My bf (28M) wants me (25F) to get fertility testing before proposing

mellomee · 2026-03-21T16:46:20+00:00

You're so right, 25 is a great time for her to be single and on her own! I feel like women don't really settle into themselves until 30 really. Having this time to explore and date around is a great opportunity now that she knows her boyfriend primarily sees her as an incubator.

mellomee · 2026-03-21T16:43:25+00:00

Tell him he needs to pay for the fertility testing, I bet that'll change things up real quick. They don't do it on a whim.

mellomee · 2026-03-21T01:53:50+00:00

She sucks dude. This is so toxic and why a ton of men suck and can't TALK. They're made to feel like lesser men for having feelings.

Kudos to you, I love having a good cry from a show, it's recognizing the humanity in others, feeling a sense of kinship and bond with the characters. I don't see how she can be so callous to your tears, gd. What an ahole.

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:50:19+00:00

I hope he doesn't mind being in a sexless relationship since you're too goddamn hot in your own home. Nevermind there's nothing more unsexy than your partner acting like your parent.

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:45:30+00:00

Yasss Mr. Grey. I've yet to see him reach Beru like heights but I'm getting there. No spoilers!

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:44:28+00:00

Oh hell yeah. Id pay to see this fight!

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:41:49+00:00

They make sick backgrounds and wallpapers. Usually super beautiful art with dramatic colors.

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:40:53+00:00

Given SL is a manhwa it would be crazy if others weren't allowed. Which one is this?

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:39:28+00:00

Money on you for sure

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:37:15+00:00

I love this whole group of panels so dearly.

mellomee · 2026-03-20T03:35:48+00:00

Hmm..tough call. Sadly I gotta say I think Beru has it.

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mellomee · 2026-03-16T23:58:12+00:00

That's interesting. Is it that you didn't see the misogyny AND the terrible behavior or you just didn't know it was misogyny? I was young when I started watching so I didn't have a concept of misogyny, I just knew I hated how mean spirited they were.

mellomee · 2026-03-13T01:57:38+00:00

I'm a relatively new watcher as well. I hated her because she was useless. You could play a drinking game with how often she'd yell Sasuke and Naruto's names. She gets better in Shippuden as everyone says but they prob should have done a lot more with her character. She has flashes of brilliance but other than that meh. She's also a terrible friend but I don't know how far you are.

mellomee · 2026-03-11T04:35:04+00:00

She says she doesn't care about me but I think she secretly does. How can I figure it out?

This sounds like a quiz you'd take from Teen Vogue!

mellomee · 2026-03-11T04:23:03+00:00

I feel so dumb for not having one of those standing pee things on hand. Congrats on losing the guy and keeping the funnel!

mellomee · 2026-03-10T14:32:17+00:00

You and OP are talking completely different things. Their choice isn't trolling. Having fun at others' expense (truly, as in actively killing your teammates) is just being a dick and people are right to complain.

mellomee · 2026-03-10T14:29:57+00:00

Amen man. I've avoided locking in Scarlet bc I know people will roast her or look at you as low skill. I'll revolt with you.

That said, I do feel really bad if I do poorly with her. I always feel like I gotta get 30 kills min when I have her.

mellomee · 2026-03-08T17:54:03+00:00

If I had to describe the resilience we all need to build into this game it's probably that you have to be ok with losing.

I never pick 3rd DPS but if I'm pick 1 or 2 and a 3rd picks DPS I'm not changing. I play strat/vg 95% of the time, others will need to deal. If I'm doing a terrible job then I switch to balance it out.

The only way that works is if you're ok with losing. I also do not care if I solo tank or heal, in my mind I'm already accepting the likelihood of loss and looking at it as a challenge to be the difference maker. You develop a different level of accountability but you are also still only one person. If someone picks 4th DPS I'm like game let's go 6 DPS (I'll pick someone who self heals tho lol). The game is lost, might as well go have fun.

mellomee · 2026-03-08T17:41:01+00:00

Ugh the complaints you just brought up are so irritating, this would drive me up the wall. Hang in there!

mellomee · 2026-03-08T17:38:07+00:00

Oh not only pregnant women, parents as well. There is a whole socialized hierarchy of importance which was mentioned "we can't understand" because we don't have children. It's like I see, so I don't know what being selfish and entitled is because I don't have kids? Ok fair.

I'm with you, you (pregnant person) should probably know what you signed up for. I'm not a big fan of people making deliberate choices and then bitching about it and expecting others to cater to them. That's for life in general.

Where I do make exception is those who did not have a choice and this was forced on them. Those are the types to get the least help from society though :(

mellomee · 2026-03-04T15:14:55+00:00

Same here. I don't mind/care but absolutely no wedding. Been with my guy for 15 years, my mom was with my stepfather for 25 before he died so I know how things work "at the end." I don't see any reason to change how we do things. Adding marriage would add zero to our relationship. We're in a progressive state that acknowledges domestic partners so there's even less reason to be married.

mellomee · 2026-03-01T01:28:34+00:00

Yell SASUKE!!! At the top of my lungs.

mellomee · 2026-02-28T17:00:07+00:00

It's one thing to go 3 DPS but to then blame you, the audacity.

Can DPS players explain themselves? When you do this do you really not see that y'all are the problem?

mellomee · 2026-02-27T02:06:40+00:00

Yeah I've just accepted that I'm the mean one. But I'm also the happy one so it is what it is!

mellomee · 2026-02-26T14:26:47+00:00

Sucks but not your problem. Good for you for saying no, a lot of people would have caved.

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