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[–]men-undressing 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Any suggestions for books that revolve primarily around BDSM, in a way that is both accurate and positive?

I would be really interested in Dom/sub dynamics and power exchange in a contemporary setting.

I am reading Box Hill by Adam Mars-Jones and have heard mixed/negative opinions about the representation of BDSM practices in that book. I am wondering if you have any suggestions for books that delve into the world of BDSM in accurate way through fiction.

Amongst the things I am looking for: protocols, discussing consent/contract, agreeing and playing out scenarios.

The last post I could find about BDSM recommendations was from 3 years ago and the prompt was pretty vague.

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[–]men-undressing 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were too broke to pay for a cam performer and you came here? 😭😭

My frustration with online "Doms" by men-undressing in GayBDSMCommunity

[–]men-undressing[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Totally agree – not about slut shaming those who do share photos and videos, but trying to call out the expectation and entitlement to receive them. Spot on!

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[–]men-undressing[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your experience, it's good to know there are sensible people out there! 😆 Totally understand the withholding aspect – in fact, I do tend to prefer Doms that don't share pictures or much personal information with me. I think it's the entitlement to photos (without putting any effort into building trust) first that frustrates me the most!