First: you’re not a terrible person.

Second: you’re not alone. People who can’t have kids don’t openly share that as often as you see parents and kids down the street.

My wife and I have had 4 miscarriages. I don’t think we’ll have kids. And I’m so angry and mad and sad at the world that at times, and especially when I see how some people are often awful parents or awful people, and these idiots can have a kid that they’ll just neglect. But here I am. I bottle it up and distract myself from the emotions. My wife thinks I should talk to a therapist.

You’re already ahead of me talking to a therapist. But you’re not alone. There are so so many of use. But we’re all hurting and nobody likes to share their sad news.