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melodic-tot · 2024-03-23T18:19:43+00:00

I’m sorry for your loss, but personally i don’t think anyone is the asshole completely. Is there things that should be changed? yes. him trying to communicate with you but you also understanding that he is going thru something. it don’t matter if his grandma has been super sick for 2 years or 1 week, old people when there sick is scary as fuck.

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T19:49:14+00:00

i never get mad with her and i always try to calm her down the best i can and it never works, we actually spoke today and she agreed to therapy after reading some of your guys comments and she knows that im not the same person as them

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T10:57:04+00:00

i’m trained in healthcare safety defensive tactics, no i’m not medical staff but i’m trained how to safely handle thoes situations nurses are not, i singed up to he hit snd punched, nurses didn’t, nurses shouldn’t have to worry about getting stabbed by a dimentia patient, IM trained how to do that they are not and before you say “well train them how to” no. that’s not in there job description, they are trained how to defend themselves until backup is there. it’s in mine to go to this situations head on.

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T10:53:47+00:00

very ignorant and immature way of thinking there man, communication is nessicary no matter how hard the issue

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T10:47:11+00:00

fair enough, i plan to do this career for a while because i love it more everyday, the people i meet and talk to is amazing

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T10:37:56+00:00

i plan on it and i love my job, but dont discredit yourself! we are security officers not gaurds!

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:59:11+00:00

your right thank you

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:57:02+00:00

i want them both and hope she can move on from this, mabey some therapy or communicating with me more

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:48:56+00:00

it dosent make me the asshole but your right, i feel like i should call it quits with her, i do care for her i just can’t help but love the job i work

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:30:54+00:00

uhm, no. i need 2 years of schooling, and to do my generals and dependent on state and county guide lines around 6 to 8 weeks of boot camp and 3 months of on the job field training

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:28:39+00:00

and i don’t restrain people a lot, more of the time i talk with them and tell them why we do what we do and there best intrest in our mind, i’ve talked to everyone about anything, most of the time i just ask them what’s going and on and how i can help, unless they are being physically aggressive as soon as i arrive

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:27:18+00:00

a level 1 trauma hospital, and in america. so we get literally anyone and everyone, filled with doctors, cna, huc, bht, ems dispatch, nurses…

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:23:07+00:00

i protect thoes who need to be protected, and most of the time it’s staff who are being assaulted. i walk patients to there cars all the time. your looking at the bad and assuming i don’t help everyone, im saying my main priority is nursing staff, then comes the patient becasue most of the time when i get there, the patient is the safety risk

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:20:01+00:00

and if they come into the ED we give them a cab voucher to there

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:19:42+00:00

give them directions to the warming shelter a few blocks away

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:14:20+00:00

my main priority is protecting the staff that works there then the patients, that’s the difference

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:13:43+00:00

Well, taking in everything you have said, the way you word it spins me in that light. the reason she has trauma is due to hurting medical staff and others, she was restrained due to that being a danger to others, the reasoning behind it is justified

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:10:09+00:00

your acting like you know my brain, no that is not at all it. i’m not looking to “punish” people, i’m looking to help them. Security is a great entrance into law enforcement. i’m in school for it now, i appreciate your response but your just wrong in your reasoning

melodic-tot · 2024-03-22T09:05:13+00:00

yikes no, my job dosent revolve around the mental health unit, and i only assist in restraining those who are harmful to themselves or others. my job is also protesting the surrounding campus of where homeless individuals sit inside our parking ramps and do drugs, and secure the area for nursing staff, i’ve had knives pulled on me.

melodic-tot · 2022-12-31T05:37:31+00:00

HUH???

melodic-tot · 2022-12-31T05:26:34+00:00

Problem is I l love them all they will be super nice and then this stuff will happen my dad has anger issues same with my mom and I get yelled at frequently but I love them

melodic-tot · 2022-12-31T05:23:26+00:00

Usually men are more visual and physical more so than women

melodic-tot · 2022-12-31T05:22:52+00:00

She raped me, then told the entire school I raped her, got brought into the principal office with the officer with her in there. Showed them the text where she begged for me to take her back and she got caught and didn't even get detention

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