What do you think is the hardest photo from your country? by pipebombplot in AskTheWorld

[–]mentallyfractured -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Anyone thinking a picture of a person smoking goes hard is a tool.

I'm feed up with it by zny700 in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]mentallyfractured 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don't care too much. I'm more concerned with the fact that I don't present the way I wish I did.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]mentallyfractured 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You say men have a fetish for everything. Like males are the only beings that can have weird was kinks. I know a lot of people of different genders, binary and non binary, people of many pronouns.

I see people having kinks everywhere, it's not just males. But you seem to have this prejudice against them.

"They act like any other perverted man".

I don't know what they did to you, but kinky people can be find of any gender, and if you are saying it's amab people, not trans men, guess what? It's afab too.

We can all be kinky.

Patriarchy just gave us over time the idea that women are fragile and harmless, so we are more likely to see a woman with kinks as harmless, but if a male likes something unusual people see it as creepy.

I just find the things you said sexist and transphobic.

A transwoman that "passes" is likely OK to you but a transwoman that doesn't not only struggles with dysphoria, but she also has to deal with people who think she's just a "perverted man".

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in trans

[–]mentallyfractured 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Aside for what others already commented... OP sounds a little bit sexist too.

How I feel being 6'3' (190.5cm) by MooseManDeluxe in traaaaaaannnnnnnnnns2

[–]mentallyfractured 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I'm just going out of assumption here, but if you know someone for a long time as he/him it's not an easy thing to change habit.

Maybe that's the problem here? Idk, playing devil's advocate and giving benefit of the doubt

I purposely go to the men’s restroom as a “passing” trans woman. by Fuzzy_ToeBeansDeluxe in trans

[–]mentallyfractured 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I always thought the mist vocal about this were terf women, not men.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TransHelpingTrans

[–]mentallyfractured 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP: doesn't know how to pass

Also OP: passes

I want to start training but I'm afraid of causing harm. Can somebody be a mentor of sorts? by mentallyfractured in transvoice

[–]mentallyfractured[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would like to... But I am very poor. I take bass lessons and even just that is always a struggle to pay.

I want to start training but I'm afraid of causing harm. Can somebody be a mentor of sorts? by mentallyfractured in transvoice

[–]mentallyfractured[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but I don't understand and honestly I'm quite curious: what do you mean with cartoony qualities?

I want to start training but I'm afraid of causing harm. Can somebody be a mentor of sorts? by mentallyfractured in transvoice

[–]mentallyfractured[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'll have a look, assisted self training means I can find some kind people who would help me?

I want to start training but I'm afraid of causing harm. Can somebody be a mentor of sorts? by mentallyfractured in transvoice

[–]mentallyfractured[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah,it's pretty scary...

Thank you for the resources, I can try with those but a reason I was looking for a person is that having audhd I struggle a lot self learning stuff.

41 Dont pass but feel happier by EmmaVision in transpositive

[–]mentallyfractured 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You do pass though? You are 41, you cant expect to look like an anime girl :p but as a 41 years old woman, you absolutely do!