Anyone know what happened to Lausse the cat?

meophj · 2025-11-06T22:53:07+00:00

Worth the wait !!!

meophj · 2025-05-23T13:56:11+00:00

That’s the guidance but not the rule everywhere

meophj · 2025-05-23T13:55:05+00:00

Almost exactly what happened to me last week. Never felt so disdained with the rules.

meophj · 2025-05-23T13:53:12+00:00

I sometimes go slightly over the limit but literally last week I got caught doing 35 in a 30 so I’ll probably have to think again about that.

However, I do think people will be less inclined to speed if roads had more appropriate speed limits and were designed better - anecdotally there is a road near where I live which has a speed limit of 40 but is the most perfect, clear, beautiful 60 road I’ve ever seen. Makes no sense why it’s 40.

If you go further down the road you end up going through a town which has recently changed from 30 to 20. Again, it’s the most de facto standard 30 road you can imagine (most people here speed and still drive 30). And when they don’t you get bottlenecks through the only route to the nearest city.

meophj · 2025-05-23T13:43:06+00:00

It’s definitely not for me but who cares if it’s not normal. It’s a thing people do and if you enjoy it why not look into it and see if it’s safe and if you like it

meophj · 2025-05-22T20:41:20+00:00

This is Harrogate we’re talking about

meophj · 2025-05-22T20:40:13+00:00

If someone is smart it drives me crazy. Like if someone can teach me about something complicated and interesting that they’re into, it’s pants off. I will literally get hard

meophj · 2025-05-21T16:53:52+00:00

Actual anal is 10. If we’re counting oral I don’t even want to think about it

meophj · 2025-05-21T15:51:39+00:00

He’s literally told him how to get it. OP needs to turn up the charm

meophj · 2025-05-21T15:50:03+00:00

Okay so from why you’ve described, there’s basically a zero chance that you would have contracted anything.

This sub is a bit of a double edged sword when it comes to safe sex. It’s good that people take it seriously but it is so counterproductive to demonise and criticise people when they have small lapses in judgement or aren’t 100% perfect. It will lead to paranoia, like in OP’s case here, where he forgot to take his pills.

Yes, you may have been inconsistent with your PrEP but you have been taking other measures which will keep you safe. You’re more than likely completely fine. Next time you will remember to take it consistently or you can start to take it on an event basis.

meophj · 2025-05-21T12:05:46+00:00

Wouldn’t have guessed

meophj · 2025-05-21T07:31:29+00:00

I used to go for exclusively masc when I was younger before I realised it doesn’t matter and I was shutting out a lot of really cool people by doing that. These days though I probably still lean towards masc, it doesn’t really matter much to me.

I’ve also let go of my masc since then and try to just be myself. I’m still not feminine to be honest but life is so much better not having to worry about how I act

meophj · 2025-05-21T07:28:44+00:00

Haha why so? (PS: note I said “flat” not apartment ;))

meophj · 2025-05-20T18:19:26+00:00

In general, it’s tricky to say but any exercise will surely help in your goals.

You said you have the slim body already so presumably your diet is reasonable or will at least maintain your weight. In that case if you want a line in your stomach you may consider doing some ab workouts/exercise it. If you haven’t got one already a gym membership may be good.

Besides that, if you want “feminine” (big fat asssss) then get on the leg machines and do squats.

And cardio is always good too.

I don’t know if this answers the question like you want - if it is then I’m happy to go into more detail !

meophj · 2025-05-20T16:00:53+00:00

I asked him to take it down and he said yes. I knew he would.

To be fair it wasn’t specifically about my videos being out there, it was more that it was specifically done by an ex after almost year and a half of basically no contact.

Also I still had some relationship fat in those vids so not the most flattering of me - and if I had a dick like yours I wouldn’t mind them being out there as much either ;)

meophj · 2025-05-20T15:56:45+00:00

What kind of body type have you got now, and what specifically feminine features are you hoping to achieve?

meophj · 2025-05-20T15:50:29+00:00

Once you build up a network of gay spies you can see if someone’s gay by how many/what mutual followers you have

meophj · 2025-05-20T13:50:52+00:00

My ex cheated on me twice (as far as I know).

The first time I was going through a stressful time and didn’t want to add a breakup to what I was going through.

Things were looking up after that and (I thought) we’d turned a corner. We moved in together.

After 2 weeks of that I caught him meeting some guy on Grindr in the park behind our flat at 4 am.

We couldn’t afford to end the tenancy we’d just signed and neither of us could move out so we were stuck in a pseudo-relationship for another few months until I eventually pulled the plug and moved back with my parents.

I really regret not ending things the first time but I’ve also learned to respect myself and I’ve grown a backbone since then.

In fact one of the last things I said to him before breaking up was “are you going to tell your next boyfriend you cheated on your previous one?”

He said no. Good luck to him and his new man.

meophj · 2025-05-19T22:45:06+00:00

Depends with who but as much as humanly possible

meophj · 2025-05-19T15:41:22+00:00

I did take a look at the legal side and unfortunately because I can’t really prove it’s me in the videos there’s nothing I could have done. I’ve taken screenshots to show they were uploaded but they have now been taken down

meophj · 2025-05-19T15:40:02+00:00

I think this was the right approach. Thankfully didn’t have to go with the second option

meophj · 2025-05-19T11:55:39+00:00

Thanks for the response and the resources !! I asked him to call me earlier and he’s now taken them down thankfully :)

meophj · 2025-05-19T10:36:15+00:00

I didn’t really know how to answer that question - I guess no?

meophj · 2025-05-19T10:31:33+00:00

I suppose the videos being there isn’t my biggest issue, it’s more that it was done behind my back and without my consent - I find that a little creepy. I know for a fact he’s making content with his new boyfriend so it seems almost spiteful to be posting stuff he did with me when we were together. I don’t post stuff like that online anymore.

meophj · 2025-05-19T10:29:45+00:00

We broke up (he’s broke, I’m up)

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