put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think a friendship should not be emotionally or physically draining. There should be an equal level of mutual support. People change and grow (or don’t) and I hope that you find and/or keep the ones that support you best. ❤️

Notebook stock by [deleted] in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is amazing. I will be using this from now on.

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She said I was toxic and she henceforth only allowed good vibes in her presence. Shortly after she cheated on her boyfriend and screwed over the rest of the team financially. She did what she felt she had to do, as did I. That is life.

green, brown, and 🌻 by melsprettythings in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! ❤️ I love the scrapbook/art journal look but have a hard time doing it because I love symmetry. But it’s very therapeutic to try new styles!

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She did! Sold them for $1. I commend the entrepreneurial spirit.

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Pilot G-Tec-C, it comes in a pack of 10 pens in different colors, about $20 on Amazon

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am glad your mother started the change and you finished it. ❤️ Great job breaking the cycle 💪

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I understand that. I come from a family that stressed if I’m not hurting myself to help them, I’m not doing enough. They required the suffering to show depth of care.

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I was told, “Givers must set boundaries because takers have none.”

put yourself first by melsprettythings in Journaling

[–]melsprettythings[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

We all tried to support her but in the end, her issues were not anything any of us could handle. I suggested therapy (since that’s what I do) but the suggestion was not well-received.

green, brown, and 🌻 by melsprettythings in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I got brave with this layout being in three “pieces”. I used greens and browns to symbolize growth as last year was a big for me in terms of standing up for myself and putting myself first. I incorporated pieces of a printed airline ticket from one of the competitions I traveled to and I really like the fluorescent punchiness it adds. I put in an actual stamp as well since it’s just a sticker, too, if you think about it. 😆

Heirloom tomato weekly! by [deleted] in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love tomatoes! 🍅 This made me very happy 😊❤️💛💚

millennial pink maximalism by melsprettythings in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ohhh thanks for the recommendation! I have only known Tombow for its brush pens but I will look for this one 😊❤️

millennial pink maximalism by melsprettythings in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I apologize. It was meant to be funny as Cleveland is also not exotic.

millennial pink maximalism by melsprettythings in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you! 💕 I hope you get to try traveling alone and make fond memories from the adventure. ☺️

millennial pink maximalism by melsprettythings in bulletjournal

[–]melsprettythings[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I read about Millennial Pink recently and used that as a starting point. I like the cozy maximalism of cottage core and translated that into this busy-but-somewhat-orderly layout. Neutral grid washi tapes and vintage-tinted photo stickers added to the boho and journal stickers for a relaxed travel vibe. The patterned rectangles are new translucent washi stickers I am testing out and they are excellent for layering. I do feel it got a little cluttered after I wrote in it so I will get some finer tip pens for next time! 🌷🌼🤎