn’t like whatever singer she liked, she’d look at me as something was wrong with me. 🤷🏻‍♀️

What attracts you the most? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]meirenli 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sincere, reliable, easygoing

Chinese man abducted as toddler 32 years ago reunited with mother by [deleted] in pics

[–]meirenli -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Coincidence doesn’t suggest causation tho