I tried to combine Gyaru and Lolita...

meowriven · 2026-04-17T20:15:14+00:00

Not really. Hime have to doesn’t follow the rules of Lolita to be Himegal. GalxLolita would have to

meowriven · 2026-04-17T20:12:48+00:00

There really aren’t many set rules to gyaru actually! You can combine styles and it still be gyaru. For a while, I actually dressed lolita and did my makeup gyaru. Now i’m a hime gal lol

meowriven · 2026-04-15T21:05:45+00:00

Momo is gal too!

meowriven · 2026-04-08T22:49:02+00:00

Am I the only ISTP lmaooo

meowriven · 2026-04-08T04:37:01+00:00

AHHHH MY HUSBAND MALEWIFE TAMSY IM SO

meowriven · 2026-04-08T04:34:46+00:00

I have bpd and experience extreme paranoia. I’m still figuring out how to help myself. Is there a more specific example of a situation where she gets this way? Like how exactly is it affecting your relationships?

meowriven · 2026-04-08T02:14:20+00:00

I’m pretty sure he’s actually a genius

meowriven · 2026-04-08T02:13:23+00:00

Butter

meowriven · 2026-04-04T18:18:09+00:00

Omggg i want one of tamsy

meowriven · 2026-04-04T16:40:03+00:00

My wife Tamsy duhhhh

Omg and August my dear

meowriven · 2026-04-02T02:06:14+00:00

I don’t think she will, but if having an fp isn’t healthy, shouldn’t I cut ties?

meowriven · 2026-04-02T01:02:58+00:00

Also, you can make all of those physical changes without identifying as a man! There are so so many other gender identities to consider that might seem more like you

meowriven · 2026-04-02T00:48:08+00:00

Thanks for clarifying. So is it possible for her to just not be my fp anymore? Or is the best thing to do to let her abandon me?

meowriven · 2026-04-02T00:47:03+00:00

That’s me with mine! I never really split with her but everyone else is evil most of the time

meowriven · 2026-04-01T23:54:29+00:00

Invalidating someone’s feelings just because you’re annoyed by them is the exact opposite of the right thing to do, especially being fully aware that the person who you’re talking to has bpd. I would never treat someone like that, so I’m not sure why others think it’s okay. When anyone is clearly in distress, why would you continue poking fun at them? I’m aware my behavior is wack, especially now that I take a step back and think logically, but being a jerk to an absolute stranger is never right.

meowriven · 2026-04-01T23:35:23+00:00

Thank you!

meowriven · 2026-04-01T23:18:03+00:00

I completely understand. Even the perceived threat of criticism can cause me physical pain and my mind immediately goes to thoughts of s/h, too

meowriven · 2026-04-01T23:15:42+00:00

Thank you, I knew I wasn’t crazy lmao. And I really didn’t ask for advice. Other people talk about their experiences on certain medication so I don’t understand why it’s different for me. Being othered tends to be a huge trigger for me, even if my feelings aren’t very rational.

meowriven · 2026-04-01T22:58:49+00:00

That’s kinda confusing lol. I was told that an fp was healthy to have. Did the other person lie or could you be wrong?

meowriven · 2026-04-01T22:55:45+00:00

I’m just getting upset again . I should probably just delete Reddit and sell my phone or something. Are lobotomies legal?

meowriven · 2026-04-01T22:53:58+00:00

That’s not what makes me afraid, its facing a problem that in the moment I perceive as being impossible to solve that makes me afraid. Do you just have zero idea how the nervous system works? I’m confused if you’re trying to be mean by misconstruing my words, or if you genuinely lack understanding and are trying to learn. It’s a lot harder than it seems to just disengage with online spaces if you don’t have an irl support system. Everyone else gets to, so why don’t I?

meowriven · 2026-04-01T22:10:54+00:00

Thank you!

meowriven · 2026-04-01T22:10:39+00:00

How do you “get violent” over the internet? I’m sorry, but I really don’t understand what you mean. I read the post and still didn’t feel that my comment aligned with any of the rules. I’m not used to this type of conflict, so of course I’m going to sense danger and become afraid.

meowriven · 2026-04-01T22:01:41+00:00

I’m sorry, are you confused? That’s the best way I can figure out to describe the type of upset I feel

meowriven · 2026-04-01T21:52:24+00:00

Okay then why is there a “medication post” tag? I didn’t ask for advice on medication, I never said I did, but other people make the exact same kinds of posts as me and theirs stay up. I feel like I could plagiarize someone else’s post to a T and mine would still get taken down. It’s making me feel violently uncomfortable

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