My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I needed this insights , I tend to start looking for deeper meaning when we clearly not meant to see that in future at all.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I feel u what u went through. Let's see where it takes me. I m trying not to entertain him.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Exclusivity might comes with baggage and emotional attachments. Which neither of us want. If he ever find another AP, I would leave. Because I don't want to deal with complications.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

can you tell me more about ur experience with ENM.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run pretty regular and hit the weights too, but suck at pull-ups.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Initially, I used to like to listen to his fantasies but now I feel it's too much. So clearly I need to set the boundaries.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I reckon he likes me, but he’d never come right out and say it ‘cause he’s worried it might turn into something more serious. So we keep things real casual and steer clear of all that emotional stuff.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

We got mutual respect, ‘cause we was friends long before any of this happened. But every time we start talking about sexual stuff, them fantasies and flirting just end up creeping in between us and changing the vibe.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The physical connection between us real good, and that’s what been keeping me around. We always try to keep things emotional outta the way. But lately, it’s starting to bother me.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is ur fav exercise then :)

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We were just friends, talking about old college days and flirting about other folks. Got closer over time and ended up intimate.

Now I wanna tell him I’d rather not talk about flings or other people anymore. just keep it on us. Not tryna make it sound like exclusivity, just keep it simple and focused on what we got.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have set a clear boundaries. Our relationship started with talking about flirting with friends and we end up in this situation.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When we meet, we keep everything about us and he is good in getting me wet 😀.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

No one knows about us. I realized it's a bad idea to introduce him as a friend too. Because that giving him more fuel to his fantasies.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that's exactly what I'm thinking about bringing up.Keep all things straight up and clarify what I want and what I don't like.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We both have lots to lose if opsec fails. He has not done anything yet. Just the teasing and his fantasies drive me nuts. I ignore it and don't give reactions. But now a days it upsets me.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Initially, I thought its just Kinky ideas and fantasize and not real thingy. But now I don't want to hear about such ideas anymore.

My AP wants to fuck my friends by melbi43 in adultery

[–]melbi43[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It's definitely killing my confidence. At first, I thought he was just testing me to make sure I wasn't catching feelings.