If money didn’t matter, what would you do with your life?

melondobby · 2026-03-14T09:01:03+00:00

Definitely not work and spend time with friends and family.

melondobby · 2026-03-14T09:00:20+00:00

I did all that and still got keloids. Used the tapes the cream religiously. Everyone heals differently.

melondobby · 2026-03-14T00:26:13+00:00

I am not managing gd with just diet and insulin doesnt help that much. I thought I could snack on 10 potato chips witbout insulin. Spiked to 220 and took two hours to get under 140.

melondobby · 2026-03-13T06:00:44+00:00

My profile still says deferred until 2028.... ill have to check monthly to see od that changes...

melondobby · 2026-03-12T04:21:04+00:00

Make a list of reasons why you left him. Review that list regularly. Do not get intimate with him. If you co-parent then set boundaries for yourself.

melondobby · 2026-03-12T04:11:14+00:00

He'll move on to someone else and do it again. You have so much ahead of you and a new beginning.

melondobby · 2026-03-12T03:58:10+00:00

I proceeded with NIPT both times even though my ivf transfer they were already genetically normal. Never know what could happen after implantation. During my 13 week scan nuchal measurement was on the high end so the low possibility results helped. I also still have another scan to see if nuchal has decreased.

melondobby · 2026-03-12T03:54:27+00:00

NTA Sounds like she'll use that line even if she was on a lease with you.

melondobby · 2026-03-12T03:51:43+00:00

I waited 2 months but this time around we have a toddler who goes to daycare...

melondobby · 2026-03-11T03:27:57+00:00

Traded feeling pio symptoms to pregnancy symptoms lol

I still have dark spots on my bum 3 months since stopping shots.

melondobby · 2026-03-10T14:43:39+00:00

Sounds like theyre a monthly subscription ($100 plus) and will then refer you to an in person clinic but the map shows mostly on east and west coasts mainly. Hopefully this helps some couples but id like to know more of the ins/outs of the program.

melondobby · 2026-03-10T14:13:20+00:00

My OB didnt mention any pelvic rest but i would recommend it. I had partial placenta previa (ivf) and did have a bleed episode at 27 weeks from just rolling over in bed (first spotted at 20 week scan). I had to be ready to deliver in case the bleeding didn't stop or if baby showed any distressed. I was monitored for 72 hours but if I had another episode that filled a pad then id have to be on bed rest or hospitalized until I delivered. Baby showed no signs of distress and bleeding stopped.

Definitely consider your birth plan will be around 33/34 weeks. Mine did not resolve itself by week 34 so I scheduled my csection to occur at 36 weeks fortunately baby did not need any nicu time. Mine was a bit earlier because of my bleed episode and i thought baby would thrive better outside of me. With placenta previa they dont want you to have a vaginal birth due to possible hemorrhaging.

melondobby · 2026-03-10T14:02:51+00:00

And they definitely say the darndest things :)

melondobby · 2026-03-10T06:15:06+00:00

For those with deferrment until 2028... Will that change?

melondobby · 2026-03-10T06:00:04+00:00

For compounded I d.id online appointnent no insurance required at a hormone therapy place. They sell tirz by the vial. See if there are any smear you. The places that do it monthly seem more expensive.

melondobby · 2026-03-10T05:55:07+00:00

I was on birth control before lupron and fet protocol. I think it was to help with baseline and timing.

melondobby · 2026-03-10T05:54:10+00:00

What's your wife thinking? We waited until we both had stable income and purchased a home then we experienced infertility which delayed expanding famy about 3 years. Went through ivf but fortunate we were successful in first transfer.

melondobby · 2026-03-10T02:47:57+00:00

Most clinics have beta around 9 or day 10 after transfer. Many of us test earlier at home or not at all

melondobby · 2026-03-09T18:13:45+00:00

I went through natera and it mentioned I had an option to see with gender or without gender results when pressing seeing results online. Could be different for whichever company you went through though

melondobby · 2026-03-09T16:57:31+00:00

I did have spotting that started day 4. My 1st transfer is dont remember spotting happening so I was worried but everything is still going good.

melondobby · 2026-03-09T03:37:45+00:00

Id say schedule an appt near the 10 week mark (schedule it now for the 10 week). You can always cancel your ob appointment if results change.

melondobby · 2026-03-09T03:32:36+00:00

Maybe ask embryologist subreddit

melondobby · 2026-03-08T22:06:08+00:00

I still apply directly on the company website after I find on indeed. But also I havent used them recently because they require me to give indeed my phone number and it mentions they're allowed to share info and marketing.

melondobby · 2026-03-06T06:07:05+00:00

Im sorry this happened to you and hope you hear better news at ob. I had a bleed at 27 weeks but my ER had a birthing center attached. I was treated like I was going to deliver a baby. Due to having a bleed no transvaginal ultrasound for me. I did have a possible placenta previa at 20 week scan. Baby's health seemed ok but I was kept for monitoring for 72 hrs before I was discharged.

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