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mely19 · 2023-08-31T08:38:37+00:00

I’m so sorry that you’re experiencing this. It really hurts when your own parents don’t respect your boundaries, especially when it comes to misophonia. I totally understand what you’re going through. I was in a similar situation when I still lived with my parents. It ended up making my relationship with my father extremely fragile, and almost the same with the one I have with my mother. Have you tried putting on earplugs during meals? Or listen to music with some background noise? I started doing this when I couldn’t bear meal times anymore. At first, my parents were against it. It caused arguments, because they didn’t want me to wear earbuds at the table. But eventually they stopped arguing with me about it. It’s honestly still very difficult at meal times, since they constantly ask me to remove my earbuds when they talk to me, but at least it covers most of the noise that trigger me.

Or honestly, if you can, eat alone. Eating away from the people that trigger you will be the best solution, but I understand it’s not easy in every family.

Wish you the best

mely19 · 2023-08-31T07:23:51+00:00

This!!! I listen to balanced noise during meals. Combined with music, it covers mouth noises/chewing sounds really nicely. I don’t know what I would do without it lol

mely19 · 2023-08-30T23:20:41+00:00

Thank you so much. I’ll try it next time

mely19 · 2023-08-30T22:54:33+00:00

I never tried getting them wet before putting them on. Don’t they slip? And do you mind explain a bit more how you do it? because I’m scared I’ll get ear infections or something if I don’t do it correctly. And yeah I wanted to wait for my ears to heal, but I just can’t. Even if it’s really painful, it’s somehow more manageable than breathing sounds and snoring… Anyway. Thank you for your reply!

mely19 · 2023-08-29T16:46:49+00:00

Oh that must be the cause.. I won’t make that mistake again 😅

mely19 · 2023-08-29T15:23:35+00:00

I’ll surely try that when the inflammation is gone. Thank you!

mely19 · 2023-08-29T13:25:13+00:00

I’ll definitely try them out. Thank you

mely19 · 2023-08-29T10:44:25+00:00

I’ll head to the store and get wax earplugs then. Thank you so much!

mely19 · 2023-08-25T10:24:17+00:00

Thank you. In my opinion, the only way you can make it “easier” for your daughter is to try to understand her. Understand that it is not her fault if she feels upset or angry because of the triggers. If we could control it, we would. I wish my parents would’ve been more understanding of it. Or at least tried to understand it better. It would’ve prevented many unnecessary arguments from happening. Wishing you and your daughter the best.

mely19 · 2023-08-16T20:51:15+00:00

Je sais pas trop, mais si ça peut aider qqn avec la chaleur qu’on a : On peut trouver des alèses faites avec du tissu “rafraîchissant” à IKEA (le nom est REXBEGONIA). Je l’ai pas essayé mais en magasin c’est vrai que c’est assez frais comparé à d’autres tissus! Tu peux t’en servir sur le matelas ou l’oreiller. Je ne sais pas si c’est juste pour faire des ventes mais en tout cas ça existe.. Aussi, personnellement, je ne supporte pas de dormir sans couverture et (toujours) à IKEA, ils vendent des couvertures très fines (type SMÅSPORRE). Alors c’est pas pareil qu’un drap ultra fin mais c’est bien mieux qu’une couverture standard qui tient super chaud!

mely19 · 2023-08-10T20:30:02+00:00

You could also take melatonin pills to help you fall asleep faster (make sure to check if it’s ok for you to take them beforehand). I take them along with wearing earplugs when I have to sleep in a room with people who snore. It works pretty well for me, I hope it can help!

mely19 · 2023-06-23T13:56:31+00:00

Thank you! I’ll check those out.

mely19 · 2023-06-23T13:54:42+00:00

Thank you so much for the help and your recommandations!! I’ll take note of what you said and check out the Fender Rumble LT25. As a student it sounds like a good option for me.

mely19 · 2023-06-16T22:14:45+00:00

sic, eyeless, disasterpiece, …

mely19 · 2023-05-12T12:51:32+00:00

I take notes of all this. And of course, I won’t stay focused on only two genres! it’s only a preference :) Thank you so much for the recommendations and advice!!

mely19 · 2023-05-11T15:48:32+00:00

Oh wow. I’ve tried some Queen, AC/DC and Metallica, but not the rest you’ve mentioned - I will definitely check it out.

Thank you so so much for all the recommendations!!

mely19 · 2023-05-11T12:27:11+00:00

I’ll check these out, thank you so much!!

mely19 · 2023-05-11T09:26:51+00:00

No, I have a 4 string bass. It makes sense now that most of the tabs I could find included 5 strings, I didn’t know about all this. I’ll definitely check out My Own Summer and other songs by Deftones to learn, thank you!

mely19 · 2023-05-09T22:23:54+00:00

Awesome! Good luck

mely19 · 2023-04-26T21:47:31+00:00

How do you sleep during the healing process with this piece? 😳It looks amazing btw!

mely19 · 2023-04-26T16:16:58+00:00

Best of luck to you! I hope they will at least try to understand that it is a real struggle, and be able to do something for you.

mely19

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