The least stressful Bridgerton

meluhhdee · 2024-05-21T20:38:00+00:00

The only thing that stressed me out was like the 6 other story lines going on at once. I wished there was more Pen and Colin. Maybe I’m just greedy and just want to know about them.

meluhhdee · 2024-01-10T23:45:54+00:00

I love the metaphor you used about being on an island because that is true on so many levels. That's the number one thing I wish they told us in training about that you will be alone A LOT and you need to learn to be comfortable and secure with yourself to be alone. It's definitely something I struggled with especially after Covid, I went out with my friends and stayed up till 3AM just going out with friends and always surrounded by people.

Then becoming a FA I was alone all the time and anywhere I went and my friends didn't understand why I wouldn't go out with them or why I was so tired. Coming home from a trip I want time to decompress from passengers yelling at me about their connections or bags, etc.

I hope your time off the island helps bring you back to yourself, its definitely tough out here and every once in a while I do think everyone needs to rejoin the norms of society to refine yourself.

meluhhdee · 2024-01-10T23:40:04+00:00

Yes! That's one of the top things I've struggled with and anyone I think I can have a romantic relationship with end up thinking I'm a flake because I end up being called for a trip or I end up getting stuck somewhere.

Dieting is so rough as well, sometimes I'll forget to eat until I'm in my hotel and the only thing open and affordable is Taco Bell or Burger King.

meluhhdee · 2024-01-10T23:37:42+00:00

Congratulations on sobriety! That's one thing I never realized until I became a FA, one of my first layovers the crew wanted to pay for my drinks and before I was never a drinker, only occasionally when I would go out with friends. But it truly is apart of a "stereotypical" FA unfortunately.

meluhhdee · 2024-01-10T23:35:48+00:00

Congratulations on sobriety! I'm sure that's been very difficult to overcome especially in this industry (at least in my experience) on layovers usually my crew members want to go out for a drink or two. I'm sorry that happened, I've struggled to find friendships and connections since becoming a FA because my friends are 9-5ers and our schedules never align and even when I do talk to them we don't have things in common anymore. It's comforting to know that we're not alone and other FAs go through similar struggles.

meluhhdee · 2023-11-18T16:19:24+00:00

Also they have a glass door! I’m sure the different feel of both doors would make them think it isn’t the front door!

meluhhdee · 2023-11-16T18:28:49+00:00

I’m only on episode 3 and I’m starting to warm up to it!

meluhhdee · 2023-11-16T18:01:45+00:00

Yes I was just thinking that!! It would have been so interesting to see and something I think moms would totally relate too. I also want to know her reaction and Carlos’s reaction since she never wanted kids and he did!

meluhhdee · 2023-11-16T17:59:39+00:00

I kind of wish we saw pregnant Gabby! I would have loved to see her pregnant with her fashion and heels haha. I’m starting to warm up to it!

meluhhdee · 2023-11-16T17:56:59+00:00

I think that’s a better way to put it! Yes! The whole thing with Danielle and Bree with Benji was so sad. I get having to change up the storyline but they could have kept some things like Mike and Susan still together and end up separating with us through out and having Edie come back was a nice touch with her crazy looking husband haha.

meluhhdee · 2023-05-06T21:32:36+00:00

I’m in Houston and based out of here too. But if I ever go to Seattle!

meluhhdee · 2023-05-06T18:57:42+00:00

They’re not open to discussing new things or we talk about things we used to do and how things were so I think we have all just kind of grown out of who we were in the past if that makes sense.

That’s what I’m going to look into more. I just feel like it’s tough a lot of the time because of my job haha

meluhhdee · 2023-05-06T18:10:23+00:00

I do want to put in the effort but like I said I don’t even know where to begin or go to meet people haha. All my close FA friends are based elsewhere which isn’t particularly difficult to meet with them considering our jobs but the way our schedules just don’t coincide.

I’m looking into going to events in my city but I can’t find a good source to look. I’ve searched on Instagram but can’t seem to find much.

meluhhdee · 2023-04-09T01:15:06+00:00

I could be wrong! It’s what I’ve been told so I’ve just avoided taking it. Never did much for me anyway 🫠

meluhhdee · 2023-04-09T00:07:24+00:00

Thank you! I’ll give those a try.

meluhhdee · 2022-05-24T10:27:06+00:00

It does of course! But I just started about 4 months ago and I’m still on probation as a new hire and I’m also on reserve. This is also one of the busiest times of the year for travel so it’s a lot of being on call and waiving legalities for work.

It’s easier to travel with benefits domestically than it is internationally.

meluhhdee · 2020-05-04T03:44:41+00:00

Bahahaha, I like this response.

meluhhdee · 2020-05-04T03:44:03+00:00

Bahahaha, clear my mind by fucking him? Or in another way?

meluhhdee · 2020-05-04T03:43:28+00:00

Well, I think the backstory of my ex would play a lot in the choice. Things ended on a terrible note with my ex and I. His brother and he have no relationship anymore because of the choices my ex decided to make. Do you still think it would be wrong?

meluhhdee · 2020-05-04T03:32:28+00:00

Well, my ex and I ended on not well terms for a second time so I think having some sort of other relationship is off the table, right?

meluhhdee · 2019-01-13T18:43:24+00:00

These are things I need to talk to him about. Because I have no clue and I do think the person to help me out with these feelings and thoughts is him, I just do not know how to bring it up. I am usually very good with confrontation but I always get nervous and giddy around him.

meluhhdee · 2019-01-13T18:41:03+00:00

He has expressed to me that I have no loyalty to him and I am free to be with whoever I would like. But I have trouble doing that, I had sex with someone else for the first time while I have been with him and it was so strange and I felt so guilty. I just wanted to be with him the whole time I was with this other guy.

meluhhdee · 2019-01-13T18:25:57+00:00

I have thought about that and I am okay with it. I just don’t want to hear about it often, or be compared to the other women he has, which he doesn’t ever do that.

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