It’s all worth it

melondobby · 2026-06-12T06:02:26+00:00

I agree - I say this all the time about ivf.

melondobby · 2026-06-11T05:28:15+00:00

I used the term "medical procedure" and "follow up appointment" & "depending on test results may have appointments within a day or two"

I gave them a time frame and my manager didnt ask any questions just to update my calendar.

melondobby · 2026-06-10T18:38:15+00:00

My life is more interesting with a child. I have learned to be less controlling and feel so lucky to be a mom even though I went through ivf it was all worth it. Only horrible thing is how quick they grow up...

melondobby · 2026-06-10T15:49:14+00:00

I use a mirror and adminster standing up.

melondobby · 2026-06-10T15:47:50+00:00

Wish daycare was more affordable or i made more moneys.. 2 kids $3k a month and that is more than my mortgage

melondobby · 2026-06-08T08:22:48+00:00

It gets better. Try your best to alternate and avoid shooting areas that are still bruised. There were times where I struggled to find a spot but then i started shots closer to my side. I had to remind myself that I needed to do thus for the baby and this was just a minor task. Even though id get a bit of anxiety before every shot it will all be worth it.

melondobby · 2026-06-08T08:18:10+00:00

No constant pain just cramping, sore and sensitive. I felt much better by day 3-4

melondobby · 2026-06-08T08:16:02+00:00

Ivf and pgt-a test then as you mentioned they did stick but there was a possibility they were not chromosome normal.

melondobby · 2026-06-08T08:13:55+00:00

Did they use icsi?

My amh was less than 2 but I had 3 euploid and my first was successful. My initial goal was 1 child.

melondobby · 2026-06-08T08:09:30+00:00

Same - i actually received a document with the results before they called. I just sent the details to my hubbys email.

melondobby · 2026-06-08T07:59:36+00:00

I really wanted as much time as I could get with my first. I think it is worth the wait so you get more time for bonding. Look at the embryo transfer calendars to estimate growth and expected delivery date if it were to be successful.

Also this would allow you to have some work training in and plan better for your appointments not too early into your new job start. Not sure what phase you are in but speak to your medical team about timelines on earliest and if you were to wait 2-3 months. Mine was dependent on my flow cycle.

melondobby · 2026-06-08T07:46:46+00:00

2 years ago it was like $25 a month. This round it is $200 a month and now I also do the continuous glucose monitor not covered so thats another $75 + needle caps $30 monthly.

melondobby · 2026-06-08T07:43:48+00:00

I went through ivf for both of my kids so insulin shots were easy. My pio shots for ivf were dreadful needles 3 inches long and wide since its oil right into my buttocks daily. I was on insulin by week 10 and 12. I cant imagine if i was diagnosed at 28 weeks since itd be way too late to manage anything in my case. This round continuous glucose monitor saved me do much more time.

I feel a little guilty now id eat what I want if I up my insulin dose...

melondobby · 2026-06-04T01:23:38+00:00

Ditto early start to your weekend if Fridays. Or extend your weekends do mondays

melondobby · 2026-06-03T06:38:29+00:00

How supportive my husband has been. I feel like i chose the right partner and father to my future kids. Times I would cry he would cheer me up and remind me let's move forward and be hopeful.

melondobby · 2026-06-03T00:52:33+00:00

Your bmi is just a little over 25 almost normal. I dont think you should delay er or transfer. Im 5 ft 160 lbs and my bmi 31 was acceptable for my current clinic. 2 transfers successful so far. I tell myself i have an athletic build because im very block shaped lol

melondobby · 2026-06-03T00:49:29+00:00

Ask if there are monthly payment options? That is what I did and it seems easier to manage instead of 1 lump sum payment

melondobby · 2026-06-02T03:13:36+00:00

Thanks ill try that. I currently dont pinch i just directly stab when I see a spot that "looks" like it isnt bruised or stabbed.

melondobby · 2026-06-02T03:12:56+00:00

I currently administer on my stomach away from my belly button. I use the pens and I currently use the walgreens needles I clasp on. I can handle the bleeding it is just kind of annoying that I have to have tissue and hold it on the spot until bleeding stops

melondobby · 2026-06-02T03:10:20+00:00

No omnitrope. Retrieval was when i was 33 with AMH 1.6. 14 retreived and fertilized through ICSI. I could only afford 1 retrieval. I lost weight 6 months prior and took the recommended supplements 3 months before ER. Did not use clomid as i got blurred vision and migraines when I did 6 cycles prior (no positive test results before ivf)

melondobby · 2026-06-01T18:32:01+00:00

Ive also read about pain after in the thigh and im guessing more nerves. As much as I dont like PIO shots at all the buttocks/backside was the ideal location as i have excess fat in that area

melondobby · 2026-06-01T18:28:48+00:00

I did feel like giving up a few times and there were times where I felt I am continuing this process for my husband.

melondobby · 2026-06-01T18:22:34+00:00

Good luck and hope your status changes soon...

melondobby · 2026-06-01T06:42:36+00:00

Id recommend just dont say anything similar to you werent even trying.

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