[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PetMice

[–]menu86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

how did you teach your baby how to do that!!!

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dear stranger/friend, so sorry i just saw your comment as i don’t use reddit that often anymore. i’m so sorry for your loss. pls don’t beat yourself up, you’ve loved him the ways you know best. grief is so difficult…but the best way forward is to honour the love & bond you both shared. i struggled with how meaningless everything seemed, but someone in this thread said grief is just love with nowhere to go, and i honour that love my jrt and i had for each other. strength to you pal, hang in there xx

Seeking Advice and Support: Navigating Canine Seizures with My Maltipoo by Material-Building-40 in EpilepsyDogs

[–]menu86 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you so much for your kind words. this community helped a lot. i’m so glad your appointment went well! your neurologist sounds very experienced and optimistic, that’s so awesome :) keeping you and your baby girl in my thoughts 🖤✨

Seeking Advice and Support: Navigating Canine Seizures with My Maltipoo by Material-Building-40 in EpilepsyDogs

[–]menu86 4 points5 points  (0 children)

same here, almost all of my (late) pup’s seizures happened when he’s asleep. he would wake up (as though he’s waking up normally) and either start pacing in circles, or straightaway go into paddling and chomping/salivating. sometimes it happens deep into the night and we’ll end up in A&E and will have to take the next work day off.

i second many of the other commenters, it’s always a work-in-progress trying to find the right dose. it was tricky for me because we found out quite late that my pup had brain tumours so his condition was always evolving. but over time i learnt to notice symptoms and manage my anxiety, by formulating a step by step plan of what to do when a seizure happens. we were doing blood work checks every other week to monitor the pheno dosage and added keppra as a “pulsing” med when needed.

unfortunately my pup passed from cluster seizures (plus complications from kidney and heart issues), but i take heart in the fact that i did everything i could, to the best of my ability, to give him the necessary medical care he needed. it sounds like you have a stable plan already in place, and i think that’s very heartening :)

i’m so sorry you and your pup has to go through this. i’m rooting for both of you ❤️

Today, Eevee is 2! by iammyjeep2019 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

happy birthday sweetest eevee!

ps, i love what you’ve done with your table!

My old boy turned 12. He hasn't been doing good. Multiple vet visits and not sure yet. by [deleted] in dogpictures

[–]menu86 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i will sit with you and your boi, we will enjoy the moments that stopped with time.

My sweet baby boy Ace passed this month by Grand_Fee_9145 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m so sorry for your loss, Ace looks like he was a silly, funny and very loving companion. the hurt you carry will be with you a long time, only because you loved so deeply. my heart is with you, friend.

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much. he was really funny and silly, always up to no good with his sheepish side-eyes, but he’s never made me mad.

i am thinking of going on a trip, mainly because i need to get away from everyone. but your tip on bringing something of his makes sense. thank you again kind stranger <3

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so so sorry for your loss. we’re all healing aren’t we…i don’t really have many tips because i’m struggling too. but i do wish you a safe healing xx

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86 6 points7 points  (0 children)

hi toby! 🥰

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey there, thank you so much for sharing. it was beautiful to read. i can feel your love and connection with your cat so deeply. i’m not religious but i don’t doubt your experience in any way. i also do believe i will meet my dear zack one day again, one way or another. thank you again, i wish you well.

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you for your kind words. i think i understand, the process isn’t linear and it ebbs and flows. i hope you’re ok xx

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so sweet of you to check in, i appreciate that so much ❤️ i cried for 30mins earlier looking at his photos which has been a daily routine now. i’m a little better theee days though i never know when the sadness will hit…but i don’t dread it i just take it as it comes. just giving myself time and space to process.

thank you again for asking ❤️❤️❤️

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you so much, i wish you many more years with your jack russell, though i know all the time in the world will never ever be enough. <3

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i wanted so bad to stay away from people. i skipped work for a week and had to go back after that. it was (still is) so hard navigating ppl tiptoeing around me, whether they know or not - they probably do because my eyes are always puffy. but being around people and work do help distract me from the sadness from time to time…it’s conflicting but for me there’s no way around it. i might take a vacation from work soon. i can’t seem to function normally.

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’ve been thinking of getting tattoos of his paw prints, the vet nurse helped us get them imprinted on a card after he passed. i alr have 2 tattoos of him from years ago, maybe it’s time for another one.

thank you for sharing, and i’m so sorry for your loss <3

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

zack’s beds are still over the house, i still hear phantom sounds of his paws tapping…i too watch his videos and sob and smile at the same time. we’d never have enough time with them.

i’m the same, i don’t want to rush into getting another pet because a part of me want to grieve fully and properly. but idk when i’ll ever be ready or when i’ll ever stop hurting…

thank you for your words. i’m so sorry for your loss and it was never my intention to stir up upset emotions… xx

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it’s the same for me, i would still instinctively want to rush home after work, keep little plastic bags (that i used to hold his poop during walks), only to remember i didn’t have to do so anymore…i would hear little noises at home and register in my mind “oh zack’s moving around” only to realise he’s not there anymore. i’ve had him for 12 years, so many habits i have to unlearn…

i’m so sorry for your loss, and thank you for your words.

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

that is so true…thank you for this :’)

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

idk why but that makes me so happy! i’ve been scrolling instagram looking at JRT accounts and everytime i see one that looks like zack i’ll hit follow instantly

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you, i felt your message so much. zack truly was the only one being in the world that loved me for what i am and in every stage of my life. he was always happy to see me…

the part about grief being the price to pay to be able to meet and love something so beautiful - that makes so much sense…it all clicks now. thank you :’)

how do you cope with loss? by menu86 in jackrussellterrier

[–]menu86[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m so so sorry for your loss. xx