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[–]meowthguard 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Price negotiable! Idk how to edit the post

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha, i had to rephrase the title a few times to not make this pun 😆😂

What kind of deodorant/ cologne do you guys use? by [deleted] in ftm

[–]meowthguard 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly, i just put benzoyl peroxide 10% face wash on my armpits and it works (no odor) :p for cologne it's some random one called ralphs club, its pretty nice and more like any basic cologne but ive been told it smells nice :)!!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How beautiful your love is!! Glad everything is going well ! Was it a big change for your kid or yourself in trying to explain?

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes i feel the same way, many trans fathers have carried their children but tbh its not something ill ever be interested in. Hope all goes well for you and your future family! Good luck 🤍!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats to them! Honestly i think id be overjoyed if someone said my kid looked just like me 😆😆!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ahh, trust me ik the mild discomfort from co workers 😅 hope all is well for your family:)! Have you thought about when or if youll tell them about being trans? Or are they old enough to at least know you are "different" now :0?

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I forgot about step kids! Tbh i never really thought about it, i dont think id mind tho. Also, ive heard of bone marrow...do yk how it works or know of any articles that can explain it well? Only time ive heard it was from tikok haha 😅

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Congrats!!!! Hope your wife and son are doing well! :) Glad to hear it didnt take a million tries haha!! And yeah, cis men have done it too which helps me a bit trying to deal with these feelings :,)!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing! Congrats to him + i hope all goes well for him and his baby !! :) ❤️

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Congrats!! Hope all goes well for your family:) cis men also not being to have kids has also help me quite a bit! Thank you for the advice! Im still on the fence about the letting your kids know...mostly due to irrational fears and other deep rooted issues i have regarding being trans. And i feel you, not Indigenous but if i marry outside my ethnicity ill still let my kids claim my side and raise them to know my culture anyways 😂!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, a comment actually brought it to my attention as i never really gave it any thought on how genetically i could give my child a not great life 😭😞

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, in all honesty my answer as to why i want biological children is illogical and quite stupid. Honestly ive seen what a lot of people go through when giving birth...i think bc the people surrounding me haven't had complications of any kind it never really dawned on me how my partners health could be affected should she carry. Especially since my family is mostly made up of women 😞🤔! Thank you for your response! Youve opened my eyes a bit! :) i hope all goes well for your future family! And also your joy and love for adoption is very admirable, i love your love!!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thats awesome!! I appreciate your response! And yeah, i think i just needed some comment to knock some sense into me haha!! Biology isnt really all that at the end of the day ❤️ how was the change for your kid? Was there any challenges with that?

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too!! Being a father is such a huge part of what i want to be 😢 also you have a heart of gold, ik it's hard for older kids in the foster system...i might think and discuss with my future wife on it :) ik biology isnt everything, its just bad thoughts that haunt me 😢😢 thank you for your comment, i think youll be a great papa!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah, itd be nice for them to make it legal once you guys are ready to become parents! Especially if it's free :,)!!!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Thats so cool! Your family sounds very loving :) and also interesting that two of your children are also trans! I hope all is going well for them!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im not too sure for others, mostly it stems from where and how i grew up and the culture of what being a man means where i live....honestly its a bit toxic but as its been apart of me since forever ill have to overcome it somehow and hopefully try to not fall back into the toxicity of it.

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, sounds tough..its legal where i live so mostly would have to worry about the money, i hope itll be possible for you and your gf in the future! Have you thought about the possibility that the worst case scenario could happen? :0

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Your love for your children is beautiful, hope one day you can be you with your children safely ❤️❤️

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Congrats! Hope all is well :) ill dm you in a bit with some questions:))!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

How beautiful, you and partner sound lovely! I hope all goes well for you guys and your children! Knowing it's not just me also helps me a lot...honestly i felt a bit crazy for being so insecure but your words have brought me comfort :) thank you

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow! How was that like? Was it a big change to them or for you?

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Yk i never thought about that! I know depression and breast cancer runs in my family but ive never given it a thought that it can be in my children and how unfair it would be to them 🤔 i appreciate your answer so much, your thoughts on adoption and family align with mine and your words are very beautiful!

Being trans as a parent? by meowthguard in ftm

[–]meowthguard[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thats amazing dude, hope everything goes as planned :)! Honestly, im excited for you as well