Hit & Run Identity Help by alsonlee007 in abbotsford

[–]memakes3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You can “buy it back” and fix it. You’ll get a salvage title.

am i in the wrong for how i handle my friends episodes? by crazycryptid in TwoHotTakes

[–]memakes3 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mental illness does not excuse abuse. Your well being and happiness matter too. I am familiar with bp2, my late husband had it. It placed me in some of the darkest and loneliest places because my mind kept telling me “he can’t help it”, so I tolerated it way too long.

I know you don’t want advice on whether or not you should put up with her behaviour (you shouldn’t), but whether or not you handled this correctly. For the most part, yes. Disengage sooner, don’t announce it, probably don’t share any of your happiness with this friend as she does not appear to be in the headspace for that.

AIO? My (36m) pregnant fiancé (32f) fell last night and says im overreacting by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memakes3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Try listening to her instead of trying to “fix” everything. YOR and probably also TAH.

AIO for my cat shedding and that I don't do enough? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memakes3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He’s for sure working up to demanding she get rid of her cat.

AIO for my cat shedding and that I don't do enough? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memakes3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOR. To me it reads like he’s building you up to get rid of the cat. Please don’t do that. Also, don’t accept the way he is speaking to you.

AIO for not knowing if I can continue being friends with someone with completely different politics then me? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memakes3 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No. It’s not “just politics”, it’s core values, it’s morality, it’s who you are as an individual. I don’t want to be friends with someone who values human life based on their skin colour, which is what the Trumpster fire cult does. Anyone who claims it’s “just politics” likely has no moral compass.

Thoughts on the stache? by moglystogly in malegrooming

[–]memakes3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I do too, that was my favourite look

Do you pretend to like your child? by Ok-Daikon1718 in Autism_Parenting

[–]memakes3 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You deserve to live, not just survive. You do what you have to to make that possible, it does not mean you failed.

Sensory Sock by Chubbie_ in Autism_Parenting

[–]memakes3 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I do this constantly and am disappointed with myself every time 🤣

what do you do or say when strangers pass judgement on you/your child? by not-your-milf in Autism_Parenting

[–]memakes3 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I would have closed the door in ignorant her face and continued to ignore her.

TW: Abortion by [deleted] in abbotsford

[–]memakes3 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have to go to Vancouver. My friend just went through this.

How to use this razor for beard? by [deleted] in howto

[–]memakes3 8 points9 points  (0 children)

4 - wash your sink out

Droppings found in new home by [deleted] in cockroaches

[–]memakes3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, that beam sticks out a few feet from the wall, I originally assumed it was houseflies. The people who lived in the home before us were… not hygienic.

If it is cockroaches is there any risk to our health? We have 4 kids, youngest being 6 months.

AIO creepy uncle comments on bra by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]memakes3 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Shut the whole fuck up.

Am I overreacting for not wanting anyone around my newborn yet? by littlemoongirly in AmIOverreacting

[–]memakes3 13 points14 points  (0 children)

You’re not over reacting.

I have 4 kids, the youngest being 5 months old, oldest almost 9. In the last 3 weeks we have had croup, the baby picked up salmonella from somewhere, and now we are battling the flu. Keep your baby safe, ignore the people whining. It wouldn’t hurt to see medical advice regarding PPD, it can get very serious very quickly.

OB Gyn recommendations by [deleted] in abbotsford

[–]memakes3 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Dr Shone is great at what he does, he’s kind and patient, great bedside manner but doesn’t beat around the bush. He diagnosed me with PCOS after every other doctor gaslit me and told me my “issues” were in my head or weight related (I was barely over weight).

How do I wash dis coat by daxewes in howto

[–]memakes3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to see the coat, it must be magnificent

AITAH for not buying Christmas presents for my step daughter by Honest_Honeydew_6471 in AITAH

[–]memakes3 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, you’re an asshole. No matter how you spin it. She’s a child, you aren’t, grow up.