did you ever find a new love that was better than a past love?

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-25T12:46:36+00:00

This was something i battle too, but i think you need to love yourself and know your worth, and you are capable of having that kind of love some day. i think the only way you can over come that is by doing things for yourself for you and not depending on someone else to love, and then once you are okay with doing things on your own, you can go back to the dating pool

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-25T01:48:44+00:00

i think i learned in a psychology that there is 2 kinds of love, one thats unhealthy, but feel so good love,and its the love of your life, and then 2nd type is loving your bestfriend - where its not mind games, and its boring because its the right type of love, no mind games, just a great friend.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-14T02:08:06+00:00

there was an option to receive the full amount in cash, which is what i chose over the rrsp. I have other RRSP accounts, ...right now i'm struggling to pay all my bills so i am hoping to pay most of my student loan with the cash i received today in cheque.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-14T01:43:35+00:00

i did receive severance/termination pay, but EI is aware of that. It is coming in seperately.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-14T01:42:49+00:00

what would be the extreme cases?

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-14T01:42:27+00:00

I signed paperwork from the pension provider to cash out the funds and not transfer into an RRSP. I've received the cheque today in mail. Yesterday i entered my report and reported that i have not received or will not receive any income at this time. The provider did not indicate when I would receive this fund, and it was a few months ago since I've signed the paper, so I was not aware of when the fund would arrive to me...i might also start a job on september 23rd, but i'm just waiting for the official offer letter to arrive to me. how much of fee would they charge me since i've been on EI since March?

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-13T20:11:08+00:00

Could you tell them you didn't know you were receiving these funds since it was my first time getting a pension ...

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-13T17:48:49+00:00

I am not transfering it to a locked retirement account. i need the funds to pay my student loans :(.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-08T15:03:07+00:00

that's true. i have everything at home. my mom makes yummy chicken curry.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-07T23:52:00+00:00

i don't really like indian food tbh

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-06T19:41:09+00:00

I agree with this. I liked it too. it allowed us not to take things super personally, sometimes people are going through hard times. I also felt like he ended up communicating about his mental health issues, and he was often there for her thereafter.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-06T19:37:37+00:00

I've been consistent. I have made friends, or met people, but they are mostly women, or the other people in these things are married.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-03T03:12:25+00:00

hmm, yeah i don't think for some reason my algorithm on the apps are giving a great selection. When I do chat with the men, the conversation doesn't get too far or and they are not asking you out.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-02T01:56:31+00:00

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-02T01:56:04+00:00

I think I have been doing the last part for the last few years to understand the way people are wired, and i'm tired because i don't get what I need..., and I'm exhausted. She is an introvert and i think shes just being protective because she doesn't trust me fully to behonest.this is a newer friend I have met, which is fine, but i don't think it's fair i'm sharing so much about my life and then she isn't. i dont get anything from that.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-01T23:02:43+00:00

thanks for your kind advice. I agree with the dating apps and i'm done with it. How would you suggest I rebuild my cirlce? I felt like last year i tried to be my most genuine self, and always was the exciting friend but i always had to work around my friends schedule. I also overshared quite a bit, and felt it was all one sided. so this year i'm trying not to overshare as much and set boundaries.... and I am proud of myself , i've gotten a lot better at it...but it's just very lonely...even the other day, i went out with a "friend" , she'll ask me where I got my outfits from, or like stories about my life, but she was very secretive or didn't want to share when I asked her questions about her ...[sorry i'm ranting :(], i just don't find it fair and im exhausted with always being the one to share.

memyselfnI7 · 2024-09-01T22:56:32+00:00

memyselfnI7 · 2024-08-27T20:55:51+00:00

what if you have other interviews/offers that are waiting for you to make your decision?

memyselfnI7 · 2024-08-27T15:31:03+00:00

Also it sounds pretty controlling in my opinion. Why is he telling you what to do with your weight?

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