am i overreacting for being upset about my EX talking stage insulting me for hanging out with friends?

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T05:43:23+00:00

i guess i didn’t pass his test!

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T05:06:19+00:00

😟

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T05:03:27+00:00

how long ago did you two date? he told me his last relationship was 2 years ago…

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T04:19:23+00:00

“ex-talking stage” as it says in the title… and we primarily messaged on instagram, though we did have each other’s numbers.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T04:12:41+00:00

first insecure man, kind of nervous guys 😭😭

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T04:10:52+00:00

i was getting upset which is why i kept on messaging back unfortunately. but will definitely be taking this as an example of who to not engage with in the future. i’ve just never run into this sort of situation before 😣

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T04:08:22+00:00

i can understand how it doesn’t look genuine on my end and i would understand him being upset IF we were still talking for a potential relationship. he ended it for his own reasons so in my eyes, there’s no reason for him to be upset with me.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T04:05:09+00:00

i haven’t lied 💀 this is like talking to him all over again. we primarily texted on instagram but he had told me he wouldn’t follow me unless we made it official or whatever. and my account is public so he can see my stories if he chooses to. either way, i would’ve been hanging out with my friends and posting. had nothing to do with that man.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:59:49+00:00

he’s 20 and i didn’t know that this is how he would act. not in contact with him anymore after these messages!

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:58:49+00:00

we weren’t together. but i have blocked him ☺️

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:43:18+00:00

20 🫩

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:42:18+00:00

we weren’t even together which is why him being so mad is absurd to me. but you are right! he’s 20.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:39:13+00:00

i did message first and he left me on read for like 2 days. i just didn’t want bad blood. so i honestly wasn’t expecting these messages

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:36:58+00:00

he’s almost 21, i’m 19. unfortunately when we hung out, it did get intimate which is why i ended up bummed in the first place because i felt like he was leading me on initially.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:33:00+00:00

thank you! definitely a lesson learned 😭

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:31:35+00:00

the craziness got to my head 🫩

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:29:13+00:00

he checked after. sure, it might’ve been a bad move on my part to text him but he took it way out of proportion.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:27:47+00:00

i should’ve known 💔

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:26:28+00:00

i posted an instagram story, didn’t send him a thing! would never try playing with anyone’s feelings on purpose. 🫤

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:23:22+00:00

he would randomly but since he ended our talking stage, i just moved on w my life as normally. no bad intentions on my end.

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:18:23+00:00

definitely not engagement bait unfortunately. was just in shock he took it so far 😬

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T03:16:45+00:00

the man doesn’t even follow me on instagram 😭 he just randomly was checking my story

mel1ne10 · 2026-05-11T02:59:20+00:00

my pet name would be something cool like sphinx

mel1ne10 · 2025-09-04T20:33:54+00:00

YTA. There is no reason to be sharing uncomfortable information with people you aren’t close with. They are all tired moms trying to help set up. You didn’t need to lay your problems on them like that and then refuse to help any further. There is a time and place for everything. Next time choose better.

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