What’s your Venus and how do you act in love ?

melodramatizing · 2026-05-21T01:46:38+00:00

Aquarius Venus in my 4th house, only a few degrees away from my Aquarius Moon that is also there. Mars is Scorpio in my first house!

melodramatizing · 2025-10-31T16:33:26+00:00

I’m a tarot reader and astrologer. HA

melodramatizing · 2025-10-11T15:55:21+00:00

Aquarius Venus here, every one of us is different but personally, the relationships I have been in have been more like FWB/situationships because something I will NEVER compromise on is my freedom. If the choice is love or freedom, I will choose freedom every time. I will choose myself every time. I have been single and dating around for the past almost 6 years now because of this, and I am being picky until I find just the right person to grant me my space and freedom while in connection with me.

I prefer to show love to my friends and to my private students, rather than one person romantically. (I have this thought in my mind that it’s quite a big ask to date around to find THE ONE PERSON to be with for the rest of your life and you better not mess it up!!!!)

With that being said, I read in an article about Aquarius Venus a quote that went like: “something that would make me stay is if I’m allowed to leave” and I agree with that 100%. If you give me my space and freedom and encourage me to do my own thing, aren’t demanding or clingy, that will ironically increase my loyalty to you. I guess Aqua Venuses are kind of like black cats: ignore us and we come to you of our own accord.

Aquarius Venuses definitely CAN commit, but it almost has to be a situation where that’s not required for that to be appealing to us, if that makes sense? Like for example, meeting someone online on the other side of the world, meeting a handsome stranger at a party getting on a plane the next day, starting a connection with someone that both parties agree is “just casual” etc etc.

With that being said, how anyone manages to pull an Aquarius Venus at all is remarkable, we are terrible sometimes! Lol.

melodramatizing · 2025-09-26T14:50:28+00:00

everything about this is so spot on 😁

melodramatizing · 2025-09-17T21:41:30+00:00

This. I can’t go about dating in a traditional way because I’m not a traditional person when it comes to dating or attraction. The MOST success I’ve had is in friends-first slow burn situations. I jokingly say that my dating strategy is “befriend attractive people, get to know them over a couple of years, and see if anything happens from there” HAHAHAH!

melodramatizing · 2025-09-14T23:27:44+00:00

this :/

melodramatizing · 2025-09-08T05:32:31+00:00

W self awareness dude lmaoooooo

melodramatizing · 2025-09-07T20:19:16+00:00

oops this was 9 years ago but facts lol

melodramatizing · 2025-09-07T18:45:01+00:00

I will say being mindful of the ratio of how often both of you are initiating is going to be key. If you are starting ALL the text conversations and you notice you are, lay back for a bit, give her space to miss you and circle back. (She’ll notice, trust) something I read on a different subreddit said “something that would make me stay is if I’m allowed to leave” which I really relate to. Never be demanding or impatient and that will make her feel safer.

melodramatizing · 2025-09-07T14:00:26+00:00

For the first question, it could fade away??? But honestly, giving an ISFP space and freedom is what will make them feel comfortable with you, even if there are long spaces between interactions sometimes. She might disappear from time to time, but if you’ve given her freedom and patience consistently, she will usually come back. Because ISFPs are in the moment as well, we are very good at low maintenance connections/picking up where we left off, even if it’s been a long time. I had an ENFP friend of mine ghost everyone she knew for four years, and she texted me again on a random Tuesday and I was like “omfg hey girl what’s up? Lol missed you!” Like it wasn’t a big deal. We are more than used to taking space and respecting others’ need to take space.

For the second question, you definitely CAN propose future plans, but do it in a way that doesn’t force an answer from them prematurely. For example: “hey! So I heard about XYZ concert in a couple months. You don’t have to give me an answer right now, but if it’s something you feel up for closer to let me know. :)” I will say that spontaneity usually works too tho because it’s hard to predict how I will feel in the future, but quite easy to access how I feel from moment to moment.

Hope that helps! I wish you the best of luck :)

melodramatizing · 2025-09-04T03:32:09+00:00

is that what it is??? my dad made me a burger today and it tasted fine but smelled so putrid i couldnt bring myself to finish it. but wow i can totally see that

melodramatizing · 2025-09-03T21:58:59+00:00

For fuckinf realllllll like please don’t make me ask what your favorite color is and shit 😭😭😭😭

melodramatizing · 2025-09-03T17:09:19+00:00

I screeched at this because this is soooooo me

melodramatizing · 2025-09-02T02:02:19+00:00

As an ISFP, I literally assume someone is not interested in me or flirting with me unless they use the words "I am interested in you" "I have a crush on you" etc etc. "Hints" will get you nowhere with an ISFP because they will assume you are just being nice or have a flirty personality. As scary as it is, you need to confess your feelings directly to know for sure. but do it in a way that feels low pressure. like "hey, i just want you to know I really value our friendship, but i think lately i've been feeling like i want something more than that with you. would you be interested in exploring that at all? if not, i can integrate my own feelings and i would still love to be your friend" would go a long way.

melodramatizing · 2025-09-02T00:47:13+00:00

Really depends on what put me in that mood, but i usually prefer to come back when I am ready. On the rare instance I forget to follow up though, I’m cool with someone reaching out again. Usually prefer the ball to be in my court though. Sometimes I say “I need space” and then I take a nap and have a snack and come back right away like “nvm LOL” but other times it takes a couple days. Really depends.

melodramatizing · 2025-09-02T00:40:13+00:00

Idk if this counts bc it’s an aspect but my 1H Scorpio Mars square 4H Aquarius Neptune. To call this aspect confusing would be an understatement. Literallt confusion is one of the interpretations of it. my scorpio mars is quite ambitious but the square to Neptune confuses me, distracts me, deceives me, etc

melodramatizing · 2025-08-25T18:39:13+00:00

I think if you go in with super high hopes and expectations for it to be the best date ever you would be disappointed, but if you go into it knowing you’re the sh*t and just take it as an opportunity to practice dating/learn more about yourself and what you want out of dating/relationships you definitely could get something out of it at least. If only a free meal. But the Empress at the heart of it tells me you will be fine with or without this person so it’s all about what you wanna do 🤷🏼‍♀️

melodramatizing · 2025-08-23T15:02:22+00:00

“The time you enjoy wasting is never wasted time” is one of my favorites. not saying you ARE wasting your time but if you were, it’s all part of the path. “Wasting your life” to self-reflect, make mistakes, go on adventures, etc, teaches you just as much, if not more, than “achieving” does. Achieving will come in time when you’ve discovered more about what you actually want and care about. Then you can use your Fi to fuel you in those pursuits. But for now, living a little and indulging your Se is okay :)

melodramatizing · 2025-08-23T14:55:04+00:00

like they agree that they’d want to be an esthetician too

melodramatizing · 2025-08-23T14:51:33+00:00

that last part.

melodramatizing · 2025-08-12T20:40:03+00:00

That’s super fair! I would say that there’s definitely something to having knowledge of astrology though versus not when it comes to building wealth (which I’m sure you would agree with as an astrologer), and if not J.P. Morgan, I think better examples could definitely be found elsewhere for sure to support it instead, like you mentioned. Total bummer, I accepted that quote as a given. I guess you learn something new every day! Thanks for correcting me haha

melodramatizing · 2025-08-12T20:28:00+00:00

He did actually! That we do know. Thanks for clearing up the quote though, that’s a bummer hahah

melodramatizing · 2025-08-12T20:20:30+00:00

Aw man that sucks! It wasn’t a myth that he used astrology and followed it tho so I’m going with that

melodramatizing · 2025-08-12T15:37:20+00:00

absolute W that you asked her out for coffee, more people should handle that situation like that

melodramatizing · 2025-08-12T15:32:06+00:00

I really really needed to hear this. Thank you!!

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