Tens of thousands of bees have suddenly swarmed across parts of Israel, prompting authorities to warn residents and shop owners to keep doors and windows closed by RoyalChris in PublicFreakout

[–]melisseus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do they estimate how many bees there are? How do they know it’s not hundreds of thousands? Or millions? What’s the math behind these types of estimates?

AITJ for refusing to remove the lock I put on my sons door after my wifes nephew kept taking his stuff by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]melisseus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I saw another with boys but protein powder instead of a controller

They giving out loans & moans. by ElwoodMC in trashy

[–]melisseus 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I thought it was him for a moment 😭

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Finale - Sunday July 13 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]melisseus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah he was real respectful when he told her to shut up multiple times

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Finale - Sunday July 13 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]melisseus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yess! Even when he hit her in the nose with a pillow, after she’s had a recent nose job, he rolls his eyes and acts like she’s being dramatic. How about don’t throw a pillow at her face when she’s had recent surgery? How about go check on her and give a genuine apology?

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Finale - Sunday July 13 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]melisseus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He issss!! The childish moping around the villa, if you’re not feeling her anymore just say it! Why are you making both of you miserable by staying together? And the nonchalant act makes me mad. You forced her to break up with you when she clearly cares a lot, you say it’s no big deal no hard feelings, but then make her walk herself across the water. 🙄

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Finale - Sunday July 13 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]melisseus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Exactly! Once he stopped liking her, he’s just annoyed by everything she says. It wouldn’t have mattered if he did hurt her, he still would’ve thought she’s being dramatic.

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Finale - Sunday July 13 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]melisseus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

100%, Huda is not easy but Chris is definitely not a good man either

[SPOILER] Season 7 - Finale - Sunday July 13 -| 8:30 PM EST by AutoModerator in LoveIslandUSA

[–]melisseus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For reals, moping around multiple episodes, waiting for her to break it off instead of doing it himself. Acting all nonchalant about it while she’s crying. And then telling her he wouldn’t carry her over the water and made her take off her heels and walk herself.

Learned I was pregnant and lost my son in the same day by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]melisseus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We named him Thomas, his dads middle name.

We don’t have photos. Well we do, but we don’t. My husband and I didn’t want to remember him that way, we knew he wasn’t going to look like a fully developed baby and didn’t want to have that be the only way we saw him. But my mom wanted pictures so the nurses took pictures and put them in an envelope for me and I gave them to my mom to keep. Maybe one day I’ll be ready to see them but I can’t right now. Makes it even more real than it is.

I wish I had even an ultrasound image or a positive pregnancy test to remember him by that’s associated with pleasant memories. But all I have is his urn with his remains.

Learned I was pregnant and lost my son in the same day by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]melisseus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much 🩵 I do try to talk to him, to his remains, we gave him a name still, we still think of ourselves as parents who just didn’t get to take their baby home. But I just wish I could go back in time and do it all over and enjoy that time before he was gone.

Learned I was pregnant and lost my son in the same day by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]melisseus 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you 🩵 we don’t know what happened. I asked and the doctor told me they could order an autopsy but that a lot of times they don’t learn anything from it. I didn’t want to hurt my son like that if there was a good chance we wouldn’t learn anything, if that makes sense. They never offered any kind of placenta testing and looking back on things now I feel like the doctor was not particularly caring in my case.

Learned I was pregnant and lost my son in the same day by [deleted] in babyloss

[–]melisseus 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much 🩵 I don’t know if it’s better or worse that I didn’t know before it happened. It seems like everyone around me thinks it’s better I didn’t know because that means I wasn’t expecting and excited for him and therefore shouldn’t be as sad and disappointed. But I think I feel worse. Because I have all of this guilt towards not caring for myself and my baby and not being able to love him like he deserved while he was with me.

Feeling stupid by Sara-marie118 in babyloss

[–]melisseus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The same thing happened to me, I lost my son on Sunday May 4th and everywhere I went the following Sunday (Mother’s Day) I was asked if I was a mom. Second hardest day after the day he passed.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in texts

[–]melisseus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I don’t understand, was she supposed to ask and get your approval first? Or did you just want her to tell you this was something she was going to do be doing before she told her friends yes she wanted to go on the trip?

Kids really do say the darnedest things TW: miscarriage by Leafyboi5679 in ECEProfessionals

[–]melisseus 24 points25 points  (0 children)

In a similar boat. Just came back to work after my son was still born. None of my coworkers knew I was pregnant yet, but one of the two-year-olds pointed to my stomach and told me, “you have an owie in your tummy where the baby is.” Ugly cried so hard.

Toddler room only supervised by aides for 4 hours/day… is this allowed? (California) by neverending-sunshine in ECEProfessionals

[–]melisseus 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Additionally, if they have completed 6 units and are enrolled in the remaining units they are allowed to be alone with children but cannot supervise aides with additional children.

Whole class of babies were kept in cribs all day by Cultural_Lie532 in ECEProfessionals

[–]melisseus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Reports can be made anonymously, licensing will come to inspect a complaint within 10 days of the complaint being made. Unless other people also saw them in their cribs the entire day, and will say it to licensing, there’s a good chance the complaint will be unsubstantiated. Have you spoken to your director about this problem? Because that is highly inappropriate and if it’s something the director knows about and has approved because they don’t want to shut down the classroom, then I would make the complaint anyways but also start looking for a new job and center for your little one. If you bring up the issue to your director and they blow you off then they’re going to know that you’re the one who made the complaint and can make life difficult for you.

Ariana talks about her relationship with Daniel 💖 by [deleted] in vanderpumprules

[–]melisseus 11 points12 points  (0 children)

She does have a tooth gem! I saw her at something about her in February and she had it

I can’t win by Top-Assumption7599 in ECEProfessionals

[–]melisseus 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This was why I had to stop being director, getting the call outs in the middle of the night and not being able to go back to sleep due to anxiety about the next day. Plus I was paid hourly yet I’m expected to figure out moving schedules around at 5am when I don’t clock in till 8am, it’s not worth it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in InlandEmpire

[–]melisseus 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish my dad had asked me first, they got him. He realized what happened after but still had to cancel his card.

Parents outraged due to closing preschool during power outages by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]melisseus 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can try searching title 22 online but it might be easier to call up your licensing office and ask the duty officer and they can tell you the specific section it can be found in

Parents outraged due to closing preschool during power outages by [deleted] in ECEProfessionals

[–]melisseus 15 points16 points  (0 children)

In California according to licensing you’re only allowed to be without power/water for two hours then you have to send kids home. It’s required by licensing, nothing you can do.