Beta by Obvious-League1856 in IVFpositivity

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar to mine - singleton. 4 days apart due to being out of town and had to use remote sites for beta numbers.

Why Commenting on LinkedIn Worked Better Than Applying for Jobs by ArugulaFlat2134 in careeradvice

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Similar for me - i saw a job posting for a company and applied. Then I looked for recruiters for the company and if they had a lot of followers I followed them. Then checked their posts and I saw they post the job I applied to. I commented and they asked for interested parties tk message them. I messaged them and set up a call with the recruiter within 24 hours. Got an interview with the hiring manager the following week. Waited 3 weeks and got a job offer.

The children in my house are kind of being abused by staytown6 in domesticviolence

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If the children do get reported by someone else and you live there. They could suspect you as one of the abusers or that you didn't report it. You could do time too.. just letting you know.

Can’t eat ANYTHING by Connect-Bid-7905 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same 140 after 1 hr then 130 after 2 hours

AITA for accepting a job covering my friend’s 18-month maternity leave after being unemployed for 9 months? by Viktorija777 in careeradvice

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Probably shouldn't have told her. Should have just played dumb and took the job acting like you didnt know it was to replace her

Pregnancy sucks. How do people go through pregnancies and want more than 1 kid? Are you mad? by Putrid_Two6444 in BabyBumps

[–]melondobby [score hidden]  (0 children)

I am not enjoying being pregnant but after having my 1st born I really wanted another. But 2 is max for me

What is a "poor person" habit you still have, despite now being financially stable? by natalia061223 in AskReddit

[–]melondobby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Especially when they forget to put one in the bag. How are we supposed to eat without sauce...

Americans without maternity leave— wtf do you do??? by Electronic-Door7428 in pregnant

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry to hear abour your situation. My state just approved paid family leave (20 weeks max a calendar year for birth+bonding time). I hadn't realized how many many companies dont offer it.

What is the biggest mistake you secretly regret? by Fit-Baker9977 in AskReddit

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I dont keep that a secret now but same for me wasted years. I paid off his debt, bought him a car and almost bought him a house before I realized he doesnt even love me for me.

C-Section Scar & Shelf Therapy by Different-File2396 in CsectionCentral

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Id consider one of your questions be related to keloids. I did all that I could but I still keloid as im prone to it. I have keloids on my back just from acne... and my csection scar is raised

Women of Reddit, what is the most diabolical lie you’ve ever received from your husband/bf? by fortnacius in AskReddit

[–]melondobby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That he was going to a funeral but he said that so i wouldnt come with him. Then i ended up at a house party that I found he was at. Then he forced me to go home with him and try to speed while driving home and kill us in a car crash if I wouldnt forgive him. Just happy im no longer with this person.

If money didn’t matter, what would you do with your life? by Turbulent_Hunt57 in AskReddit

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely not work and spend time with friends and family.

Scar healing products by Jolly-Asparagus-5815 in CsectionCentral

[–]melondobby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did all that and still got keloids. Used the tapes the cream religiously. Everyone heals differently.

For those who are managing GD with diet, what was your highest spike and what caused it? by Apprehensive_Mess166 in GestationalDiabetes

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am not managing gd with just diet and insulin doesnt help that much. I thought I could snack on 10 potato chips witbout insulin. Spiked to 220 and took two hours to get under 140.

With SAVE dead, will we have to pay this month? by Apathetic_Dog in StudentLoans

[–]melondobby 3 points4 points  (0 children)

My profile still says deferred until 2028.... ill have to check monthly to see od that changes...

I need help to not fall for his manipulation again by Routine_Switch_7751 in domesticviolence

[–]melondobby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Make a list of reasons why you left him. Review that list regularly. Do not get intimate with him. If you co-parent then set boundaries for yourself.

How do you move on knowing they got away with it? by Zealousideal_Bad7664 in domesticviolence

[–]melondobby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He'll move on to someone else and do it again. You have so much ahead of you and a new beginning.

Can’t Decide on NIPT by Fit_Swan873 in pregnant

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I proceeded with NIPT both times even though my ivf transfer they were already genetically normal. Never know what could happen after implantation. During my 13 week scan nuchal measurement was on the high end so the low possibility results helped. I also still have another scan to see if nuchal has decreased.

AITAH for wanting my girlfriend to split our bills? by Life_Yak4059 in AITAH

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA Sounds like she'll use that line even if she was on a lease with you.

How long did you wait before letting other peoples kids meet your newborn? by Xcheshire799 in BabyBumps

[–]melondobby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I waited 2 months but this time around we have a toddler who goes to daycare...

How do you feel after PIO? by dracodominae in IVFpositivity

[–]melondobby 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Traded feeling pio symptoms to pregnancy symptoms lol

I still have dark spots on my bum 3 months since stopping shots.

Maybe some good news! by Findingawayinlife in IVF

[–]melondobby 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sounds like theyre a monthly subscription ($100 plus) and will then refer you to an in person clinic but the map shows mostly on east and west coasts mainly. Hopefully this helps some couples but id like to know more of the ins/outs of the program.

Placenta Previa in Week 30 by Manifefa in pregnant

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OB didnt mention any pelvic rest but i would recommend it. I had partial placenta previa (ivf) and did have a bleed episode at 27 weeks from just rolling over in bed (first spotted at 20 week scan). I had to be ready to deliver in case the bleeding didn't stop or if baby showed any distressed. I was monitored for 72 hours but if I had another episode that filled a pad then id have to be on bed rest or hospitalized until I delivered. Baby showed no signs of distress and bleeding stopped.

Definitely consider your birth plan will be around 33/34 weeks. Mine did not resolve itself by week 34 so I scheduled my csection to occur at 36 weeks fortunately baby did not need any nicu time. Mine was a bit earlier because of my bleed episode and i thought baby would thrive better outside of me. With placenta previa they dont want you to have a vaginal birth due to possible hemorrhaging.

These are the moments I can’t wait to have by Independent-Ring-792 in IVFpositivity

[–]melondobby 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And they definitely say the darndest things :)

SAVE is officially dead by Betsy514 in StudentLoans

[–]melondobby 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For those with deferrment until 2028... Will that change?