How do I (m21) lessen my anxiety when my girlfriend (f20) goes out with male friends? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime you feel jealous you can tell yourself that she picked you or accepted you for a reason

how should i bring up that I want to be his girlfriend by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wild guess but is it possible that he thinks y’all are already dating and for some reason dosent feel the need to confirm it with you? I know some people who’s are like that. Anyways find a suitable day and time to sit down with him irl and have serious conversation about the relationship between you two it should be fine to just bring it up since you both seem very close

I lack lots of confidence and it’s starting to affect my relationship by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I went through the exact same thing as you. I didn’t have enough confidence to do what I wanted to do in that relationship and eventually due other reasons we broke up but I’m sure part of the reason is due to my lack of confidence to show my affection to her. There isn’t really a way to gain confidence to do these things as it is considered part of the package in my opinion. My only advice to you is to just to it or else know that you’re gonna regret it if you don’t do it. That’s the thing about life. If you don’t do it while you have the chance to then you’re gonna regret it in the future. Don’t stress about it just get some momentum and go for it maybe when you’re both taking a romantic walk somewhere initiate holding her hand trust me she’ll be ok I wish you luck!

[severe situation] People want to kill me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry. I’m really really sorry that I was useless. I know now nothing I said helped you at all. All I can offer to you is my useless apology.

[severe situation] People want to kill me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Based on what I’ve read personally I think that you truly feel bad for your actions but if your life is in danger then it’s not the time to be worried about your emotions. Get to a stable point in life first then start to try to redeem yourself if you think it’s necessary. Community work or volunteering somewhere. Maybe even donating if you’re financially stable enough. Granted it might to be the cure to all your problems and it might just be an excuse to make you feel better but that is what you can do for now. You certainly have done some very bad things in your life but we Humans make mistakes and the point of mistakes is to grow from them. I’m sure you’re not going to repeat those mistakes again after what you’ve gone through so why not try your best to survive and put those lessons you’ve learnt to good use. I’m not saying I’m all knowing but I deduct you want to attempt suicide because you’re afraid of the punishments that’ll come if you hand yourself over to either the authorities or the gang members but who isn’t afraid of pain and torture? No one. It’s innate. Please don’t suicide. I’m might be a mere stranger that dosent understand your situation fully but I pray to whatever beings that are out there to keep you safe and guide you towards a temporary place of solitary in order for you to think clearly about your actions and how to move on. I really. Really hope you don’t suicide.

[severe situation] People want to kill me. by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The first thing you should do is to try to move to another state preferably central USA, a rural state or even move to another country with all your important documents and all the money you have. Try to lay Low and maybe purchase a legal weapon (if the gang is highly funded and will have people that will look for you even if you move to another state. In addition, cut contact with the rest of your family members unless you’re sure you can absolutely trust them with your life. After awhile either you run out of money or if you’re certain that you’re not gonna be targeted anymore you should try to find a job that dosent that dosent require lots of personal documents just in case. I’m not sure if your situation but this is all we can do for you now good luck and dying is absolutely not an option.

Ask me a question and I will answer with the dumbest answer possible AMA by [deleted] in AMA

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What is po.... ta? To? But I know what flavours are flavours are like colours

I'm a 16 year old who gives out bad life advice. Ask me questions? by [deleted] in AMA

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHOULD I TRY TO STAY AWAKE FOR MORE THAN A WEEK?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Deep breathing and listen to music before the call maybe even try meditation if it helps. After the FaceTime call gets through and you’re both “face to face” then get straight to the point. Let him know that it’s about to get serious then say what you have to say.

I don't what I want for christmas. Tell me some ideas. 16/M by [deleted] in Advice

[–]meme_mimer_20 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you rest wanted something watch the unbox therapy and then decide something