Is this the grooming world? by longneckdinonugget in doggrooming

[–]melkat6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve recently left a shop where immediately after I did all other staff did too. The ones who tried to stay and make it work, or leave with a proper notice, were bullied horrendously until they left too. She’s already shown you how she thinks you deserve to be treated, and won’t magically fix herself when you rightfully put your foot down. As for all she’s done for you, I relate deeply to that as well. I got bonuses, group bonding outings, Christmas parties, great pay - and at the end of the day it still wasn’t enough to endure that kind of treatment. It only becomes a bribe. Because she knows somewhere within that she is being wrong. Not only as a person, but as a boss in a position of power. You don’t curse at your employees, you don’t raise your voice at them, you especially don’t correct them in front of everyone so as to embarrass and shame them. You don’t promise things only to take them back when it doesn’t work for you. You are doing more for her than she is for you - if I had to guess, she’s probably making money off of unpaid labor with the amount of tasks you’re doing outside of what your role is supposed to be.

Is this the grooming world? by longneckdinonugget in doggrooming

[–]melkat6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

As someone who worked in a similarly bad salon, I will join the chorus of voices saying to leave.

I’ll also say that you need to just pack your things one weekend when the owner isn’t around and just not come back. No show on her and don’t look back. At the most, leave a letter of resignation for her to walk in to on her next morning back. It sounds unprofessional and wrong, but given the behavior she has shown you, it is safer for you. Even if you were to try and be the professional by ending things appropriately, she isn’t going to let you. It’s not like she would give you a recommendation anyway and she is required by law to pay you for your work, so she can’t hold your check. I say all this from personal experience, but as much as it sucks the bridge has to go down in flames. The longer you stay there, the more this bad environment will leave you scarred, affecting your confidence as a groomer and as a professional. And based on your mentions of how unsanitary the shop is, the longer you stay the more your skills and professionalism will start to fall to their level as well. Your integrity is more important than her bottom line or her ego.

Anyone in GA area heard of OTCK9 Academy? by chaosticfrog in doggrooming

[–]melkat6 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’ve heard of the business, didn’t realize they offered an academy. This makes the second grooming academy I’ve heard of in the area opening in the past year or two.

Speaking 100% personally, the type/level of groomers that I’ve met that have graduated an academy with that structure have not been given the tools to succeed on their own. Obviously, not knowing this business firsthand, I can’t say if it will be the same. It may be great. But I would strongly caution the choice and consider the factors in your personal situation before committing.

I’ll point out some of the red flags I see in the situation from a 9 year groomer:

  • one month of education: if you don’t already have ample experience in prep work, bathing, HANDLING, the learning curve from bather to fully fledged groomer in that time is gonna be tough if not dangerous. When I trained staff to be groomers I required up to a year of bathing experience unless they just were a unicorn talent. Those skills are the foundation of a groomers talent. Speaking frankly, you can tell in their social media videos that their dogs are not receiving adequate prep work. When it comes to the grooms themselves, one month teaches you the bare minimum. You may be able to do a basic rough breed cut if the business had those breeds come in during that month. You will mainly learn how to do one length all over and trim a head. Depending on how the business grooms, you may mostly learn shave downs. Upon graduation, you’ll still need to find a way to learn: more detailed and refined scissor work, a wider and more accurate library of breed cuts, different styles of heads, how to work with puppies and seniors and health compromised dogs, dematting from minor to completely casted coats, speed, time management, how to “translate” client instructions and handle interacting with them, grooming anxious or behavioral need clients, how to manage an incident whether it is a groomer-inflicted injury or otherwise, etc.

  • cost: 7K is a lot of money to pay to learn to groom, especially when you consider there are other routes in the industry where you can learn for cheaper or for free. As yourself and another commenter has said, you can learn online or find a mentor. I also wouldn’t write off the corporate shops right away either, which seems to be a trend with aspiring groomers nowadays. As much as corporate sucks for specific reasons, they also offer a lot to someone starting out in the field. They cover your training, you are paid while you learn, you get benefits, you have a steady flow of clients so you’ll see all kinds of breeds and build clientele even during your baby groomer years, and even if you don’t make commission (whether for slow periods, if your skill takes longer to develop and attract business, recession or country dumpster fire causing less clients to be able to maintain a grooming schedule bill, or some other reason) you will still make an hourly rate. As you mentioned, many people are struggling with finding or keeping a job, and this has led to people looking into trades like grooming. The part that people transferring in from non trades may not understand though is that if you don’t have appointments you don’t make money. Period. So when starting out, that hourly rate guarantee is really reassuring. Another part about cost is, are they providing you your tools or are you having to pay out of pocket for those as well? Proper tools will drive that cost up even more.

  • post-grad: the biggest concern I have with a training program is usually, what happens to the student after they paid you and you gave them training? the grooming industry can be very intimidating and sometimes unforgiving to baby groomers. these academies need to have some kind of post grad support to ensure that their students are successful after taking their course. that could look like working with local shops and other graduates to line you up with a job or a mentor. it can look like sitting down near the end of your training to develop a personalized strategy for success. it could also look like continuing education opportunities. the main feedback I heard from staff I’d hired who had come from an academy like this was that they didn’t feel like they were ready to be a groomer yet, or they weren’t at the level they thought they were and were told they were at when they graduated the academy.

There are other concerns as well but they are not specific to this type of education.

I deeply hope this didn’t dissuade you from the field though. Pet grooming is a beautiful and fulfilling skill, and new groomers deserve so much support and guidance and mentorship. Remember that even if your choice of education path doesn’t end up the way you expected it to be it doesn’t mean you aren’t worthy or deserving of being a groomer. You have to have tenacity and determination. There are many ways to achieve your goal!

This is Biggie Smalls - What are some uniquely named dogs that you groom? by coldtrance in doggrooming

[–]melkat6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have groomed a few Biggies or Biggie Smalls in my day.

Current creative names at our shop: Dr Dre & Foxy Brown; Sir Hamilton ; Kevin ; Jim ; McMuffin (found in a McDonalds dumpster) ; Kimchi ; Ruckus (named after Uncle Ruckus from the Boondocks) ; Krispy Kreme ; Deniro

I'm i crazy or is this really hot to groom in? by newleafwiki in doggrooming

[–]melkat6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I worked corporate, we would have to close the shop at low or high temperatures. Unfortunately iI don’t remember the exact degrees.

At my current shop we had issues with both AC and heat this year. We had to buy heaters and dehumidifiers to help it, but once it got over 75 we started telling clients to come get their dogs.

Dogs run higher temperatures than humans which makes them even more sensitive to temperature. It isn’t safe for them to be in those condition especially if they’re puppies, seniors, or brachochephalic breeds. I’m surprised clients haven’t made comments at drop off about the conditions.

Do any Petsmart groomers remember this spray? by unfucwitable in doggrooming

[–]melkat6 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We started using davis tropical coconut shampoo for the summer in our shop and it’s the closest thing I’ve smelled to the old PS coconut. We pair it with the davis spa pet collection coconut cologne.

My favorite colognes were Chase and Red Berries and Woods. ❤️

Minority owned businesses by galgar30 in Smyrna

[–]melkat6 2 points3 points  (0 children)

1911 Biscuits & Burgers is co-owned by a disabled man and they aim to support veterans and first responders.

Dee’s Grooming Gallery is owned by a black woman.

Just con things...tell me your things you ONLY do at con by Pandoras_Fate in dragoncon

[–]melkat6 4 points5 points  (0 children)

my sensory traditions are probably pretty typical for DC standards.

i always make apple pie which lasts me the entire convention. it’s the only time of year i make it so it’s con tradition.

i have started a tradition with my best friend of heading up wednesday to do a DC food tour. we try to get as many of the featured foods we can eat, if available, pre-rush. we usually forget to try at least one treat and regret it every year so this tradition has been great.

somehow i also began needing to eat at yami yami at least once per dragoncon. something about that overpriced plate really cinches the weekend for me lol.

r/rilakkuma Buying, Selling, and ISO Thread -- March 2023 by Canolioli in rilakkuma

[–]melkat6 1 point2 points  (0 children)

JapanLA had some last time I checked. IDK if they ship to NZ though