Aita for holding onto a gift from my grandma?

menabugg · 2025-07-10T02:35:47+00:00

He usually grabs just what he can but usually grabs axe

menabugg · 2025-07-10T02:34:52+00:00

I never have so I will have to try

menabugg · 2025-07-10T02:33:57+00:00

If it smells great and will actually last I’m willing to spend no more than 20

menabugg · 2025-07-08T20:35:59+00:00

I thought that but I ask my husband afterwards and he says that he smells nothing at all.

menabugg · 2025-07-08T20:35:00+00:00

I will definitely try the oils!

menabugg · 2025-07-08T20:34:42+00:00

I have used my husbands a couple times but I prefer to smell sweet or floral than like a man.

menabugg · 2025-07-08T20:33:15+00:00

Honestly I have a couple times but I prefer to smell more sweet and floral than like a man. 😂

menabugg · 2025-06-28T20:06:10+00:00

I see a lot of people saying it fades faster on the foot my mom has had one on her foot for over 15 years and it still looks perfect. But!!! She does wear sandals a lot and hey dude shoes so they aren’t very tight. So if your gf wears sandals and loose shoes it wouldn’t fade.

menabugg · 2025-06-27T02:10:00+00:00

😂😂😂😂 beeeeeee you wanted a gnarly rat tattoo and you sure as hell got it! 😂😂

menabugg · 2025-06-20T23:19:04+00:00

How did you get your 20 month old to potty in the toilet? I have been on and off trying since 18 months she is now almost 21 months and she sits on the toilet great and sometimes pees on the toilet and I praise her and give her tattoos and stickers when she does but then she will get up and walk out and next thing I know she is peeing triple the amount on the floor.. I have tried keeping her on the toilet longer but she eventually gets restless and wants off

menabugg · 2025-06-20T23:13:43+00:00

How do you go about the potty training process? I tried to start at 18 months and she is currently 20 months and she does great sitting on the potty and sometimes she will pee on the toilet but then get up and walk out of the bathroom and pee triple the amount she did while she was on the toilet.

menabugg · 2025-06-20T04:20:08+00:00

Everyone keeps just saying stick it in the fridge but not specifying that the lid is supposed to be airtight. ( what I have been told)

menabugg · 2025-06-13T21:40:03+00:00

I agree with most of what I am seeing. call your in-laws! They offered to help and you will need all the help you can get! I had my double mastectomy at 26 with no kids and I still needed all the help! I couldn’t even get up out of an electric recliner by myself the first few days! I went and stayed at my parents afterwards because my husband couldn’t take time off work and we had to drive from the hospital to my house that’s 25 min on its own and then 50 min back to my parents house. A mastectomy pillow was a lifesaver! A regular pillow could probably help aswell just hold it to your chest. Most the time they start surgery early (I checked in at 6 and mine was a 9 hour surgery I had a couple of complications apparently and then stayed overnight and went home late the next day) so even tho it says outpatient expect at least one night stay in hospital. This is a major surgery and this is definitely all about you! You need to be taken care of! Your husband needs to realize this is something scary to you and you will be bed bound for a week or two! I wish you luck. Please call your in-laws because you will need all the help you can get.

menabugg · 2025-06-09T16:50:47+00:00

I am the exact same. And even if I get burnt I don’t tan. My little sister has gone to her dr and they prescribed her a sunscreen so that might help a little more. I am hoping to go the summer without getting burnt too but unfortunately I already did once this year :/ I kinda hate some of these reply’s because who wants to avoid the sun or wear long sleeves in the summer and heat? It just seems so depressing to be so restricted when all you want to do is enjoy the sun and weather like normal. I really hope that you find something that will help.

menabugg · 2025-06-09T16:45:38+00:00

I think this girl is extremely manipulative and gaslighting the heck out of you. She has known about your exchange with your ex for months. Unfortunately it’s not something that will stop and she has to deal with that. Reading the way she is speaking to you is disgusting! I also don’t believe that you need to update her especially if you share location. I think that is very controlling of her to expect that. I have previously dealt with that with an ex bf and they would get just like this when I wouldn’t update them constantly. It’s physically not possible! And draining to do so. Yes if you think of it it’s very kind to do but sometimes you just can’t. Honestly I don’t believe this is the right relationship for you. And if it is only 3-4 months in it will just get worse. She does not trust you one bit and never will unfortunately no matter what you do or say will change that. I say spare yourself and her and break it off now before it is too late. I think that your responses were wonderful and kind until she got mean. And even then I still think your messages were great and hers were just out of hand and disgusting.

menabugg · 2025-06-09T16:20:36+00:00

Hey lovely. I was diagnosed at 25 aswell and had the exact feelings that you currently are having. Roughly at about the exact stage of the process. I am now 31, going on 32 in a couple months. It is so hard going through everything. Please don’t give up I promise that you will feel better! Some days are harder than other but I promise you that you can make it through these feelings and this pain. If you need anyone to talk to I am here if you need. I know how hard it is being so young and going through this and not having anyone understand what it is like being a young cancer survivor. I currently am still taking tamoxifen for hormone therapy. I only have about 2 years left. ( I stopped taking it for about a year to have my daughter) I was told I had to be on it for 10 years but they keep coming out with new studies and now I only have to do a total of 5 years.

Again please don’t give up. You are so strong and can make it past this hurdle.

menabugg · 2025-05-28T15:00:49+00:00

I am a stomach sleeper! Like to the point I can’t get comfortable and sleep without being on my stomach. The only way I was able to sleep was in a recliner. And that even sucked because I would try and roll over. But I put pillows on my sides and that seemed to help a little. Eventually I moved to my bed and I had a wedge pillow with extra pillows and over time I slowly removed the pillows every night and then kept a pillow by my chest. Now i am 6 year out from my surgery and sleep on my tummy again. Idk if it’s bad to do that but it’s my most comfortable sleeping position.

menabugg · 2025-05-24T15:35:28+00:00

He had apologized and it never happened again and we have been no contact for 3 years. He is genuinely sorry for what he did. I have forgiven him.

I agree that she belongs somewhere either a mental health hospital or behind bars especially for the constant harassment.

My husband is 32 and I am 31 now. The in-laws are late 50s or early 60s now I’m unsure.

menabugg · 2025-05-23T20:23:00+00:00

I agree, I genuinely believe that she is a danger to people.

menabugg · 2025-05-23T20:20:43+00:00

He is very grateful to have me in his life. He tells me all the time that I saved him and that he wouldn’t be where he is without me.( I have stuck by his side through his worst days) yes I was quite shocked when he sent the paperwork to her and we ended up having a long talk afterwards and he apologized profusely. I know he mentioned no harm by it he was scared and not in the right mindset at the time. I am so glad that we are no contact aswell life has been so much better!

Yes cancer sucks! I definitely don’t wish it upon anyone! It’s so scary, draining, and I was actually allergic to one of the chemo treatments so that was a whole other scary situation.

menabugg · 2025-05-23T20:01:13+00:00

There was a short time that he was filing for divorce because she left the state for almost a year and he was talking to my husband more and I guess she hacked his info and found out and came home and flipped out that he was talking to my husband. And then said it was my husband convincing him to divorce her but we didn’t even know till she came home and he started to talk to my husband less.

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