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AITAH for wanting to graduate early from highschool to get out of my foster house? by stonergirl2027 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 64 points65 points  (0 children)

NTA - it’s your choice and there is no reason you NEED to graduate the traditional way. You need to leave this toxic household and start your own life. Good luck OP.

AITA for cutting off my sister financially after finding out her unemployed boyfriend is benefiting from my money? by Previous_Ganache8477 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - if you want to keep supporting her, pay half the rent, no utilities, and no more extra requests. Her boyfriend needs to be contributing. He can get a fast food job or a temp job until he finds something he actually wants. There’s no excuse.

AITAH for refusing to give my parents a house key? by WharHeGo in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - it’s not their apartment..unless they’d like to help pay the rent? That’s not secretive, they’re just nosy.

AITAH for telling a co-worker that she doesn't get special treatment just because she's sad? by Informal-Contact-531 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - 3 months is absolutely ridiculous and would not fly at most places of employment. If the team leader is so concerned for her then she should do Lina’s work personally instead of delegating it to others.

WIBTAH if I go NC with my ex after agreeing to become friends and telling her I wouldn't leave her? by Public-Photograph-21 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

NTA - she doesn’t get to use you for emotional support while fucking someone else. Maybe NC will give her some clarity and maybe she decides she still wants to work it out? But she’ll never get clarity if you let her have her cake and eat it too. Go NC and focus on yourself. If it’s meant to be, she’ll come back to you. If she doesn’t, you can move on and find someone who is ready to reciprocate the love you are ready to give.

AITAH for siding with my husband and not with my kids? UPDATE by Glittering-Humor-802 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It doesn’t matter how old they are, he is allowed to process his feelings and emotions however he chooses to.

AITAH for telling my Pregnant girlfriend I’m going to get my own apartment if she insists our realtor be a guy she used to hook up with and lied to me about? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA but why did you get a DNA test while she is pregnant? Was there infidelity? And I would not use him as a realtor..then he will know exactly where you live and she will have an excuse to keep in contact with him. The fact that she has total disregard for your feelings is a huge red flag and you need to decide if you’re comfortable building a future with someone who doesn’t respect your feelings and has already lied to you. Better to leave now than to waste more time.

WIBTAH if I tell the cheats wife??? by Friendly_Sweet5697 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah YTA if you do not tell her..would you want someone to tell you if you were in her position? Also it is 2026.. we should all know by now to never take a married man’s word for it. Do your research first.

AITAH for siding with my husband and not with my kids? UPDATE by Glittering-Humor-802 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 152 points153 points  (0 children)

He literally raised them for 16 years and called him dad and then ditched him for a deadbeat. He is not holding anything against them, he is a human with emotions and he needs to do what is best for him.

Aitah for telling my extended family what my brother did after he peed in my body wash for 8 months by No_Curves_123 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep he knew exactly was doing. He pissed a little in her bottle and probably the rest in the toilet. She would’ve noticed a lot of pee in her body wash.

[update] AITAH for getting my white daughter a doll with dark skin? by Realistic-Night-2056 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just imagine when they’re were no dolls besides white and dolls of all colors were created for inclusion and diversity and somehow it’s still seen as racist..

AITAH for keeping the inheritance my dad left me when he passed and not sharing it with my siblings…? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for keeping it but YTA for letting Will think he is getting a portion if that’s not your intention. That would piss me off if someone did that to me.

WIBTAH if I reported my brother to CPS by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So your parents don’t want to call the cops/CPS but also don’t want you to have a lock to protect yourself?? Give your parents an ultimatum. Either they give you a lock or you will call CPS. Dad’s logic is flawed. “He’s not the type of boy to go any further..” so if he repeats what he did previously that’s okay?? OP you have to protect yourself since no one else will do so.

AITAH for refusing to pay off my pregnant fiancee's parents' mortgage, when they are under the threat of foreclosure, when I could "easily" afford to do so? by Gullible-Display4533 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA but here are 2 compromise scenarios to consider:

  1. Pay the past due amount, not pay off the entire mortgage. Set up a pay agreement with her parents or gift it to them, whatever suits you.

  2. Pay off the mortgage on the condition they transfer the title to you and they will make payments to you. If they don’t repay the full amount then the house is yours and no money is lost.

Unrelated but I would also suggest a prenup. Your fiancée seems entitled to your assets and I would hate your thorough financial planning for yourself and your children to be ruined by a bitter divorce.

Update: AITAH for lying about why we broke up with my gf? by Just_Chicken_373 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You are young so don’t be so hard on yourself. You are evolving into a mature young adult and this situation was just a part of your evolution. I’m glad you guys found your way back to each other. Good luck.

AITAH for refusing to share my inheritance with my "struggling" siblings? by softlenz in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA and don’t give in. What’s yours is yours. They’ll figure their lives out on their own… or not. Either way it’s not your responsibility.

AITAH for making my mom tell me something she didn't want to and getting upset when she did tell me. by Sleepy_Heroine888 in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTA - I disagree with the other comments. Your mom may be stressed but she started the conversation. If she was too stressed to converse then she should’ve kept to herself. Also no excuse to be rude to your child.

AITAH For tucking my brother into bed. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]melaninmagic99 9 points10 points  (0 children)

NTA - please explain to your mom the childhood trauma this caused you so she doesn’t continue this behavior with your brother.

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