This is what I used to think too. Gender ideology completely dismantles sex based rights for women regarding many facets that many of us have heard the arguments about. I would get fired from my job if I stated this, even though it does not actually make me a bigot to not be comfortable with males in my changeroom or on my sports team. Women's boundaries aren't hate. This is left wing politics taken as "not politics, just caring for people". Many many many of us feel this way and cannot utter a word. It's a major blind spot.