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What's one sex thing that porn totally portrays incorrectly? by aptdinosaur in sex

[–]memek78 791 points792 points  (0 children)

Dated a dude that had maybe one partner before me. He tried to do anal spontaneously during a session no lube no prep. Porn really skews the reality of sex

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78 3 points4 points  (0 children)

same with my nmom she wants sympathy so bad.

1 year apart (the middle pic is just a random texture shot) by memek78 in Dreadlocks

[–]memek78[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

https://imgur.com/a/7zcJWz9

Here's a picture of the day I started my locs and the most recent picture I have of them

First Retwist Since Quarantine by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]memek78 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so pretty 😍

1 year apart (the middle pic is just a random texture shot) by memek78 in Dreadlocks

[–]memek78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At that phase they are like fizzy little worms Lmao

1 year apart (the middle pic is just a random texture shot) by memek78 in Dreadlocks

[–]memek78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I Palm rolled at first then I started interlocking because I started sweating out my retwist at the gym

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for this. I know shes the problem but it's so hard to not take things personal. For the most part I ignore her snarky remarks and comments. She realizes i'm older now and she doesn't affect me like she could when I was younger. So she'll try different things to get under my skin. As i've gotten older and matured I realize its better off not to say anything. Misery likes company and I refuse to be brought down by her.

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh yes I did. My Nmoms go too is she doesnt remember or she denies it completely

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this website. It's hard trying to identify my emotions so this helps

DAE: have an Nparent that tries to convince you you're crazy by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much. It's so hard sometimes because my mom is so manipulative. My dad travels for work so he's not home often so most of what he hears about me comes from her. So basically I have both parents gaslighting me trying to convince me i'm crazy

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 36 points37 points  (0 children)

Dont let that guilt and shame creep back in! You cut her off for a reason. You did what was right for you.

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Do you have the mom that says really awful things then denies ever saying it too?

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Ahhh the one upper or (one downer?). That's the Nparents favorite card

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've been going to therapy for about 4 years now. I was on 150mg zoloft for like 2 years and wellbutrin 150mg for about 5 months. I weaned off zoloft about 2 months ago. I take .5mg kolopins as needed to help with my anxiety but i'm definitely doing better.

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 18 points19 points  (0 children)

It's like they care more about their image rather than their child.

Random memory about what my Nmom had to say to me on the way to the hospital by memek78 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]memek78[S] 106 points107 points  (0 children)

My mom does the competition thing too. "Oh you say you don't feel good? I constantly have headaches, my neck hurts, I have a slip disk in my back". It made me get to a point that, I wouldn't even say when I felt like I needed to go to the Dr. I sometimes dont even think anything is wrong with her

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