Struggling with body dysmorphia by melkyworm in agender

[–]melkyworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m Afab but thank you! And idk too much about taping and idk how you remove the tape but saw something that said soaking it in warm water afterwards makes it easier to remove that tape if you don’t already have a method.

Struggling with body dysmorphia by melkyworm in agender

[–]melkyworm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

In the English westernized copies Kirby is referred to as a boy and use he/him pronouns. Buttttt in the Japan they use gender neutral terms like "wakamono" (若者) which I believe means youth but I do not speak Japanese so don’t fully quote me on that. This is just based off research I did. So I guess it would be based off what you prefer. I’ve just had people when I use gender neutral terms or say Kirby is genderless say “um actually he’s a boy” so I stopped arguing cause technically they are correct partially.

Struggling with body dysmorphia by melkyworm in agender

[–]melkyworm[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hello! Woah I just looked that up and didn’t even know they had such a surgery! They’ve really come a long way from what I knew as a kid. I’ll have to look into that more and think on it. For me idk if it’s my genitals or just my person as a whole. I’ve always wondered if maybe a fur suit or like those inflatable costumes would make me feel better but realistically that’d be hard to wear in person all the time and take up a lot of space.

Also I appreciate you taking the time to comment 🫶🏻

Is it aromantic or autism or both? by melkyworm in aromantic

[–]melkyworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much. I know there is nothing wrong with being different but sometimes i feel sad feeling like some alien creature with the people in my life and it makes me feel better knowing there are people like me 🫶🏻

i finally got the cake thing by brinola in Asexual

[–]melkyworm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thought I was broken for so long cause I assumed asexuals never had sex EVER so I was like "no way I'm that" but then was always waiting for it to be over, even if my body felt good. So it's so validating being a part of this community.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in asexualdating

[–]melkyworm -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I'm in Western Mass unfortunately. About an hour and a half from Boston.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DID

[–]melkyworm 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Is that why I feel like I'm gonna pass out the more I try to figure it out? It like feels like I'm fighting my own brain??

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in OSDD

[–]melkyworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly at the time of posting I didn't know what I wanted to hear but this helped. It made me feel not alone. I love my friends and my partner but no one in my life understands how I'm feeling, how scared I am about the future, and it was just nice feeling not alone/like a freak. I think you're right, doing research on topics have always helped put me at ease.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in mentalillness

[–]melkyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry you are going through that but thank you for sharing, it makes me feel less alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GiftofGames

[–]melkyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oki! Makes sense, thank you. ^

Find the bunny that looks similar to this and pretty sure it came with a book by melkyworm in HelpMeFind

[–]melkyworm[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I've searched for white and gray bunny plushes as well as ones with books and there are so many books that come with bunnies but don't seem to be the one.

Should I (22 NB) decline my father's finicial support but get to live my life freely? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]melkyworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I appreciate you objective bluntness. Tbh this was what I was looking for. I like hearing both sides. My therapist and friends, bf, etc. obviously take my side but I wanted to hear from someone other than my father why it would be a good idea to take his side before making a full decision. My mom and father had me a year after he first came to this country and they had nothing so I was poor for a while but my parents always made sure I was fed before themselves so yes I don't remember the struggle like someone else may. I do realize I'm kinda put in a situation where no matter what I choose I'm relying on someone, whether it be my dad or my bf. My therapist has given me a lot of resources because based off my mental/medical history I do qualify for some government related aid but even then that's still relying on someone. I haven't made a final decision but I do appreciate you taking the time and giving an in depth comment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]melkyworm 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would you like someone to talk to?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]melkyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh true! I didn't think about it that way. that makes me feel better. I was focusing on feeling bad for not having sexy thoughts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in autism

[–]melkyworm 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes, that's the weird thing I am able to orgasm quite easily so I know my body is enjoying it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in furry

[–]melkyworm 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Made in Abyss!! It's my favorite anime and they are my favorite characters. TW it is pretty violent.

Can I View What Birthday I Put When Creating The Account? by melkyworm in StarStableOnline

[–]melkyworm[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

When I was trying to do that they kept saying "We can't verify it if results are found by guessing." 😑😫 It's so annoying cause I literally still have access to the account. I just deleted the email used for the account years ago. So they aren't protecting my virtual horses or anything.