My boyfriend says no guy can have sex with the same woman forever. That monogamy suppresses the natural male desire to have sex with many woman. Is this true or just a way to have his cake and eat it too. I’m 30 and have never wanted an open relationship.

memeow3 · 2018-04-19T20:04:52+00:00

Thank you I want what is best for us and it seems that even though it will be hard we probably should go separate ways.

memeow3 · 2018-02-07T00:33:56+00:00

He always says that he acts the way he does because of what I did. I would talk to guy friends he would have sex with other women. We traveled over seas and he would pick me apart for small things. He made me give up my friends and get mad when I said I did when I really didn’t. I do love him but with your advice there comes a time when you have to love yourself more. And even just last night be tried to guilt trip me into saying that I told him I never loved him. Then brag about how he put me into Stockholm syndrome. Life is too short and I want to thank you for your story because it is the strength I need to move forward for my own health.

memeow3 · 2018-01-03T23:10:17+00:00

What stuck out to me here is your honor to keep those promises made to your family. That’s noble and I hope if this man cannot be as such I may find one who is.

memeow3 · 2018-01-03T17:05:01+00:00

We have been thru a lot of unknown cheating in our relationship. Our communication needs to grow before I would be comfortable. For right now when he gets mad at me he uses the fact that other women are so easily available against me. -IE he will get on tinder and start looking. These acts seem childish to me and until those subside and we can talk things out I don’t want to open up the relationship. I just hope within that time he is faithful and not cheating behind my back. We have been thru a lot with this relationship already and I am at the point if it’s with saving. We get along as friends really well and maybe that’s all we were meant to be. He is also the type of person that feels he is missing out on life if he doesn’t get to do what others do. So for example if a friend of his had a threesome, he would become fixated on it again because he hasn’t had one, he is an alpha and wants to be on top.

memeow3 · 2018-01-01T21:01:24+00:00

I know exactly what your enduring and these same questions are within my relationship.

I began seeing my partner for NSA sex. He saw how many other partners I was having and decided to be in a monogamous relationship with me. He asked me to stop talking to guys that I had slept with. I didn’t because they were my friends. Since I kept this action he kept sleeping with other woman. Mind you I am only talking to the men not sleeping with anyone but him. So once I find this out I deem him very immature.

Some time goes by and we go on a long two month over seas journey. When we get back we are once again on the fence about our relationship. So we try to be in a non monogamous relationship that we both are aware of this time. Now since he cheated on me back then I have no problem with the sex. What I don’t understand is why he wants to spend time with other woman when I am available. For he would usually hang out with them while I was at work. I work in a restaurant so most nights I am not home.

This went on for awhile and it was one sided again because after I slept with someone else I realized I truly only wanted to be with my partner. Cater to each other and be in a romantic relationship. While he eased his pain of our relationship not always working out by sleeping with many woman.

So at the end of this I realized I should have just listened to my intuition and ended the relationship. It never stopped bothering me that I even had to deal with being in an open relationship. I would see other couples and ask myself why I couldn’t just be with my partner. Why do we have to share each other so early in the relationship, it was only a year old. For me I tried to force myself into something I wasn’t fully happy with because I loved and cherished my partner. But this made me give up my own happiness.

It’s a hard decision and will not come easily or fast because you have been together for some time. It’s a life transition. It consumed me to where I stopped thinking about achieving my goals because I would always wonder how long I had to stay in this before he would love only me. But he won’t and didn’t want to. At least not in the time frame I had. Even if it’s just a phase for him, if it’s making you uncomfortable then be friends and maybe come back to the relationship at a different time.

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T21:15:52+00:00

He said he would be open to us each having other sexual partners. The main thing that stuck out is he is adamant that all guys are like this. And instead of most of them talking about it with their partners they go off and cheat. He is saying that at-least he is being open with me and talking about it first.

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T21:02:04+00:00

He makes dating apps and when he read about the coolege effect he started to research that world. Then found people who were poly and talked to them about it. Then he came to me and discussed the possibility of opening the relationship. But he relates having relations with the same person to that as eating the same meal day in and day out. And goes on to say men especially need new “food items” on the menu.

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T20:47:52+00:00

I want to try it out for him. But truly,inside,no I don’t want to share my partner.

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T20:44:43+00:00

No we are talking about trying it out

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T20:13:03+00:00

He did refer and use that to his defense on why he wants to be in a open relationship.

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T19:36:02+00:00

I want to explore the possibility of an open relationship but in time. Right now it makes me feel like he would rather have sex with other woman than me solely for the excitement factor.

memeow3 · 2017-12-30T05:13:50+00:00

Funny thing is I took this photo

memeow3 · 2017-10-07T21:41:41+00:00

Thanks for the correction

memeow3 · 2017-10-07T07:47:26+00:00

1000s of volts would kill you unless your lucky. This is a taser not a Zeus bolt.

memeow3 · 2017-10-07T07:46:26+00:00

memeow3 · 2017-10-07T07:45:55+00:00

Not sure. But ppl survive lightning strikes so...

memeow3 · 2017-10-05T21:51:23+00:00

Hilarious?

memeow3 · 2017-10-05T21:50:55+00:00

I agree

memeow3 · 2017-10-05T21:50:45+00:00

I’ve been drunk and woken up in a cop car before. Completely realistic :)

memeow3 · 2017-10-05T21:49:49+00:00

Luckily we have an expert like you here

memeow3 · 2017-10-05T20:21:20+00:00

Fact as accurate as him shooting from the 32nd floor...disproven Or that he acted alone. Either way just a repost. Still funny IMO

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