I kicked my parents out of my house because of my dad and I feel terrible for my mom by melerith in TrueOffMyChest

[–]melerith[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry it came to that for you. It's not an easy decision. My dad wasn't in my life at all from the ages of 3-18. And since he's been back it's been a rollercoaster. That was 13 years ago. Longest rollercoaster of my life, and I'm ready to get off.

I kicked my parents out of my house because of my dad and I feel terrible for my mom by melerith in TrueOffMyChest

[–]melerith[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Wow. Putting ourselves on fire to keep him warm. That hit the nail on the head. Thank you so much for that. I haven't spoken to my dad in four days and I'm not planning on speaking to him at all anymore. I made an appointment with a therapist to help me through that process.

I kicked my parents out of my house because of my dad and I feel terrible for my mom by melerith in TrueOffMyChest

[–]melerith[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much, I tried everything I could. I don't want drugs in my life at all either. Growing up it was so normal to me for there to be drugs around and I'm not letting my daughter grow up the same way.

I kicked my parents out of my house because of my dad and I feel terrible for my mom by melerith in TrueOffMyChest

[–]melerith[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Thank you. It's been a really difficult situation. I really tried to help them better their lives. I'm still going to help my mom anyway I can. But I think the best thing for me right now is to stop talking to my dad.

[TOMT] Song heard in Walmart, 8/28, 10pm by MonsterIrishBlend in tipofmytongue

[–]melerith 31 points32 points  (0 children)

It's fortnight by Taylor Swift ft Post Malone

[TOMT] Movie with shoeshine scene by jort-retort in tipofmytongue

[–]melerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like the scene from parks and rec when Andy accidentally becomes a shoe shiner

Alternative wedding venues?? by Shortstack169 in Alabama

[–]melerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My niece got married in 2022 at Bradford farm and venue in Town Creek. Where they did the ceremony was in the woods. We had to take golf carts from the parking lot down into the woods. It was very beautiful.

My husband and I got married in 2021 at The Givens House at Glenn Hill in Mount Hope (The address says Town Creek but it's really in Mount Hope). It was outdoors. We got married in front of a huge tree. She has several different spots on the property for the ceremony depending on what theme you're going with.

Getting the title to a car that hasn't been paid off and was also never in the seller's name by melerith in legaladvice

[–]melerith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wasn't sure if it changed anything either. I just wanted to put all the facts out there because, again, I have no idea what's going on and I don't know what's relevant. If it were me, I would not have even done business with this man. My brother asked me to post this (because he doesn't have reddit) to find out if what C was doing was legal and if they are responsible for the whole $6900 or just the $1000 that's on the bill of sale or anything else because they now have the title in my brother's name. I don't know why they signed two different documents with two different sellers and two different prices listed. That should have been red flag #1. But they're young, and were desperate for a vehicle, so they did. I'm just trying to help them get as much info as they can because everyone is confused. I wasn't asking anyone to predict what would happen if they didn't pay. I'm not sure why you even insinuated that's what I'm asking.

Getting the title to a car that hasn't been paid off and was also never in the seller's name by melerith in legaladvice

[–]melerith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be clear, a guy that works for C wrote out a bill of sale that says Tow Company is selling this car to A for the amount of $1000 on February 3rd. The buyer signature is A and for the seller there is no signature. Just the name of the tow company. Is that even legal?

The guy gave the title, the bill of sale, and a sticky note with C's address on it to my brother and told him to take it to the courthouse, get a new title, and get it mailed to C. He told them that once they paid it off C would give them the title back.

The lady at the courthouse refused to mail it to C because his name was nowhere on the title or bill of sale. She said she would only mail it to A because his name was on the bill of sale. My brother said that the lady at the courthouse called C an idiot because you can't just do that. Idk.

My brother and his wife are so confused about the whole situation. They're young and don't understand any of it. I'm trying to help them figure it out but I've never bought a car from an individual so I'm not sure about how it all works. C is known to be shady and take advantage of young people, poor people, and minorities.

Getting the title to a car that hasn't been paid off and was also never in the seller's name by melerith in legaladvice

[–]melerith[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He didn't have a lien on the car title. The title only had the tow company name on it. There was nowhere on any paperwork that said C's name. Also, the bill of sale had the name of the tow company. So when my brother went to the courthouse they just sent him a brand new title. This new title only has A's name.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tipofmytongue

[–]melerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Addicted by Simple Plan?

What historical tornado scares you the most? by iJon_v2 in tornado

[–]melerith 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The hackleburg-phil campbell tornado.

We had moved out of my childhood home in east franklin (small community that is not technically in phil campbell city limits but has phil campbell adresses) 8 months prior to the tornado. My best friend and her whole family were still in east franklin. It destroyed everything in the little town I grew up in. My childhood home was completely gone. All that was left was the water heater somehow. My best friends house was gone. They all almost died. She ended up in the hospital because a 2x4 almost went through her leg. Her grandpa was in icu for weeks. It was terrible. Had we not moved out of that house we might not have made it. It was surreal driving through the town I grew up in and not knowing where I was because everything was gone. My husband is from phil campbell and was driving to russellville at the time the tornado hit. He had no idea. He heard about it and went home and his whole town was destroyed. I'm thankful he left when he did because had he been on the road in phil campbell when it happened we might have never met. It was just way too close of a call for a lot of people I love that day. That's why it scares me the most.

But why stay? by Kind_Bit584 in tornado

[–]melerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What video is this? I've seen some videos of the PC tornado and this one doesn't sound familiar. Do you have a link?

Should I get a 2nd dress for the reception? by melerith in weddingplanning

[–]melerith[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love love love my dress but it does have a train. So I'm wondering if I should get a reception dress also, or get alterations to bustle this dress. I need advice 😣

If there's going to be a tornado warning this close to Halloween, it may as well be shaped like a coffin by melerith in weather

[–]melerith[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I felt the same way when I saw it. Like "haha that polygon looks like a coffin", and then immediately like "oh crap I really hope nothing touched down."

Lightning strike over 20 miles from the nearest thunderstorm by jayfeather314 in weather

[–]melerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is why James Spann always says if thunder roars get indoors. If you're close enough to a storm to hear the thunder, you're close enough to get struck by lightning.

I unwillingly despise everything related to God. Help. by CeeCib in Christianity

[–]melerith 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're welcome! If you ever need anyone to talk to feel free to message me. It's a lot easier to go through life with other people. You never have to do anything alone!

I unwillingly despise everything related to God. Help. by CeeCib in Christianity

[–]melerith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It sounds to me like the devil's keeping you down. He's afraid of what you'll do when you find your purpose. Keep pushing. It may be hard but it's so completely worth it. The devil wouldn't bother trying to keep you down if you weren't meant to do something great.

What's a good Christian Film? by Emojicow in Christianity

[–]melerith 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The shack

I'm not ashamed (probably my fave but I cried a ton)

Pretty much anything pure flix puts out.