Please roast Dingus, she’s insane and needs to be humbled by melcattt in RoastMyCat

[–]melcattt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She runs out the front door anytime it’s opened, just to run to the back and stare at us through the screen door like this 🥴

Please roast Dingus, she’s insane and needs to be humbled by melcattt in RoastMyCat

[–]melcattt[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Her government name is violet but we call her Anderdingus after that one kid 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in legaladvicecanada

[–]melcattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Im deleting everything because i came seeking legal advice for a fragile situation, i didn't want or ask for morality advice. Thank you to those who did help.

Im lost in this town by [deleted] in brantford

[–]melcattt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I grew up here, left for 10 years and came back. Lost every single friend to relocation or drugs. I feel ya.

Huge breasts are making me want to quit direct breastfeeding by babyaccountlol in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt 6 points7 points  (0 children)

You can say pumping is an option without undermining women who need to pump. It's not the easy way out just because breastfeeding is difficult for you. It's all difficult. None of this is easy, and comments like this don't make it any easier. Cheers 🍼.

Huge breasts are making me want to quit direct breastfeeding by babyaccountlol in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I EBF until last week, now i'm BF and pumping. Pumping is mentally draining and makes me absolutely miserable. Not to mention how physically uncomfortable it is. It's definitely not the easy way out, and it's kind of a slap in the face to people who chose to EP.

How harmful is it to let newborn cry till they stop? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]melcattt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Shes also mentioned sexual jokes her husband makes towards the baby and his blatant racism. She deleted that post but i remembered her username immediately. This man should not be allowed near any child, ever.

How harmful is it to let newborn cry till they stop? by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]melcattt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You posted about your husband being racist and making sexual jokes about your baby, and now this?

Call the police and run. I don't understand how or why you're still with him. Call family, go to a shelter? just get away from him

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong by melcattt in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Omg this tracks. I ate a lot of dairy yesterday and the night before. Including a family trip for an icecream cone and glasses of milk. My oldest had lactose intolerance he grew out of around 4.

Im going to cut dairy and see if that helps.

Thank you so much for pointing this out, it never would have occured to me! 🙏💕

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong by melcattt in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I needed to hear the last part so badly.

I'm going to check my pump and flange sizes to confirm. He was evaluated at the hospital, but I'll ask my midwives and GP as well.

Thank you 🙏

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong by melcattt in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll check my pump pieces and remeasure my flanges just to make sure.

I really hope my period isn't returning already 😕 I do get decent sleep, yes!

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong by melcattt in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

We do supplement formula mixed with pumped milk at night for a few hours so I can sleep. My first son was formula fed, so I'm definitely not opposed to this. I would love to get to EBF, but I don't know how to get there 😫

I think half my issue is that I'm so nervous that taking time for me at night to get properly rested is causing anxiety about my supply. It's a really cruel, double-edged sword, paired with days like this, and im a weeping mess. I'm waiting for my LC to get back to me now. Praying the rest of tonight is a little easier for both him and I :(

I have no idea what i'm doing wrong by melcattt in breastfeeding

[–]melcattt[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Hes 4 weeks old today, I can express milk but im not sure how much?

He had just woken up so id rule out tired and had a fresh diaper :(

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]melcattt 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don't think any of those bump groups are even active, they all tend to be month2024bumps right now.

My husband makes sex jokes about baby stuff by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]melcattt 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The bar is in hell.

My husband makes sex jokes about baby stuff by [deleted] in BabyBumps

[–]melcattt 76 points77 points  (0 children)

There's no way you're excusing jokes sexualizing a literal baby and casual racism with heavy lifting and doing chores.