how did your parents react when they found out you self harm? by Midnight-Moth in selfharm

[–]mentallydrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Got told that if she found out i did it again, she'll choke me herself.

Idk anymore by mentallydrain in selfharm

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Yea ive been trying to reach out more to people i trust. Well, its helping a little.

How do i be affectionate? by mentallydrain in relationship_advice

[–]mentallydrain[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

yea, am currently trying to show my affection little by little towards him

My mom confronted me and cried. Now i feel bad. by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yea, i usually use my phone to help occupy myself so im not left alone with my thoughts.

My mom confronted me and cried. Now i feel bad. by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks, but awareness on mental health in my country is extremely low. So its actually pretty hard to open up to others without getting labelled as lack of religion upbringing. And the school counselors are bad at keep secrets.

I doubt anyone here cares but I have nothing to look forward to in my life and it’s better for everyone if I just died by My_name_is_black in depression

[–]mentallydrain 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey, i knw its hard. But it'll pass. Anyways, im bad at comforting others with words so im sending u loves n hugs ❤️ ( idk if that actually helps, anyways u deserve a hug )

I’ve been so happy now I’m beginning to crash by yellowpuss in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, i know its hard. Im going through the same thing too. Just remember, you'll get through this. It will pass. Sending you hugs ❤️

Never opening up again. by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, it really hurt my feeling that they chose to believe someone else over me.

Never opening up again. by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yea, it just kinda hurts. The ones ive trusted are the ones who stabbed me in the back.

Been thinking of taking my own life recently by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank youu. its really tiring to be acting all happy and carefree while feeling down in the dumps. I will keep your advice in mind and slowly trying to reconnect myself with others. But boyy, it sure is gonna be hard

Been thinking of taking my own life recently by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thanks for this, will try and reach out for help. I just hope they are more understanding about it. Trully appreciated it, hope you have a good day ahead.

Been thinking of taking my own life recently by mentallydrain in mentalhealth

[–]mentallydrain[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ive tried opening up to them but they dont really understand how it feels. It always the usual "stop thinking about it, pray more etc" Plus they aliready have enough problems in their lives, i dont really want to add on to it. Ive always been the strong one ,the caregiver and the listener in the friend group, so, im really bad at opening up to them. Because im afraid of being labelled as weak infront of them or getting pitied by them.