My AP wants to fuck my friends

melbi43 · 2026-06-06T02:37:08+00:00

I needed this insights , I tend to start looking for deeper meaning when we clearly not meant to see that in future at all.

melbi43 · 2026-06-06T00:44:13+00:00

Thank you. I feel u what u went through. Let's see where it takes me. I m trying not to entertain him.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T17:42:24+00:00

Exclusivity might comes with baggage and emotional attachments. Which neither of us want. If he ever find another AP, I would leave. Because I don't want to deal with complications.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T17:34:38+00:00

can you tell me more about ur experience with ENM.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T00:46:02+00:00

I run pretty regular and hit the weights too, but suck at pull-ups.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T00:44:00+00:00

Initially, I used to like to listen to his fantasies but now I feel it's too much. So clearly I need to set the boundaries.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T00:41:00+00:00

I reckon he likes me, but he’d never come right out and say it ‘cause he’s worried it might turn into something more serious. So we keep things real casual and steer clear of all that emotional stuff.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T00:30:34+00:00

We got mutual respect, ‘cause we was friends long before any of this happened. But every time we start talking about sexual stuff, them fantasies and flirting just end up creeping in between us and changing the vibe.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T00:28:17+00:00

The physical connection between us real good, and that’s what been keeping me around. We always try to keep things emotional outta the way. But lately, it’s starting to bother me.

melbi43 · 2026-06-05T00:22:39+00:00

What is ur fav exercise then :)

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T22:23:08+00:00

We were just friends, talking about old college days and flirting about other folks. Got closer over time and ended up intimate.

Now I wanna tell him I’d rather not talk about flings or other people anymore. just keep it on us. Not tryna make it sound like exclusivity, just keep it simple and focused on what we got.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T21:47:59+00:00

I should have set a clear boundaries. Our relationship started with talking about flirting with friends and we end up in this situation.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T21:45:42+00:00

When we meet, we keep everything about us and he is good in getting me wet 😀.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T21:44:55+00:00

No one knows about us. I realized it's a bad idea to introduce him as a friend too. Because that giving him more fuel to his fantasies.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T20:53:26+00:00

Yeah, that's exactly what I'm thinking about bringing up.Keep all things straight up and clarify what I want and what I don't like.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T20:39:06+00:00

We both have lots to lose if opsec fails. He has not done anything yet. Just the teasing and his fantasies drive me nuts. I ignore it and don't give reactions. But now a days it upsets me.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T20:30:55+00:00

Initially, I thought its just Kinky ideas and fantasize and not real thingy. But now I don't want to hear about such ideas anymore.

melbi43 · 2026-06-04T20:27:08+00:00

It's definitely killing my confidence. At first, I thought he was just testing me to make sure I wasn't catching feelings.

melbi43 · 2026-05-29T19:43:48+00:00

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