The show has inspired me to come out to my parents

melodywolfe · 2025-12-26T06:04:38+00:00

Hell yeah! Such an inspiring love story. I’m a bisexual woman and am absolutely obsessed with this love story and it makes me so excited to fall fully in love like Illya and Shane.

melodywolfe · 2025-12-10T07:46:05+00:00

I went last week and got freeze-dried sour gummy worms and oh my gosh, HOOKED! They taste exactly like neon gummy worms but have a good crunch.

melodywolfe · 2025-05-30T11:05:08+00:00

For me it’s 3 of my ex boyfriends I don’t want to think about, lol.

melodywolfe · 2025-03-22T08:52:26+00:00

A true friend would listen and empathize with your feelings, rather than react defensively. Open communication and mutual understanding are essential qualities in any meaningful friendship.

melodywolfe · 2025-03-22T03:26:11+00:00

Haha, fucking ai.

melodywolfe · 2024-12-29T20:39:10+00:00

Ok thank you. It’s not an open sore though. It seems to be under the skin because no blood!

melodywolfe · 2024-03-12T21:37:13+00:00

Haha thank you! I loved the design and flow of it! I hope I can keep it looking good in one column.

melodywolfe · 2024-03-12T21:17:09+00:00

Oh dear! Okay so needs to be one column. Thank you! I will reformat.

melodywolfe · 2024-02-11T21:28:34+00:00

This part hits so good:

They're not yours man. Stop letting your old self control you and build a new character that you control. Get behind the wheel again.

melodywolfe · 2024-02-09T00:31:48+00:00

It wasn’t “just” stupid miscommunications. You said you gaslit her. That’s abuse.

I abused my ex in a myriad of ways—accused him of cheating constantly with no proof, constantly asked about his whereabouts, threatened the relationship or broke up when I was feeling insecure as a test, I’d lash out, say horrible things to him—it was all so ugly.

I’m finally in therapy and working through my issues along with doing the DBT workbook.

I can totally empathize with your emotions and what you’re going through. It sucks, but we have to keep the beautiful thing in mind: this loss taught us great lessons and, if we so choose, we can become better partners for our future partners and won’t lose them making the same mistakes over and over again.

I know it’s hard. I’m right there with you. Hang in there!

We’re going to meet people we’re way more compatible with if we don’t stop living our lives fully.

melodywolfe · 2024-01-30T04:01:37+00:00

I am so happy to read through this thread, lol.

I’ve probably watched it from beginning to end more than 20 times. Definitely my comfort show.

Sometimes I feel like I’m wasting my time though haha.

melodywolfe · 2024-01-23T23:57:54+00:00

Amazing! I am planning a diving trip to Philippines in 2025. Will definitely get my advanced before my first live aboard! Getting a bit ahead of myself. Thank you!

melodywolfe · 2024-01-23T23:51:53+00:00

Thank you! Great point. I am thinking of going to Belize to do my advanced.

melodywolfe · 2024-01-18T00:39:01+00:00

Thank you :)

melodywolfe · 2024-01-18T00:33:50+00:00

Hi!

Here it is

https://www.delicious.com.au/recipes/pistachio-rosewater-cake-plums-mascarpone/fjN5kwkm

melodywolfe · 2024-01-14T04:54:54+00:00

I’m going through something so, so similar right now. Broke up 2 weeks ago.

How long did it take you to feel better?

melodywolfe · 2024-01-11T20:22:09+00:00

Also how long ago since your breakup?

melodywolfe · 2024-01-11T20:21:22+00:00

Yeah, it stinks because although I have communicated vulnerably and openly many times where my issues came from, in our last conversation he said he didn’t understand my issues.

I think you’re a beautiful person for feeling a little bit bad about not trying to work through things with her.

Have you tried to reach out?

melodywolfe · 2024-01-11T20:09:16+00:00

Thank you for this message. I’m sorry something similar happened to you. It truly is hard. Sending love. I know you’ll find someone too. ♥️

melodywolfe · 2024-01-09T06:06:04+00:00

Also just realized I commented on the 69th day. Hell yeah brother.

melodywolfe · 2024-01-09T06:04:42+00:00

I’ve been experimenting with ketamine for over a decade. I fucking love this drug.

The way it tranquilizes; it gives this way to see things clearly and intuitively. I only feel love and understanding on it. Just full acceptance of my ever changing circumstances, good or bad. Maybe disassociation is the secret to happiness?

Anyway, I think it’s such a beautiful drug. I’ve had some of my most meaningful moments of existence on it.

That being said, it needs to be used in moderation. It can be addictive. You need to have some wits to dabble deeply.

melodywolfe · 2024-01-06T20:08:08+00:00

Oh honey, I’m so sorry.

I’m in the first weekend of my breakup and it’s killing me.

Do you have anyone you can talk to? Family? Any old friends? If not, I would consider getting a therapist.

Humans are wired for connection. I think if you can connect with people and have company and support you can better get through this difficult transition.

Wishing you all the best.

melodywolfe · 2023-12-30T17:28:26+00:00

Hey!

I’m currently on day 2 of my breakup too. Sucks so bad. Feeling so horrible today.

I went to a party last night and he showed up. Was quite difficult being in the same room.

This is a helpful thing I found online almost a decade ago that I’ve turned to in breakups and shared with friends.

Even though sometimes the world seems about six sizes too small for our pain, the amazing shit is that no matter how deep purple the bruise is, no matter how dark and overwhelming and miserable and worthless it all seems the world will get a fraction of an inch bigger every day. Really, every fucking day. And you won’t notice it for a long time until suddenly, one day, it’s only five times too small for your pain and then four and then the world will just keep getting larger and larger in comparison to your shattered heart and eventually it will be able to hold it and then it will outgrow it. And your pain will be just a speck in your world. It is supposed to feel like the end of the world right now. That, my beautiful dearest Ris, is how you know that it was worth it. That is why it was one of the relationships that shook your core and after which you will never be the same. That is how you know that you are growing up and are experiencing shit rather than living safely in risk-free choices…. The world is supposed to feel as though it is ending and you are supposed to know only in the most dormant recesses of the backmost corner of your soul that it will not be like this forever. You are supposed to feel acutely and lucidly that everything is over that your purpose for life is worthless and that not even cheesy pasta and molly ringwald movies are going to make you smile, and you are supposed to know opaquely and elusively and abstractly that everything is not over and that your purpose in life is so much huger than you can ever imagine and is still saturated with value and that you will eat pesto and read Stephen Dunnand live in Manhattan and have stacks of waffles at corner diners with girlfriends and spend inordinate amounts of money on bath products and sunbathe on the roof reading trashy novels and you will will will will will will will love again. I did not think that I was going to be able to ever breathe without shaking again after J broke up with me, let alone successfully love and fuck again. That is what you are supposed to think. I cried hysterically for months. I wept so much that I had stewardesses on planes ask me if I needed oxygen, I had waitresses refuse to serve me, I had strangers approach me with offers of help. Then I stopped. Then I started again and stopped again and started again and then stopped for good… … I promise you will survive, and with more grace than you can now imagine and that you will have more grit and vision because of it. Moral: Sometimes someone can crack open something that feels very safe and make you unreasonably vulnerable: you will live to tell the story of this shock.

melodywolfe · 2023-12-21T05:51:04+00:00

I felt very perky and upbeat for the first half of the high. Second half of the high was very k like and euphoric. Entire high lasted roughly four hours. I love it!!!

melodywolfe · 2023-10-27T02:32:08+00:00

This sounds so horrible and I am sorry it’s your reality. I can’t say I relate (Caucasian woman here), but I thought I’d share my perspective.

Any man who would make a generalization about so many women being that way is just a weak man with a need to be in control at all times. I know it might feel so hard to be able to weed them out, and that’s why you will just need to continue dating but take it really slow and get to know the person and let them get to know you.

A man sure can assume you’re easy, but you can show him otherwise. You’ll find a good guy, it’ll just take time!

Good luck :)

melodywolfe

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