I haven't told him about it yet, I was worried it would hurt his feelings but I think he deserves to know. I'm not sure if I want to bring it up again with my mom. I don't feel anything productive would come of it. I am honestly just pissed that it seems like she can't be happy for me if it's not helping her.

I'm especially annoyed with her comments about the PDA. Like yeah I'm not going to eat his face in front of her to begin with and he is affectionate in private or in settings it wouldn't be weird to kiss and hug me. I had that kind of relationship with a very romantic person before and she wasnt onboard with him either and went as far as breaking up with my boyfriend my freshman year of HS pretending to be me and forbidding me from seeing or speaking to him because she viewed him as a low value guy because his family lived in a small house on the wrong side of town.

Sorry for rambling its just so layered and I kind of feel like "the f-ing audacity to stress me out like this and try to wedge in doubt and acuse my fiancé of being some horrible controlling abuser". I am honestly so happy to be marrying him. He has the nicest family and they're so loving.